You are brave to do this my take and i have Aspergers as well and I'm getting married soon i would love to talk to you more some time in the future. But you are very brave to out this out there and i appreciate it!!!
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Congratulations!!! I'm currently working on a myTake on Growing up with Autism :)))
I hate to say this, but I sound like a guy you could like. I hate to say it because I am already dating someone and she knows exactly how rare people like me are.
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That is quite arrogant. You must be very full of yourself.
Not at all, I doubt you'd find me good looking. I am still not 100% sure why my girlfriend did/does. I just accept she does. I meant from a personality and interest standpoint. Having lived with the same type of ASD you have for all of my life I can relate to and understand most of your points. I guess the biggest difference is that I was never told what I can't do, only what I can.
It's very encroaching of you to assume we have the same type of ASD - you have Asperger's too, so what? That doesn't mean that we could get along, and neither does it mean that we would make a better couple than literally any other two people on this planet.
I am well aware that two people with Asperger's doesn't mean they're compatible. To ne honest I would believe such a relationship would have more problems than normal relationships. Unlike other people it's typical for us to deal with problems alone and to value solitude. If my girlfriend is any guide that makes a meaningful relationship hard. I know very little about you, but from what I do know, our interests seem similar. Again, as I said, I doubt you'd find me physically attractive, but if I was found as such by you, you'd be surprised that we share a number of similar interests.
you do not have to give up on dating at all unless you really want to ! you can try an online dating site for people with autism and other such special conditions
@MissDawn7961 what makes you think I - with mild autism - would want to date someone with „special conditions“? That’s like saying you should only date someone your age.
Just belive in ur self and try to control it. Its all in your head. You chose how you wanna feel.
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Asperger's syndrome is a developmental disorder affecting mostly the brain. Yes, it's all in my head, and no, I don't always choose how I want to feel. I will write another myTake on impetuosity and how it's affected my life some day so stay tuned :)
@NatalieKeller95 Yeah, you've got a point there. But you shouldn't say were 'fucked up', or 'hopeless'. That ain't nice. It's people like you that make people like me worry about being sent to the loony bin for no apparent reason, other than for being the way we are. Do you have any idea what that's like?
@CaptainSmartass it’s not surprising, you can tell when an incel pretends to be a girl. Not from this answer but once you go on the profile you can tell in a few seconds. The dude isn’t smart enough to make the account private.
I have no empathy, I’m a sociopath, because of having anti social personality, I wouldn’t act like a dick online because I have a good life and get a lot of pussy. When you see someone look like a backpage escort and give these answers it’s clearly some angry dude, just ignore men like these.
@Year3000 Thanks dude. by the way, how comes you're successful with the ladies? I'm like Professor Frink, and you seem like Tony DiNozzo. Bad comparison, I know...
@CaptainSmartass I don’t know, I’ve always been that way, started dating young, and lost my virginity at 15, I’m very confident, and had liberal/democrat/secular parents which helps because I saw reality more and grew up quicker.
@CaptainSmartass oh so you think Girls won't talk shit about autistics, that it has to be a guy right, go stuff your retarded ass in a group home and get the fuck outta here
awesome MyTake... this one hits me really close to home. Thanks for the perspective :D
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I've dated girls with autism & aspergers syndrome and other stuff before but I'd never get serious with them, I just like how easy they are to manipulate into having sex.
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You are brave to do this my take and i have Aspergers as well and I'm getting married soon i would love to talk to you more some time in the future. But you are very brave to out this out there and i appreciate it!!!
Congratulations!!! I'm currently working on a myTake on Growing up with Autism :)))
I hate to say this, but I sound like a guy you could like. I hate to say it because I am already dating someone and she knows exactly how rare people like me are.
That is quite arrogant. You must be very full of yourself.
Not at all, I doubt you'd find me good looking. I am still not 100% sure why my girlfriend did/does. I just accept she does. I meant from a personality and interest standpoint. Having lived with the same type of ASD you have for all of my life I can relate to and understand most of your points. I guess the biggest difference is that I was never told what I can't do, only what I can.
It's very encroaching of you to assume we have the same type of ASD - you have Asperger's too, so what?
That doesn't mean that we could get along, and neither does it mean that we would make a better couple than literally any other two people on this planet.
I am well aware that two people with Asperger's doesn't mean they're compatible. To ne honest I would believe such a relationship would have more problems than normal relationships. Unlike other people it's typical for us to deal with problems alone and to value solitude. If my girlfriend is any guide that makes a meaningful relationship hard. I know very little about you, but from what I do know, our interests seem similar. Again, as I said, I doubt you'd find me physically attractive, but if I was found as such by you, you'd be surprised that we share a number of similar interests.
Your insight is so very cool I would live to know more about energy and what it feels like to you
Thanks for that. I really enjoyed your take. It's nice that you haven't given up on dating, like I have...
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you do not have to give up on dating at all unless you really want to ! you can try an online dating site for people with autism and other such special conditions
@MissDawn7961 what makes you think I - with mild autism - would want to date someone with „special conditions“? That’s like saying you should only date someone your age.
Iam also Asperger and I dont have girlfriend but I think this depends more of the personality and ideas
I dated a woman with bipolar before. Not the same thing, i know. But that was interesting.
Just belive in ur self and try to control it. Its all in your head. You chose how you wanna feel.
Asperger's syndrome is a developmental disorder affecting mostly the brain. Yes, it's all in my head, and no, I don't always choose how I want to feel. I will write another myTake on impetuosity and how it's affected my life some day so stay tuned :)
I think number 5 was definitely the views I agree upon as well.
oh please women with Autism aren't as fucked up as guys with autism, autistic guys are hopeless,
I can see where you are coming from.
I have Anti social personality not ASD but I’ve dated a lot.
Erm, we can read, you know?
@CaptainSmartass yeah but you can't date 😂😄
@CaptainSmartass it’s a guy pretending to be a girl
Probably an incel also
@Year3000 Really? How sad are some people?
@NatalieKeller95 Yeah, you've got a point there. But you shouldn't say were 'fucked up', or 'hopeless'. That ain't nice. It's people like you that make people like me worry about being sent to the loony bin for no apparent reason, other than for being the way we are. Do you have any idea what that's like?
@CaptainSmartass it’s not surprising, you can tell when an incel pretends to be a girl. Not from this answer but once you go on the profile you can tell in a few seconds. The dude isn’t smart enough to make the account private.
I have no empathy, I’m a sociopath, because of having anti social personality, I wouldn’t act like a dick online because I have a good life and get a lot of pussy. When you see someone look like a backpage escort and give these answers it’s clearly some angry dude, just ignore men like these.
@Year3000 Thanks dude. by the way, how comes you're successful with the ladies? I'm like Professor Frink, and you seem like Tony DiNozzo. Bad comparison, I know...
@CaptainSmartass I don’t know, I’ve always been that way, started dating young, and lost my virginity at 15, I’m very confident, and had liberal/democrat/secular parents which helps because I saw reality more and grew up quicker.
@Year3000 - good for you -
@Year3000 doesn't liberalism and autism go hand in hand though
@Year3000 incels are the autistic ones dumbass,
@CaptainSmartass oh so you think Girls won't talk shit about autistics, that it has to be a guy right, go stuff your retarded ass in a group home and get the fuck outta here
No virginity is a conservative value in American culture, my man.
From Long Island? I’m a New Yorker. I know the island well and you a dude pretending to be a girl. Loser.
@NatalieKeller95 That's, like, well offensive. And it's pretty obvious from your page that you're a guy. I'm not gonna tell you how I know, though.
yes, because guys are expected to the heavy-lifting when it comes to socializing, interactions with women, etc.
I'm sure that he would understand and take your issue into consideration
awesome MyTake... this one hits me really close to home. Thanks for the perspective :D
I've dated girls with autism & aspergers syndrome and other stuff before but I'd never get serious with them, I just like how easy they are to manipulate into having sex.
get Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy
https://www.youtube.com/embed/lyPTqnWuyh0Knock off that Autism Speaks propaganda, you coward.
People like you need Jesus, autism cured.
Omg i fucking love this <3
Thank you, glad you liked it :)
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