Female deadbeats tends to do the status hunt until they get burned really bad emotionally, that's only a matter of time before they make a accident in the their job of hunting.
When was the last time you hear women being called cheap for letting men pay for the date? When was the last time you hear a woman who lose 1/3 of her money, car, house and kids after a divorce just because he decides not to love her anymore? This is another one of those "men can never be the victims"
@AbsoluteCutie some of them fuck guys and then friendzone then later. Which still sucks but isn’t nearly as bad.
Yeah I got this shit done to me when I was younger “silly”. I had to develop radar for this bullshit “silly”. This hasn’t been done to me in ten years “silly”.
It’s always funny when a guy gets screwed over huh? But if a girl gets played, pumped and dumped we are supposed to have a pity party for her.
So salty... 😒 not all women do that and some of the ones that do have issues. They’re human and imperfect beings. Guys do bad things too 🤷🏻♀️ You’ve probably done a list of things you’re not proud of towards women too. I don’t believe any guy who complains about the friend zone is a saint. And what’s so wrong with being someone’s friend?
@AbsoluteCutie I’m no saint. I have friendzoned girls myself. But I speak up about it and I speak up early (politely yet direct).
But playing dumb just because you like the attention, favors, free meals, a guy to make the guy you really like jealous is just bullshit. And women CONTINUE to get away with it. They laugh and mock the guy it’s being done to. I never mocked any girl who I had to friendzone. Even if I was way out of her league I still respect her feelings.
Guys have no option but to develop radar and move on fast. But it takes a few very painful lessons first... and the joke was on us.
@AbsoluteCutie thank you. Nobody taught me any better at the time. Had one girl brutally do this to me in college. She used me to make her future husband jealous.
But women are taught how to date at a young age. Boys aren’t. Except they are taught to be “nice guys” thanks to our feminist dominated public education.
Eh, I don't know about being “taught” so much as warned off of certain guys and told to protect myself by not putting myself in certain situations. I was never particularly sought after anyway and I remembered my heart practically beating out of my chest the first time that I talked to my fiancé. I always struggled with shyness, but put on a brave face so I probably came off as cold a lot of times because of it. I had to work at being warmer towards people right off. 😅 I guess the point I’m making is we don’t have the romantic or sexual education that you may assume we have.
And honestly I’ve been friends with a couple guys I was romantically attracted to, but eventually that faded and I was just fond of them as people. But no you don’t have to stay and be their friend if you don’t want to especially if it’s better for your mental and emotional well being.
@AbsoluteCutie well if I stay “friends” with these girls I like guess what they will eventually do? Start complaining and/or asking for advice about other guys.
Do you think guys who become unwilling counselors feel great about themselves? They don’t. That’s why we walk.
In order to be friends with a girl there are two conditions: first I am not attracted to her to the point of being jealous if she is with someone else. The second is she isn’t taking advantage of me doing one way favors.
Women in general get much more out of being “just friends” with guys than vice versa
I don’t think that I talked to my guy friends about my feelings for other guys. I most talked music and movies and played video games with them 😬 I can’t relate. Most of my friends have been guys and our relationships were completely platonic except for the one that I dated 😅 When I got to college and after I’d ask their advice occasionally, but not often. It makes sense to have a guys opinion sometimes.
@AbsoluteCutie you are a guys girl then. No problem with that. I was friends with a girl like that. Admittedly when I was drunk I wanted to bang her but dead sober I wasn’t interested.
We started on a date. I paid for dinner but she bought all the drinks before and after. She never ever tried to take advantage of me. She was honest and we even shared a bed a few times.
But on my birthday her lady friend wanted to get in a 3 some with her and I. I was thrilled but of course she turned it down. Would have been a nice bday gift...
@DJZest most of the time I would get my foot in the door and maybe a kiss or more then screw it up later. I acted to needy and over available at the time. Didn’t understand challenge. Then in my mid 20s I started wising up.
@DJZest also lots of young naive guys believe that getting into a friendship with a girl will get him in her pants. You and I know the truth on that one.
Yeah it’s the guys fault but I don’t like how society is telling young boys that masculinity is evil. Sets them up for failure when they hit the dating age. To make matters worse there are women out there who seek out vulnerable guys to exploit.
Again this shit hasn’t been done to me in many years. Some women tried to pull this bullshit on me but I saw right through it. But I really wish someone would have coached me on this bullshit when I was a teenager. I got brutalized back then.
Oh boy! Another one of these "why can't I be a victim" posts. U want to shit on men go to one of the millions of posts talking about how shitty/ garbage/ manipulative/misogynistic /sexist/rapist/creepy they can be, mmkay?
A male gold digger - Men are the ones being called cheap letting her girlfriend pay but it's so normal vise versa. Insecure dependent male - When men gets socially shamed for seeking validations for people but you can see common questions from girls asking about their boyfriends.
Also when men are already the monsters in society. This is why I don't always blame men on break up. I see girls blaming their boyfriends a lot rarely vice versa.
2 dates then I told him I didn't wanna see him anymore and he fabricated a story on facebook and sent that post to my family saying I was a slut and banging several guys at the same time and I 'disresected' him.
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Not quite sure how but I seem to be a cross between 2 and 4 🤣
LOL i couldnt stop laughing throughout the whole take 😂😂 Great take
The issue is that at first glance, there's no way to tell the difference between a girl who will do those things and one who won't.
Men can be gold diggers too
To be fair women tend to flock to dead beat guys
This post was not about men
Nope no it wasn't and only desperate guys date gold diggers... Women on the other hand flock to gold diggers so
I don't think that's true plenty of women flock to men with wealth and power aka men who have money
I don't know man I know a lot of women who date deadbeats cause he's hot lol
@RinXD - There are statistics that state women often date/marry men equal to or higher than their placement on the hierarchical structure.
Female deadbeats tends to do the status hunt until they get burned really bad emotionally, that's only a matter of time before they make a accident in the their job of hunting.
I knew there would be one comment like that.
"But... men... do it too!!"
In that case they're welcomed anyway, though.
When was the last time you hear women being called cheap for letting men pay for the date? When was the last time you hear a woman who lose 1/3 of her money, car, house and kids after a divorce just because he decides not to love her anymore? This is another one of those "men can never be the victims"
#2 doesn't bother me. I like when she doesn't "need" me but instead "wants" me.
I've had all of those mentioned... and I believe that it made me a MUCH better man, BECAUSE I lived through all that shit
It is now much easier to know who's who and avoid now, but I remember back then I used to be blind by emotions
I'd date the The Insecure Dependent if she looks like the woman in the pic.
Phil Hartman's wife was the Insecure Dependent.
@Dchrls78104 who?
If you're not familiar with old Saturday Night Live, you may be familiar with The Simpsons cartoon series. He voiced Troy McClure.
@Dchrls78104 ok
Great take. Thank you. To keep in mind when first problems arise.
Where does "The manipulative" stand?
I think it combines insecure dependant with puppy wrangler in a weird smart way haha
Too many men are simps, afraid to say no to women.
Can't be afraid to say hell no bitch!
One of the worst type of women you could date is the "pathologically jealous". Yikes.
Yep
BIG TIME Yep
Yep
Lesser Yep
Ohohooohh… Yep..
All exactly who I try to avoid. Though somehow I still keep attracting gold diggers and needy cling-ons.
I’m a combo of the independent and puppy dog girl lmao!
Nice take. Forgot to mention the professional friendzoner.
But you don’t date the professional friend zone era silly 😜 you languish there and wish you could.
@AbsoluteCutie some of them fuck guys and then friendzone then later. Which still sucks but isn’t nearly as bad.
Yeah I got this shit done to me when I was younger “silly”. I had to develop radar for this bullshit “silly”. This hasn’t been done to me in ten years “silly”.
It’s always funny when a guy gets screwed over huh? But if a girl gets played, pumped and dumped we are supposed to have a pity party for her.
So salty... 😒 not all women do that and some of the ones that do have issues. They’re human and imperfect beings. Guys do bad things too 🤷🏻♀️ You’ve probably done a list of things you’re not proud of towards women too. I don’t believe any guy who complains about the friend zone is a saint. And what’s so wrong with being someone’s friend?
@AbsoluteCutie I’m no saint. I have friendzoned girls myself. But I speak up about it and I speak up early (politely yet direct).
But playing dumb just because you like the attention, favors, free meals, a guy to make the guy you really like jealous is just bullshit. And women CONTINUE to get away with it. They laugh and mock the guy it’s being done to. I never mocked any girl who I had to friendzone. Even if I was way out of her league I still respect her feelings.
Guys have no option but to develop radar and move on fast. But it takes a few very painful lessons first... and the joke was on us.
I agree they’re wrong to do that and I’m sorry that that happened to you.
And what’s the point of staying “friends” with someone you are attracted to?
@AbsoluteCutie thank you. Nobody taught me any better at the time. Had one girl brutally do this to me in college. She used me to make her future husband jealous.
But women are taught how to date at a young age. Boys aren’t. Except they are taught to be “nice guys” thanks to our feminist dominated public education.
Eh, I don't know about being “taught” so much as warned off of certain guys and told to protect myself by not putting myself in certain situations. I was never particularly sought after anyway and I remembered my heart practically beating out of my chest the first time that I talked to my fiancé. I always struggled with shyness, but put on a brave face so I probably came off as cold a lot of times because of it. I had to work at being warmer towards people right off. 😅 I guess the point I’m making is we don’t have the romantic or sexual education that you may assume we have.
And honestly I’ve been friends with a couple guys I was romantically attracted to, but eventually that faded and I was just fond of them as people. But no you don’t have to stay and be their friend if you don’t want to especially if it’s better for your mental and emotional well being.
@AbsoluteCutie well if I stay “friends” with these girls I like guess what they will eventually do? Start complaining and/or asking for advice about other guys.
Do you think guys who become unwilling counselors feel great about themselves? They don’t. That’s why we walk.
In order to be friends with a girl there are two conditions: first I am not attracted to her to the point of being jealous if she is with someone else. The second is she isn’t taking advantage of me doing one way favors.
Women in general get much more out of being “just friends” with guys than vice versa
I don’t think that I talked to my guy friends about my feelings for other guys. I most talked music and movies and played video games with them 😬 I can’t relate. Most of my friends have been guys and our relationships were completely platonic except for the one that I dated 😅 When I got to college and after I’d ask their advice occasionally, but not often. It makes sense to have a guys opinion sometimes.
@AbsoluteCutie you are a guys girl then. No problem with that. I was friends with a girl like that. Admittedly when I was drunk I wanted to bang her but dead sober I wasn’t interested.
We started on a date. I paid for dinner but she bought all the drinks before and after. She never ever tried to take advantage of me. She was honest and we even shared a bed a few times.
But on my birthday her lady friend wanted to get in a 3 some with her and I. I was thrilled but of course she turned it down. Would have been a nice bday gift...
But don't the friendzoned ones deserve it?
Sure seems they don't have anything going for them, really.
@DJZest most of the time I would get my foot in the door and maybe a kiss or more then screw it up later. I acted to needy and over available at the time. Didn’t understand challenge. Then in my mid 20s I started wising up.
@DJZest also lots of young naive guys believe that getting into a friendship with a girl will get him in her pants. You and I know the truth on that one.
Yeah it’s the guys fault but I don’t like how society is telling young boys that masculinity is evil. Sets them up for failure when they hit the dating age. To make matters worse there are women out there who seek out vulnerable guys to exploit.
Again this shit hasn’t been done to me in many years. Some women tried to pull this bullshit on me but I saw right through it. But I really wish someone would have coached me on this bullshit when I was a teenager. I got brutalized back then.
Good thing karma is real.
@DJZest I used to believe that.
Lol yeah true, exept I like a 40% independent woman
4 is easily the most manageable of these five
Probably the most common one too
Same can be said about the men.
Oh boy! Another one of these "why can't I be a victim" posts. U want to shit on men go to one of the millions of posts talking about how shitty/ garbage/ manipulative/misogynistic /sexist/rapist/creepy they can be, mmkay?
A male gold digger - Men are the ones being called cheap letting her girlfriend pay but it's so normal vise versa.
Insecure dependent male - When men gets socially shamed for seeking validations for people but you can see common questions from girls asking about their boyfriends.
Also when men are already the monsters in society. This is why I don't always blame men on break up. I see girls blaming their boyfriends a lot rarely vice versa.
The best option in today's world is not to date
Get Husbandos and Waifus 👌
The safest option is just to keep to yourself.
Ugh. I dealt with a puppy wrangler guy
how long did it last before you figured it out?
2 dates then I told him I didn't wanna see him anymore and he fabricated a story on facebook and sent that post to my family saying I was a slut and banging several guys at the same time and I 'disresected' him.
Wow. That really sucks, but better you knew sooner rather than later!
Hey boo :)
@random-1 wazzup!