Just that. There's really no other reason to for a guy that old to pursue a girl that young other that he's a hot young thing-well, other than to have a trophy or feel young again
You might be surprised to learn how well we click. She has complained many times about her former relationships that do not understand her.
Most of the women I have dated over the past 20 years are from 19 to 27 years old, averaging 23 when we meet. They specifically dislike boys their age. You may be surprised that one of the reasons why they prefer older men is because the sex is better for them. It is just as accurate to say they are using older men for sex.
I know happily married couples of 20, 25, and even 30 year age differences.
@WalterRadio ''You may be surprised that one of the reasons why they prefer older men is because the sex is better for them'' sounds like that's your ego talking. ''It is just as accurate to say they are using older men for sex.''-i very much doubt that. those past relationships obviously didn't last-they confuse age with maturity-an incorrect assumption.
No, it is not ego, it is the answer to a question.
I always ask the young women I go out with on the first date, "Why do you like older men?"
The number one reason is "because they don't make me pay [for a date]". They complain how boys their age expect them to pay half the cost of the date, even if the boy is the one that asked them out. They like to be taken care of.
The number two answer is "because they know what they are doing [in bed]". There isn't enough space here to list the sexual complaints I've heard of younger men. A good example with the first sex I had with one 20 year old, after having gone down on her for 20 minutes and her having enough of multiples, she sat up and exclaimed, "Now THAT'S why I like older men!" Experience matters, and so does paying attention to the girl's desires, not getting one's rocks off in 2 minutes.
Here is the funny thing. Not every girl is attracted to older men. Fine. But the ones that are seem to swear to never date a younger boy again.
@WalterRadio the first is a given. as for the second-even if that is true-sounds like you're just bragging-which in my experience-usually is often exaggerated. ''But the ones that are seem to swear to never date a younger boy again.'' sounds like the ego talking
I am not exaggerating. They specifically dislike boys. That doesn't mean that when they are 35 that they wouldn't find a 40 year old attractive, it just means they don't find 20 somethings attractive even if they are themselves.
The young women I date are more mature than other girls and boys their age. They won't go out with a 35 year old living in his parents house any more than a 25 year old who does. But the number of older men who are mature exceeds by orders of magnitude the number of younger boys who are.
As long as they have logical reasons for those matters, then who cares? The issue we face is "Ooo, she's really hot." Go up to her, talk to her, she's cool, interested in her... somehow her age then comes up. And you are suddenly like "OH MY GOD YOU AREN'T THE PERSON I THOUGHT YOU WERE"
If anyone can be described as the "you" above, they are foolish.
Except there are. For a communist it might seem illogical how someone could be a capitalist whereas for a capitalist it would seem illogical to be a communist.
The same way to you age does not matter due to your subjective logic but to others it does.
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You're a moron.
I agree, age is just a number
Yes, it does. Bigtime.
Okay. You going to actually explain how, or why, or whatever? Or anything?
Nice take
It does matter. In the long run...
In the long run they'll both be dead. Won't matter then.
most guys that old wants a girl that young for sex
Most guys want to have sex with any girl they're interested in, regardless of their ages. I don't get the point of your comment.
And what do young guys want girls for? Not for doing their laundry.
Just that. There's really no other reason to for a guy that old to pursue a girl that young other that he's a hot young thing-well, other than to have a trophy or feel young again
@WalterRadio sex is a part of it-but not the sole reason-at least not for me
My girlfriend is 21. I am older than her mother.
You might be surprised to learn how well we click. She has complained many times about her former relationships that do not understand her.
Most of the women I have dated over the past 20 years are from 19 to 27 years old, averaging 23 when we meet. They specifically dislike boys their age. You may be surprised that one of the reasons why they prefer older men is because the sex is better for them. It is just as accurate to say they are using older men for sex.
I know happily married couples of 20, 25, and even 30 year age differences.
@WalterRadio ''You may be surprised that one of the reasons why they prefer older men is because the sex is better for them'' sounds like that's your ego talking. ''It is just as accurate to say they are using older men for sex.''-i very much doubt that. those past relationships obviously didn't last-they confuse age with maturity-an incorrect assumption.
No, it is not ego, it is the answer to a question.
I always ask the young women I go out with on the first date, "Why do you like older men?"
The number one reason is "because they don't make me pay [for a date]". They complain how boys their age expect them to pay half the cost of the date, even if the boy is the one that asked them out. They like to be taken care of.
The number two answer is "because they know what they are doing [in bed]". There isn't enough space here to list the sexual complaints I've heard of younger men. A good example with the first sex I had with one 20 year old, after having gone down on her for 20 minutes and her having enough of multiples, she sat up and exclaimed, "Now THAT'S why I like older men!" Experience matters, and so does paying attention to the girl's desires, not getting one's rocks off in 2 minutes.
Here is the funny thing. Not every girl is attracted to older men. Fine. But the ones that are seem to swear to never date a younger boy again.
@WalterRadio the first is a given. as for the second-even if that is true-sounds like you're just bragging-which in my experience-usually is often exaggerated. ''But the ones that are seem to swear to never date a younger boy again.'' sounds like the ego talking
@Sabretooth It does a bit, sure, but who cares? There's also probably at least some truth to it.
That is a word for word quote.
I am not exaggerating. They specifically dislike boys. That doesn't mean that when they are 35 that they wouldn't find a 40 year old attractive, it just means they don't find 20 somethings attractive even if they are themselves.
@WalterRadio age doesn't = maturity
It doesn't have to.
The young women I date are more mature than other girls and boys their age. They won't go out with a 35 year old living in his parents house any more than a 25 year old who does. But the number of older men who are mature exceeds by orders of magnitude the number of younger boys who are.
They matter to some.
As long as they have logical reasons for those matters, then who cares? The issue we face is "Ooo, she's really hot." Go up to her, talk to her, she's cool, interested in her... somehow her age then comes up. And you are suddenly like "OH MY GOD YOU AREN'T THE PERSON I THOUGHT YOU WERE"
If anyone can be described as the "you" above, they are foolish.
Foolish to you. They have every right to think that way.
If being illogical doesn't make someone a fool, then fools don't exist.
Illogical for you, again. They have their logic and their reasoning.
... Um. What? Logic is logic. There aren't different versions of it. That's like saying there are different versions of addition and subtraction.
Except there are. For a communist it might seem illogical how someone could be a capitalist whereas for a capitalist it would seem illogical to be a communist.
The same way to you age does not matter due to your subjective logic but to others it does.
I can't believe I have to explain this.
I can't believe I had to either.
Indeed.
They matter to me
yes,
finally someone who agrees
I'm tired of seeing 45 yr old men with a woman in her 20s
like seriously if they're 45 then they should go for someone who's 43 or 47,
stay away from us Young people am I right
@JellyDonutguy96 indeed you are
absolutely,
so follow for a follow,
@meadow-beauty Can you be more specific? Did you actually read the Take?
Tbh, I didn't read all of it but yeah I am sure that I won't date a guy who is more than 7-8 years older than me
Sigh. So why is that your range? And isn't that "older?" It is.
Maybe you could read the Take and see what you think.
@meadow-beauty Still waitin'.
I disagree.
Age matters. End of discussion.
Ah! Well said. /s
You forgot the "to me." at the end of your assertion.
Totally agree
Great myTake
They matter
Okay. You going to say why, or how, or anything?
Great take
Great take
Yes they do.
Would you like to offer perspective?
When the girl is 9 and the man is 40
Okay, so... you didn't actually read the Take. Try again. Look toward the end.