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Why I Stopped Making the First Move! (Page 3)
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Welcome to the dating world. If you won't make the first move, somebody else standing by her will. If not, it's unlikely that she'll do it anyways. I would never approach a dude regardless of who it is. I like guys who are brave and confident.
I like girls who are brave and confident as well.
Welcome to my world.
Ah the modern woman... feminist enough to demand equal treatment, but "i'm just a little girl" enough to not behave equally. The dynamic between men and women nowadays is too convenient to not be intelligently designed. Oh well. Happy to indulge.
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Lol @ all the whining and bitching. I am by no means a "modern woman". I'm a traditional woman.
There is no "my world". There is only one dating world. In this world, guys who don't have the balls to make the first move are at a significant disadvantage since you will be competing against many brave and confident men who will approach them. This is independent from how brave and confident she is herself as unlike men, most brave and confident women don't want to approach either. Why would a chick make the first move on you when there are plenty of alpha males who will do it before she even notices you? Either man up or stay single because the vast majority of women won't make the first move regardless of what YOU want and how much you complain. It's the way it is. Approaching has always been the man's role and that is not going to change over your repressed feelings and self-esteem issues.
@demonics May God help you. You really do need it. Amen.
If you read myTake again you would realize that the problem is not having balls. The problem is that I as a human being got tired of how women expect men to always make the first move. I decided to put a stop to that 11 years ago and I am now living with the consequences which I truly enjoy and have learned a lot from during the past decade. I will say it again, I do not mind being single till the day I die. I have learned to live like this and if I have to wait for that one girl who decided to step of her high horse then I will. I am not your average Joe... I am an Alien compared to every other man out there when it comes to how I see things. Have a nice day and please read carefully.
Good luck with that.
Starving man at buffet refuses to eat. Says he's okay with starving to death, but will wait for shrimp or dim sum or some other appetiser to jump into his mouth.
More at 11. And now Sports.
"I'm not wearing any pants. Film at 11."
In 2023, you will still be here writing the same thing (yawns)
The best way to approach women is to put your interest out there consistently and clearly, and let her take the next step if she is feeling comfortable. Most women are cool taking the first step if you don’t give them mixed signals
First move or not, it doesn't matter. I think it is better to give it a try than keep wondering.
😂😂😂✌ you haven't tried enough.
I read the title and then read what you wrote, it just made me laugh so hard for some reason because your question implied that you are soo fed up after making the first move many, many times.. But that wasn't the case at all. Sorry didn't mean to
Offend those downvoters.
Surely the vast majority of women would be very happy that men simply ignored them and left them alone. Most regard men as moronic , sex obsessed perverts , women want men to leave them well alone , and not bug them.
Yeah, you sound like a real catch.
I prefer more traditional romance. So guy making the first move and all that. I'm not a leader nor am I outgoing enough to make the first move.
Lmfao you're single because you have a ridiculous ego. Stop acting like a dick and open up to people. All that "I'm on my high horse so you women have to make the first move" shit just makes you sound angry and lonely. Relax and go meet someone nice.
Easy because I found my perfect match and married her.
I think most girls would expect the guy to make the first move. Sometimes you will find a girl who will make the first move but that's rarely.
I almost never make the first move myself because I get asked out every once in awhile and I prefer to have dominant women dating me anyway.
It's the current year. Men are the prize. If a bitch wants me, she can come and get me. I'm tired of chasing tail.
Yeap... Never make First Move before you registered your DICK inside Her PUSSY... then WAIT... lol
I prefer the guy making the first move
I'm one hundred percent with you on this.
Good luck with that
Nice profile pic.. is it you?
True making the first move is hard.
That's okay, I quit talking to women altogether.
For the same reasons?
@Moss777 I'm just going to get snubbed & ignored by them, they won't chat with me at all,... little alone would they even give me 2 seconds worth of their frickin' time, even if I got some of these ladies attention & we end up hitting it off nicely,... I know the relationship or the dating phase between them & I won't last long ( it never does anyways ), and if these women & I were to talk & get to know each other,...9 times out of 10 they'll just friendzone me anyways all because I'm not their type.
All in all,... that's the reason why I say "To hell with them".