I'm writing this myTake for dudes that are unattractive and can't get any girls. (or think they can't). Or keep getting friendzoned. Read this myTake if you want. Or don't 😂😂
So here goes.
I open this app few times a day and i literally see a thousand questions about guys asking "am i too short"? Or "am i too ugly"? That's one of your problems.
1. Under confidence.
Because the thing is you're not ugly. I'm serious. No matter how crooked your teeth are or you're too skinny or your eyes are too far apart or any other flaw that you find in yourself after staring at the mirror for a good 30 minutes, you're not ugly. And you need to believe that you're are an attractive person. Believe me, girls don't like under confident guys. But people are not born the same. Someone would look like Danny devito and someone would look like sexy Chris Hemsworth 😉(I'm not gay tho). But does that mean if you look like Danny de vito you're out of luck? No! Which brings me to my next point.
2. Be the best version of yourself.
If Chris Hemsworth was a skinny dude with pimples on his face and a weird middle part hairstyle, would he still be as attractive as he is now? This step is crucial. Not just for getting girls, but for a better life. You have to be the best version of yourself. You need to make yourself as attractive as you possibly can be. So getting in shape should be your priority. Are you skinny?
Are you fat? Work out! I'm not saying work off your ass and become so fucking ripped you flex your arm and your sleeve rips away. Nobody hates a person that is active and has a toned body. Working out and getting in shape will solve your first problem. Under confidence. As you get in shape you'll feel a lot more confident about your body and in general too.
So... Your body is now in shape. What about your face? You can't do anything about your facial structure but you can make it look better. Try different styles of facial hair and see which looks best. Take care of your skin. Your hairstyle is important too!
3. Stop being the nice guy!
We've all been friendzoned in our life. No shame in that. But do you repeatedly get fried zoned and then wonder what the actual fuck and then go back to jerking off to milf videos on pornhub? If yes, what do you do now? You become an asshole. Yes you read that right. You become an asshole. But a soft asshole. I'm not talking about disrespecting women or being rude to them or anything like that. Just stop being too nice. Learn how to say NO to that girl you like. I've heard dudes go"oml she's so beautiful I'd do anything for her". No you won't. If asks you to do something and you don't want to, you simply say no.
The biggest problem with dudes that get friendzoned is that they don't flirt. If you like her flirt with her! Make your intentions clear from the start. You like her? Tell her indirectly by flirting with her! If she doesn't respond well to your flirty language that means she is not interested. Good for you! You don't have to waste months talking to her and cuddling your pillow every night thinking it's her. There's plenty of fish in the sea.
Hinting her what your intentions are is very important. I'll give you an example. I was using this typical swiping app a few days ago and i matched with this girl. She was hot as fuck. At that moment i knew. I wanted her nudes. I wanted to see her body. I know, i know. not very cash money of me but ah well 🤷♀️. So we were talking and she goes
"what do you wanna talk about?"
"What about them"?
"How big are yours"?
"~she tells me their size. I don't really remember 😂"
The conversation led to sexting and a few minutes later i got her nudes. But how did I get them? I made my intentions clear. Even if you get rejected who cares? There's plenty of other girls. Plus the more you wait before telling her you like her, the more heart broken you'll be when she says no.
That's all for this myTake. I hope you found it useful. I've got more tips tho😂
Tell me if you want a part 2 or something.