Get The Girl: Why Nice Guys Always Finish Last (Page 3)

[scooogy]

I get it, but how do I know that getting to know her before dating her wouldn't lead me straight into her friendzone?

[rozequarts]

Thats why I think the whole fake friendship thing in order to get close is bullshit. I think being straight up about wanting to get to know her in order to maybe date later on is the best bet. So basically, asking her out - if she says no then guess what you didn't waste any time on her by being "friends" and you can move on to the next girl. If she seems responsive to your interest, then go on casual coffee or lunch 'get to know you' dates, heck you can even do it in groups. Dating and friendship are not completely independent. When you begin a friendship - you're not dating. But when you begin dating - you ARE definitely friends too. So yeah, in my opinion, skip the friendship before dating. Just ask her out and see how it goes.

[RIVERTAY888]

l am very tuff now no more mr nice guy l am a dom daddy so my submissive girl will always get my firm hands to do all the spanking they are getting away with no more back chat to there daddy no more

[Anonymous]

Nice guys are great and need to not want a perfect girl.

[Anon-ymous1]

... This is about looks. Attractiveness. We all know it. It comes first, for both guys and girls (but for girls more).

[johnwalker732]

Personality traits don’t mean anything to women without the prerequisite that he’s good looking first, so...

[Anonymous]

Egoist assholes have premature ejaculation and finish before the girl.

[rozequarts]

Yes probably but thats less related to what I meant with this take LOL

[AdmiralBailey]

Keep being yourself fellaz. women don't have the foggiest clue of what they want

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I'm such a nice guy, I guess that's why women always reject me. 😢

[Montana07]

You're an asshole

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Montana07: Fallacy.

[Montana07]

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@Montana07: You desire a hug from me, but you ain't going to get it!

Learn to be nice first.

[Montana07]

LMFAO

[WomenBeJackin]

“That pretty face don’t match that nasty attitude. What do you mean where’s my girl? Prolly with your man. Can we fuck?”

[WomenBeJackin]

... Don’t forget the infinitely basic truth goes for guys as well as girls. nobody can fuck me as good as me. Women should consider the reality that the internet has made most reasonable man content with celibacy when it comes to you crazy bitches

[WomenBeJackin]

and everybody’s welcome for us finishing last, by the way

[Anonymous]

Girls are hoes. Any guy who isn’t a fuckboy is a loser beta male nice guy. Real men just use girls for sex and never date because they know what girls are like. This is what you should have said.

[Marinepilot]

Because girls in their prime are raging dumb asses !

[EatMyCandyxxx]

Very good article

[rozequarts]

Thank you!

[sunnyday35]

You cleared everything

[LegateLanius]

I've given up. I know that every guy can offer her the exact same thing or better and in my experience I'm just not attractive.

[rozequarts]

You look fine to me and b) I dont know what women you're looking for but a lot of us dont expect anything from y'all. We want to be treated nice and see you passionate about us, but yes, any guy into me can offer those things - so I would choose one guy over the other for who he is without me in the picture. What does he like, what does he want in life, do we have similarities, that kind of thing.

You are not like every guy out there I'm sure. The different things you have to offer are just apart of your personality, and you'll find a girl looking for the things in a guy that you do naturally.

[Jamaicanlove]

@rozequarts you pretty much just backtracked on your whole entire argument about niceguys -_-

[rozequarts]

@Jamaicanlove How so? Honestly I was trying to discuss the two different types of nice guys but I wasn't too articulate because I didn't think this take would get this popular.
Type one: Nice guy, who doesn't have to say he's a nice guy. He's just genuine, can hold a conversation, has hobbies or passions - the average joe. This type of guy is datable.
Type two: The guy who has no real interests of his own, and therefore doesn't really have much to talk about.
Type two nice guy usually has nothing to offer but his "niceness." Often this is also the same guy that is suuuper nice to women, but it feel unauthentic because its likely because he wants to sleep with us or date us. He uses his generosity to impress, but alone it doesn't do the trick.
Also when he gets rejected enough times, he hates on women.
I want my SO to be my best friend - that means endless talks. If I feel no chemistry or compatibility because he has nothing interesting about him, i don't really care how nice he is.

[LegateLanius]

@Jamaicanlove
Thanks, dude

[Jamaicanlove]

@rozequarts That's fine and dandy, but my point is that you just stated that women want to be treated nicely. I see you also stated that nice guy type b "usually has nothing to offer but his "niceness." My issue with that is EVERYONE has interests or passions. The fact that these men may feel insecure either about looks or what those interests entail, and try to compensate by being overly nice or pretend to be nice is the issue. They know woman want a good hearted man, but its difficult when for instance, you agreed that a man can't be a doormat in a comment below. That basically tells me women want a man who doesn't take anyone's shit, which is usually the assholes you tend to date (not you specifically).

[rozequarts]

@Jamaicanlove No. I think a doormat person - whether male or female, is just one who can't stand up for themselves. Girls want a nice guy, but he needs to stand up for himself (and his girl) when necessary. And believe me I have met guys who just agreed with me on everything, even when their actions show otherwise. Thats inauthentic, because they are too passive, they want to have things in common with me, sure - but they dont seem to like anything else or have anything else to discuss. I have to push the ENTIRE conversation, and I'm actually an introvert so that is exhausting. Maybe you're right, they're just nervous or worried about me judging. I never thought of it like that. But even then, being true to yourself should be the first priority not the girl.
On a first date with a really good guy, he was embarrased to tell me he still watched anime as an adult (i could tell), and he was shocked to learn I liked it too. Nervous is okay, pretending to be someone else isn't.

[Eryxx]

Interesting myTake.

[rozequarts]

Thanks!

[ENTP_EMO]

Pretty damn accurate

[rozequarts]

Glad to know you agree

[sarahhcmarie]

nice job

[rozequarts]

Thanks.

[Secretgardenblood]

Good take

[rozequarts]

Thank you.

[Secretgardenblood]

Welcome

[GayHowellMeme]

Nice myTake

[rozequarts]

Thank you.

[PrettyRegular]

Nice take. I agree.

[rozequarts]

Thank you!