Why Sexy People Are Superior

[Anonymous]

1. In the dating pool

Let's be honest: attractive people have an easier time finding mates and going out on dates than people who are not attractive. The more you date, the higher the chances you find someone.

2. In the career world

Let's be honest, attractive people are nice to look at, and in the difficult times of the economy- good looking people have an advantage.

3. In personal/emotional confidence

If sexy people are used to being told how hot they are, this will most likely boost their confidence and they will be emotionally stronger

[loveisbeautiful]

1) Those three in that picture don't look like they are looking for dates, they look like they're looking for something else entirely. Sure, maybe looks make a difference but the people that want a committed relationship and someone worthwhile aren't going to be looking for the "sexy people".

2) Really? And, what career world have you been looking at? I mean honestly, you really think that if two people interview for the same job and one is "sexy" but not qualified and the other is just an average looking person but more than qualified for the job, that they'd actually choose the unqualified one simply because they are nice to look at? I mean, how does that even make sense? That's stupid.

3) I see, so because people say to sexy people "You're so hot" or " my God are you sexy, I just can't handle it" you think that will boost their confidence and make them emotionally stronger? In what universe, unicorn land? That compliment is simply about looks and sure it may boost your ego but if your looks are all people notice and all that they compliment you on, wouldn't that kind of get old after awhile? Wouldn't it do the opposite and lower your confidence, when you do something really great but the only thing people can tell you is how "hot you look tonight"? I mean, how does complimenting one on their looks make them stronger emotionally? I can't see how it would.

[Chief16]

Lol, when are you gonna quit writing this nonsense? Maybe some 'hot' people have it well, doesn't mean every hot person geta to the apex of things. The world sees what it wants.
The world is ruled by business conglomerates, politicians and some religion obsessed figureheads. None of them are described to be particularly hot. Example?
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He ain't no looker, but he's definitely up there with the most powerful people in the world. His impact and influence are undeniable. I can give you a boat load of examples. But to me its the most productive and hard working people alive who are superior, who have the competitive edge over the rest of us. Hard work was superior to looks, is superior to looks and will always be superior to looks. I don't care if anyone says otherwise.

[redeyemindtricks]

Well, of course the highest achievers aren't going to be very attractive. Duh... Think about that for a sec.

[iceEverestere]

I agree with this smartass dude

[DizzyAster]

Bill Gates was a looker back in his day. lol.
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[Blitzkrieger]

@redeyemindtricks why not?

[redeyemindtricks]

@Blitzkrieger Just think about it for a sec.

Bill gates is worth about $50 billion, or whatever.

To get to that point, he has to first reach points where he's worth $5 million, then $50 million, then $500 million, then $5 billion -- and he has to KEEP GOING TO WORK, AND KEEP WORKING EVERY DAY.

Yeah...

Still going to work every day when you're worth $5 billion is fucking CRAZY.

Tell me, who's MORE likely to be that kind of crazy:
* Someone who's used to getting things in life without tons of effort (= an extraordinarily good-lookong person);
or
* Someone who's actually had to put in effort to get things in life (= a person of ordinary looks)?

Duh...

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It's the same reason why, if you ever meet someone who knows 20 different languages, she/he will NEVER have genius level intellect.

To know that many languages, you have to put in TONS of effort memorizing random vocabulary words (especially nouns and verbs) that have no patterns to them at all -- it's pure rote

[redeyemindtricks]

memorization.
Someone who's never NEEDED effort to learn things before (= someone with genius-level intelligence) is simply NOT going to be capable of that degree of sustained effort at such a boring learning task. Never gna happen.

[Blitzkrieger]

@redeyemindtricks that actually makes sense. Im a total genius and i would just stop working at 5 million.

[redeyemindtricks]

@Blitzkrieger Yep. As would ALL normal people.

There are NO strikingly good-looking billionaires. None, nada, zero.
... And there NEVER will be any, either.

Remember, even **nornal people** are incapable of becoming billionaires. You have to be INSANE to reach that level.
To reach that point, EITHER you need to have an absolutely *extraordinary* (= insane) motivation and work ethic -- which strikingly attractive people never have, because there would be no reason for them to ever develop it -- OR you need to be a compulsive workaholic, which means you're going to neglect yr physical appearance anyway.

[Chief16]

@redeyemindtricks ultimately every facet will have its disadvantages, we just work with what we get. No?

[redeyemindtricks]

Indeed.

[thetundrawolf]

This is funny.

Actually, when I see a hot girl, I cringe, because I know she know she's hot, and she is going to demand respect, rather than earn it. There are precious, rare exceptions.

I am a attractive man, and women throw themselves at me, married women, single girls, and it has been this way for years. It's made me a proud, angry, vindictive asshole and I hate it. People who are pretty on the outside often are uglier than sin on the inside and not worth it.

If they want to overcome their conceitedness it is a long uphill battle of self control and being humble, being sober about your REAL self.

Superficial beauty isn't worth shit because it WILL be gone one day and then what are you left with?

Shit, pretty people suffer more because they are selfish and arrogant, and never find real love, just a shadow of it. Average people work harder at it so they actually find fulfillment, not in someone sexy but in true love, that comes from the heart.

So no, all of your points sound okay on the surface, but deep down, they are all death.

[Kit_Kat88]

Well said.

[thetundrawolf]

@Kit_Kat88 thank you!

[vishna]

1 and 2 can be swayed so easily by looks. Think about waitresses...
Being sexy would seem like a no brainer for high confidence, even though that's not always the case, but overall, yea, being hot... usually people have higher physical confidence than someone with less regarded looks.

However, that doesn't mean they're superior XD Being pretty or athletic or smart doesn't make someone to superior to someone else.

Also, there's a limit to how far looks will take you. You can't be a rocket scientist because you're tall or have nice cheek bones. It's about more than that.

[Anonymous]

I'm sorry. I used to think so too. Unfortunately, most of my life. But I recently had an epiphany. Not one of the great people I know were hot. None of the presidents, kings, queens, scientists, business people, artists, musicians, songwriters, CEO's, doctors, inventors, athletes, and so on. In fact some of them were extremely ugly, lol.
Being hot, at most you will be a celebrity, and that's if you're good at acting or singing in addition to your good looks. Or you might end up being a fashion model. But if you're smart, there's a whole world of opportunities out there for you. You could rule the world if you chose to.

I can't believe Hollywood has taken over people's minds so badly. It's like if you're not hot, it's the end of the world.

[FatherJack]

Too many people let the " media " think for them , good comment !!

[CHRIS11796]

Not really. Sure they're attractive but that doesn't make them any higher than someone who is average or below/average. Ya they may have a better time in the dating game but it sure as hell doesn't mean average or below/average folks won't find a date because they can. And why does this make them higher than other people? Because they have the looks? What about their personalities, the way they act? Because ya if i see an attractive girl but she has an ugly personality she becomes more uglier to me. Bottomline is nobody is higher than someone else just because they look visually appealing.

[Anonymous]

I know ugly people with all that. I'm convinced it's their confidence that does it. They interview very well, because they're confident and think the company is as lucky to have them as they are to have the company, they walk into a room with an aura of confidence and demand respect just by the way they walk. Then I know people who'd genuinely be handsome/pretty if they weren't lazy, depressed or broke. Like one girl I know she's always been depressed and it shows in every part of her, she slouches down and wears very ill fitting clothes, doesn't do anything to her skin and her hair is always just pulled back, also the sad years are beginning to show on her face and is becoming haggard and sad looking... but then I've seen her laugh and you can catch a glimpse of what she'd look like if she was happier, if she cared about herself and her appearance and she'd look amazing.

[madhatters4]

this all generalizations that can easily be countered. sure sexy people can have an advantage in dating pool or in the workforce but they can also be taken less seriously. they can be used primarily for looks and cast off

sure being attractive can help in life, it is proven but i wouldn't go so far as to say they are superior

[wankiam]

yuup

[Library]

Sexy people look great and have some advantages but I wouldn't say they are superior to other humans.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Couldn't have said this better myself.

[mits777]

@AlwaysBelieving They don't have any advantage, they have 0 advantage indeed. All politicians in my country of origin are ugly and short as fuck, businessman may be random both ugly or handsome and so on. Handsome people rule in modeling, acting of course and in public relationship, social jobs only.

[TayTay21]

This is so stupid that I can't even believe I'm responding to it. The best people I know aren't sex bombs, and least not now. They're people who struggled to make something of their lives and became better/stronger people *because* of their struggle, not in spite of it.

[_Atreides]

if you step outside of the celebrity obsessed world its personality, character, intellect, drive to succeed that are more important.

I'd consider success in the dating pool finding someone you want to be with, not how many times you've failed to do so.

[NyomiMcClinton]

Im so over people being so caught up on their beauty and looks. Other things that need focusing on. Just because a woman looks good dows not mean she has all the answers or have her life together. She may be going through more issues than Vogue and here folks are saying that she has it easy.

[CisScum]

I'd go as far as a lot of sexy people have the BIGGEST ego's, have some of the worst personalities and some even think they're above people which makes them prone to judge people more often. Obviously not EVERYBODY sexy person but I'd say a lot.

So no I don't think that's true.

[FemWorship]

All things being equal, you are firing on all cylinders.
That said. when all things are not equal, e. g. competing against a liar, pirate, shark with lawyers, screw everybody but me dropouts (like Gates mentioned below) ... no one really has a chance. If fact, the suckers take up the motto, if you can't beat them join them in order to feel part of the "team" as winners, not suckers anymore. Other examples include cable supporters, entertainment groupies, etc.

[FatherJack]

It depends on the gender , women are generally THE desired gender , whereas men are generally NOT desired !! An average woman will outgun a " hot " man , men have to bring far more to the table than just mere looks. Conventionally attractive people can often be arrogant & conceited , due to hugely inflated egos.

[JensonStatement]

You know that this is shit right. Mostly sexy people been used for shit. Lik picture 3; who is freewilling to take this kind of picture. There goes your masculanity like a leaf in the wind.

- Hot girls are used as models and mostly naked like porn and rapper video (you can read more porn as well)
- Hot guys are used as models and mostly naked and for gay stuff like pic 3.

[JensonStatement]

Although their worth is their beauty. Nobody cares about your intelligence. They use you a object and you want to be an object so bad. If you hot (insert selfie of yourself) be it and i can give your first shift. Come to my room and be a sexobject.
When they old nobody wants them or if they don't take care of there exterior.

[bloodmountain1990]

I disagree with number 3. While there are confident people who look good, there's also a lot of good looking people who lack confidence and self esteem.

Regarding the career world, it depends on the job. Sure someone working for a modeling agency or clothing store, restaurant, etc might have an upper advantage over someone who who's less attractive but it's an office setting, looks don't mean shit.

[Anonymous]

Number 2 is really a flaw in society. Society should take in people based on ability and dependability, not on looks. Hiring someone based on looks is an extremely prejudicial and discriminatory practice. Unattractive people deserve equal rights and opportunities.

[Anonymous]

Yes... Our greatest scientists, inventors, discoverers, writers and philosophers were smoking hot...
Get real woman! Being too good looking in some real jobs can be disadvantageous because you won't exactly being taken seriously as a proper whatever when you spend more time in fron of the mirror than snow White's evil step mother!

[sp33d]

Boosts confidence some, but not necessarely mental strength.

The advantage is minimal with respect to anything not related to superficial values. You shouldn't delude yourself thinking otherwise. People with ability, accomplishments and attitude have the advantage and it's well deserved.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

they also tend to be less intellegent then regular looking or ugly people. attractive folks also tend to be more caught up in hollywood bullshit than in the real actual social affairs and political issues... if your good to look at then usually your not good for anything else... hot sex maybe, but half the hot chicks i dated have been absolutely dead lays.

[Fathoms77]

Good-looking people rule the world. It's as it should be. ;)

[TayTay21]

Guess that leaves you out in the cold, then.

[Fathoms77]

@TayTay21 Kind of hard to give any credence to an insult from a random 19-year-old on the internet who has never laid eyes on you.

[TayTay21]

RIght, because most anon 38 year-old dudes on the internet look like Channing Tatum irl.

[Fathoms77]

@TayTay21 I forgot the internet was the exclusive realm of teenagers and only ugly people over the age of 20 use it...

... wait, is this 1995?

[Raymond_Reddington]

You're wrong. International corporations and criminals run the world.

[FatherJack]

@Raymond_Reddington Correct , the Rothschild Cartel !!