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Men love sex. If they get it from someone less richer, they are at an advantage too as in they control the woman. Woman is happy having daddy. Man takes care of her. It could be true love too. Equality is not important. If it were then, man should also produce babies hahaha.
This is my logic: if you girl have the beauty with shittu attitude. I prefer the bad looking one with the amazing attitude that's why you see lots if hot guys on streets holding hands of ugly or average girl. We guys can read if the girl is after your money. They get so lost they dont know how to act.
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I have seen MANY examples where couples are the opposite. Rich powerful men with women who don't look like models. And golddiggers are maybe one in a 100 occurrence. The rest while they like money, they aren't looking for a man to give it to them. I myself have never been aroused by either money or power, those men are usually overly arrogant which is a huge turn off.
Oh god what does that mean for me considering and ex of mine was dirt poor and abusive? And the sex was shit. What box do I fit in?
You fit into the category where women drop the toxic and abusive men. Nothing wrong with that. In fact its expected.
Possibly the "I didn't think I could get anything else so here I am worse off than if I had nobody" box.
@FýrdracaDócincel hmm no. I would rather be alone and celibate than in an abusive relationship.
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That's probably you NOW.
@FýrdracaDócincel no dumbass. I'm in a relationship with a man who respects me and the sex is infinitely better. I respect myself too much to stay in an abusive relationship
You just confirmed that what you said is you at present.
Next, dumb bitch?
@FýrdracaDócincel I can't help it that you hate women. I said if I had to choose between an abusive relationship and being single, I'd be single. Are you upset because you're an abusive piece of shit and no woman wants you?
No where did I even IMPLY that I hate women. What I hate is retards.
First the overemotional confirmation that you completely lack an understanding of the Khaleesi relationship.. now this.
You are an absolute fuckwit.. and a woman.
No, their not the same in my eyes.
NEXT!!
they're*
@FýrdracaDócincel you hate women if you think it's better for someone to stay in an abusive relationship than be single
When you were an attractive male you wouldn't bother about girls who fuck for money or because of money. There are lot of normal girls who don't see their pussies as money milking machine. However you're focusing on money and social status because you think this is the way to find a life partner. I assure you, money and power IS IT NOT.
Point is if you as a man offer money and power still (Attractive or not. Funny or not. Caring or not), you'll still trigger their reptilian complex in the brain and they'll get aroused and next thing you know she's groping your groin.
It's super effective!
I'm not sure if their instincts work that way. They prefer to bite at morning in my butt instead putting their fingers into my empty wallet.
Even if some guy I knew said once "I'm 190cm too when I stand on my wallet" no one really interesting girl was interested in him. I think materialistic girls are rather exception than rule or maybe they transform into less materialistic ones in my presence.
I think I get you. I myself know plenty enough women, that aren't materialistic and are even in a relationship or married to someone, who either makes just as much or even less money and they work it out just fine. According to one of them women one man has won their woman over by being a sweet and caring gentleman and a man of his word (he was bringing flowers and fruits every so often for example and reaching out to her). He doesn't have a degree in anything still due to a difficult life history but she has a degree and she doesn't care. She's married to him still.
Although I partially agree with the main point here, bloody hell... your attempt at trying to scientifically justify a rant , is both cringeworthy and hilarious and the last thing it shows about you would be logical thinking. High emotional charge never pairs well with talking about something you simply do not even remotely understand. The only good thing is that you posted anonymously.
Challenge me! I do not see any arguments from you.
Needless to say, that most people agreeing to this in one way or fully. So who doesn't understand now? Either most of us are idiots or you're it.
you're either wrong Or in denial.
You're really confused. And you don't want a discussion, you seem to want and argument. You're telling me when I'm thinking of flowers you got the weight of the world on your mind, You don't see how ridiculous that is? Then you got on my turf and fucked shit up. First of all, do you need explanation of what a theory actually is? Calling me an idiot... will not fix the crazy fuckin shit you wrote there. I don't know why are you pissed at, but maybe you should be looking into what kind of women you go for and why cause there lies the problem. Your the one who was asking about splitting the bill? It would be insane if me to expect him to pay every time and for everything. 2 people date so they can figure out if they want more, a relationship, getting married. Well, then it is TWO people who are dating and they must work together and that means that fuckin bill as well. Or if you pay today, next time I will. I am from LA , I know. That is not all women. But yeah, experiences with that sort of women will make a man say fuck it, you're all shit. But from that till talking about how the brain is structured and how certain behaviours arise.. . stuff is very simple and you don't need science: the world is made up mostly low quality individuals. And especially in what we call the west.
The man who was my husband made me feel safe , gave that sense of security but it was him not money. It's confidence , that gave me the feeling of being safe , protected.. That is something you don't need money for. If a man's confidence comes from his bank account... that is not attractive to me and I'm not alone. A man who has money and the way he acts, the power , influence all come from money... I see him as frail. Everything he has sits on quicksand. If money is gone, what's left of him.
I want to see how much security your man can provide you if all the money is gone and the bills and rent cannot be paid and the fridge ran out of supplies.
See, that's all what is left from any man, who had money but the money is gone just like poof - Job loss or whatever. This applies to literally any man or woman today and even the children.
Security can come from many ways but money is ultimately the leading way to security as it can buy gym memberships, homes, bodyguards, weapons, CCTVs, businesses, you can name it all. In what ways can security be claimed without having to spend money? I would wage, that most people would do that but we are occupied with making the money to keep the security up.
You do not understand, that a man having money directly correlates to him having more confidence (aside from other factors like i don't know, lifting or whatever). Have you seen men posing rich or whatever to women when these men are broke and either borrowed money or risked a terrible credit score and debt? Most likely just to score with her somehow? I know what you might be thinking about it "WTF, what a bunch of idiots" and I agree with that. On the other hand poor men are labeled as creeps but then again, you told me for either way that it's the type of women we have encountered until we say fuck it to damnation.
Still. I see what women are saying and I see what women are actually doing.
I'm sorry, I can't agree with you, but... I don't think It matters what anyone says as long as they don't agree with you. I can't be fine at all with someone paying for everything and be owned. It would drive me fuckin crazy! I have no idea how being dependent on a man can offer security and all that jazz to any woman who... has any understanding of her actual situation. It would generate a level of anxiety I do not need. For whomever doesn't understand her shitty, really shitty position... I guess there's no worry! I'd rather barely make it from paycheck to paycheck. I am know you don't believe that, all I can do is offer you MY personal take on this. I see the amount of women who do this, I'm not blind, and I can also see that little do they imagine in what shaky ground they find themselves. And I know how they think of themselves, that superiority complex and how delusional they are. The most beautiful woman will get older, chances are there's always someone more beautiful or that the motherfuckin man's man sees as more beautiful or... simply someone new. You depend on someone who does not love you and you don't love, you never know when the new doll takes your place, AND YOU ARE FUCKIN OWNED! That I will never be , neither would a lot of other women. My parents both worked, supported each other like a team , like it's supposed to be. My husband is no more but we tried to be the same, not one to suck the life out of the one who works like a slave , we both played our part. As for the men who play this game... I'm tired, fuck it.
Hell yes! Now we're talking!
Codependency is for the kids (But do they even need that in their life? I don't think so) and grown adults being codependent indicates a serious problem in their life or with themselves or both. I too hated being owned or bought be it legally or being codependent. So what I did was working my ass off for years to finally stand on my own 2 feet just like the women you mentioned you know working their asses off to stand on their own 2 feet.
There is nothing like making and spending your own money. It should be a law or something like a general standard. Perhaps most people already do this and the media just keeps shoving into our faces rich men in fancy suits and driving a ferrari and beautiful and glamorous women, who look like flawless and professional models.
Now what's interesting is what do the rich women do? I know some women, who make more money than me just got a loving boyfriend and are happy. Meanwhile the old and rich women hire male escorts. I've seen such services.
Women don’t want to work especially if there attractive enough to get free shit the more power a man has the more money he has the less of a chance they’ll have to work. Two hundred years ago women would marry a man for money and stature love was never even a consideration. Men are always paying women are always selling. Unless of course that is you find an individual with a soul a heart and an original thought. Like a unicorn something rare and pricless
Relationships should be based on mutual understanding, sustainability and effort. If in any way it’s on sided it’s not a relationship just call it any other thing you feel like... it’s not a Job or money making opportunity and I for one always look to leave things and people better than I met them; that’s if they’re letting go for whatever reason.
Wealthy men can be more valuable if they intelligently manage their money. That means they can be wealthy for life. Women’s beauty fades as we age and no matter how much plastic surgery we get, the loss of youth is visible.
Yes it’s biologically programmed for women to place importance in the amount of resources a man has, and for men to place importance on a woman’s youth and beauty
It's an ugly truth, but true none the less. Anyone who really gets into it and does their research realizes eventually that this is the bases.
Women, are attracted to high social status.
Men, are attracted to physical beauty and sexuality.
We all like to imagine we're "not that shallow" but that's just a lie we tell ourselves to feel good.
It's not that simple, though. As a woman I am attracted to a man's physical appearance much more than his social status (of course I care about personality and such, but this is discussing shallow aspects of attraction). I'd rather be with a McDonald's cashier who looks like Pedro Pascal than an unappealing millionaire that I – at the least – could never enjoy sex with.
It is that simple. But as i said, it's an ugly truth. So you'll never acknowledge it.
I said social status. Not financially rich. Social status and looks are directly Co-related. Just being good looking by default grants you a decent social standing to begin with.
It isn't. Generalizations will never account for an entire population, you should know this if you are to be the one preaching about truth. I acknowledge that many women look for social status in men, thus resulting in a lot of women "dating up" the social ladder. I also acknowledge that for my relational pursuits these men serve no purpose to me besides sex. Sex will always be better with a hot poor person than an ugly rich person. My mom married for status and is happy with her decision. My aunt has a job that makes twice that of my mom's husband and takes a variety of attractive non-serious lovers, and is happy with her decision. Hopefully you'll become accustomed to people doing what they find pleasing to themselves rather than to you in the future.
Just saw your addition about social status =/= financially rich. By that logic (being that good looks give you social status) men are also attracted high social status. What's the point then? Men are attracted to social status, women are attracted to social status... not that difficult of a pill to swallow.
Nooo I don't believe it, I'm sure it's true for some but I've never been more attracted to someone because of money or power
Different women like different things. That's alright!
Incel spotted.
Jokes aside, not all women are like that. If I ever find someone I love, it would be based on personality and how much I get along with them, etc. I’m not interested in money or power. If I fell in love with someone who wasn’t exactly the richest, it wouldn’t make me love them any less. Just keep your head up, one day you’ll find someone who loves you for the way you are, you don’t have to have wealth or power just for a girl to like you back.
Right on!
this exactly. i've had so many men come up to me and flex their gold watches and Porsches. when i walk down the street, i'll see an obnoxiously loud Lamborghini driving 10 km past the speed limit, and then i'll see it again about 2 or 3 times, and then they'll honk in case i didn't see them. **rolls eyes. i really don't care. honestly, the best men are the ones who know how to treat a woman. same for women. for me, if an individual is honest and genuine and kind, that's all they need to be. problem with some men is that they go after the women who walk around wearing designer from head to toe, boobies spilling out of their tops, chunky garish jewellery (like 4 gold rings on each hand) and heavy makeup and then complain about how "shallow" and what gold diggers all women are. lol.
Hahahaha 😆 you ladies are so funny 😁 I'm loving this. i would definitely go out with either of you to talk about so many things 💕
Who doesn't want the easy life. Being divorce in 5 years giving your money to a worse mistake you ever made over looks instead of loyalty. I think it's very fair that the rich get the awkward naughty crunchie stuff. While the poor get the struggle. You know if you don't plan your life early on. You have to be a couple just to survive? Being rich has its perks & are great ones. The constant worry of my money could get old real quick.
I'm definitely not a gold digger, but money and power do get me going though I'm not going to lie.
I respect your honesty Kat. And you’re beautiful.
you're just a gold appraiser you let somebody else take care of the digging part ;P
Women with their own money and power aren’t going to be as impressed with yours.
This is certainly true. However it seems as women have become more successful professionally that they also experience become less success romantically.
Not true. Research shows women still desire men from similar socioeconomic status. That's why many successful women refuse to date men who are not successful.
I can understand the fear and risk of dating a man who might hold them both back, financially. I once dated a guy who was always trying to borrow money for me that I never got back. But beyond that risk, I think it’s fine to date someone who earns less as long as he lives within his means and isn’t a moocher.
I've not read that research but I do not doubt that its true.
Women in search of competent and capable men who are looking for relationship is a challenge in itself. You the introduce the necessity for that man to be within a wealth threshold comparable to that of a very successful woman and the dating pool is significantly diluted.
This is why I've observed so many very successful women be perpetually single as there just aren't enough men who are all those things.
That is not true my friends.
Eventhough , I have spoken to some women , over thirties, who told me thst love won't pay the bills. I think Women are most nicer than men snd this is my own experience.
It is almost always the men who are jealous and trying to put me down.
Money and power means nothing if the sex is absolutely dreadful. No I won’t marry a 75 year old man for money.
I've seen it all then , in person. Age 23 hitting on a 19 yr old then. Her 73? 70 something year old boyfriend comes up and walks her away lol. I was like in my mind, "Good Job Sir!" I remember he was paying for college in the short convo with 19. Win Win for both.
@jestergent no 19 yr old would ever date a 73 yr old. Chances are she hates having sex with him but is only forcing herself to cus she is desperate for money.
No woman would stay with a man she absolutely hates having sex with unless she’s a lowly person with no education and has no potential in life.
@jestergent it’s basically the equivalent of prostitution. She doesn't WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU, but she has to. Just wait till she’s done with college , she’ll be gone within a millisecond.
The old guy can’t get anyone else other than a prostitute who is having sex with him for his money. It’s a dreadful thing she has to put up with. Imagine yourself fucking a 73 year old woman. How terrible it is
@jestergent and you probably would have to be very naive to believe that a 73 yr old would be “dating” a 19 yr old. There is no love involved, hun. It’s just prostitution under the disguise of “dating”.
They were boyfriend girlfriend but I forget how many months together. I don't know how it went. So long ago. She seemed fine but was in doubt somewhat. I think my interaction triggered doubt, but hey he was paying for college.
@jestergent dude you're just trying to believe in lies to make yourself feel better. Us young women are not attracted to old grandpa's or fat old uncles. We usually only date guys 5-6 years older than ourselves. We like our men young strong and fast. Not some old man with a cane with white hair and beer belly.
I saw it with my own eyes. I remember talking self saying "well now I've seen everything!" I'm not trying to social engineering people on here. Sharing what I saw. Attracted or not they were together but it does happen.
@jestergent they aren’t dating and you know it. You just don’t want to admit it. Go to any girl on the street and ask them if they would have sex with a 75 yr old man with money, they will tell you hell no. I dare you to ask that question on this site and see for yourself.
YOU can't handle the truth!!! Lol calm down. It happened. Like 14 years ago I saw that or 11. In early 20s. Handle the truth! Rawr
If you need some comfort maybe it's different now. You know it was little over 10 years ago. She probably is single or with some else by now debt free. I didn't blame or shame her. I had idea and he won too. They both won. They weren't married. Just I said who's that guy. She said "that's my boyfriend." I did my best to see the positives of it and not judge.
@jestergent yea 99 percent of women don’t find old grandpas walking with canes to be sexy.
I know that. Maybe like 100%> . I'm saying I didn't forget what I saw. It was interesting and actually smart if you dont want to date. I'd say it was an exchange. Love for bills. I don't either them cared and happy with it. But it was a different time then too. Much more different today
@jestergent hun you can’t make someone fall in love with you just because you have enough money in your bank account to pay their bills.
It’s an exchange of sex for her bills to be paid , not love. It’s highly unlikely a 19 yr old girl to have feelings for a 75 yr old man. You wouldn’t have feelings for a 75 yr old woman either.
I'm aroused by a hardworking man even if he doesn't have money. A lazy man who's rich because he's born into a wealthy family doesn't cut it for me
exactly
I think there maybe a subset that qualifies this but I doubt it's all...
I don’t care about money but if your power level is over 9000 maybe I’ll be interested.