Do Women Have Unrealistic Expectations For Men? (Page 4)

[Anonymous]

I feel like much of these expectations stem from the many romance novels we read, basically what we read regardless of the source. Magazines and online articles tell you what to expect and if you're not that experienced you tend to be shaped by the expressed opinions.

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[bubble_tea]

I don't know why I get the feeling this take was written by a woman... doesn't mean I disagree with what's being said.

[Anonymous]

No, some men are simply assholes now a days and they think its ok

[marilynmansonssextoy]

agreed x_X

[zagor]

Yeah, but that really isn't related to his point.

[darkfoxjj]

I am a guy. I know lots of other guys. Literally none of them are Aholes. Also none of them would approach a woman easily either.

Do these guys you talk about approach you out of the blue or do you meet them via mutual friends?

[little_bird1]

No we don't. But I do think we often have unrealistic standards when it comes to looks.

[Afrajakia]

Thanks for your straight expression. I think you have dealt with the matter rightly.

[AmandaKoma]

I think that a lot of girls just want their dreams come true. Dreams about perfect man in a perfect world))

[JustWorthlessMe]

For women, looks is the biggest hurdle men have clear... if a man isn't attractive enough, none of his other qualities will matter because women will never talk to him.

[JustRollTheDice]

You really went full out😱 but yes everyone has sonething they are going to base upon

[Lance1965]

Yeah a lot of them do. A lot still want the fairy-tale romance, the knight in shining armor kind of BS.

[Anonymous]

If he’s not caring, he’s not fun and he’s not sexy... then what does she get? That’s the question.

[Opinion Owner]

I agree tho - u gotta offer what u want.

[Shyguy2001]

I mean yeah that's how century's of biological programming works.

[Wowgirl10q]

Men think monogogical women think polyloigcal. So yes

[Prankster13]

What does that mean?

[SaintJonesy]

@Prankster13 monological is thinking in a process. Polylogical is combining different paradigms.

[Prankster13]

@SaintJonesy What's a paradigm?

[SaintJonesy]

@Prankster13 essentially women are better at combining different thought patterns. They use more areas of their brain simultaneously. A paradigm is a pattern of thought.

[Prankster13]

@SaintJonesy Oh. So guys have a one track mind. Basically?

[SaintJonesy]

@Prankster13 hey man, you can choose to be offended if you want, but that is the way it works. Men engage one part of their brain fully, women engage multiple parts at once. It's the reason they are better multi-taskers, but men are better at spatial reasoning.

[Prankster13]

@SaintJonesy I'm not offended. I've just never thought about how our minds work differently. It's interesting.

[SaintJonesy]

@Prankster13 Oh sorry, I was too presumptuous, please forgive me for that haha. But yeah, even gender studies text-books (i. e. feminist text-books) acknowledge this difference. Obviously there will be some men who are better at multi-tasking than some women, and some women who are better at spatial reasoning than some men, but just like men are generally taller than women (although not always), they are generally better at process thinking; which helps in everything from following mechanical instructions to following recipes.

Men generally make better mechanics, engineers and surgeons; women generally make better medical doctors, diplomats, writers and project directors. Emphasis on the "generally" here too.

[Prankster13]

@SaintJonesy Oh cool. I never knew that. I'll have to check into it more that sounds very interesting.

[Anonymous]

Younger girls have ridiculous expectations, yes. They're at the peak of their sexual market value. Once they get older and men stop throwing themselves at them, they'll realize they don't shit rainbows. And take on a much more grounded perspective.

[sp33d]

I'm just short the 6' deal, do I get to bitch too about the qualities she needs to have?

.. oh this is so ridiculous

[Anonymous]

This is what men love:

[KenM9215]

you're right, we do enjoy a good stick figure drawing :P

[lord_chilled]

no...

lacks ass

[DonCachondo]

r/titsonastick literally!

[Juxtapose]

Is water wet?

And people wonder why I'm so careful in who I date.

[HereIbe]

Yup, they do. They can't help it, given that they've been brainwashed.

[TheUglyMan]

Hell yeah 80% of men have been taken out the market

[JellyDonutguy96]

I'm probably one of them

my romantic capabilities have been euthanized probably

[monkeynutts]

Yeah quite valid, particularly if a woman complains about being single all the time.

[Premm619]

yes everyone develop their expectation from reel world rather in real by watching tv shows, movies, ec