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Lol, I used to hate these posts, but now I just love reading the feedback.
Same here 😂
Me too. 🤣
This doesn’t sound like a ladies man.
YES, you have to present and look good to a girl, but i didn’t see any advice on how to talk to a girl which pretty much is lacking on this post.
I'm pretty sure real ladies men would say the very same thing. Stop playing videogames all day, take care of yourself and your style and have purpose in your life. So where did he actually go wrong?
Probably cause he has no idea how to talk to a girl. 😂
@apple_jack Learn to read a crowd and have crazy balls confidence. I recommend running out into the woods with a gun, you will become interesting or die trying.
@apple_jack wrong reply as it were for @Wise_words01, not too say you couldn't try it out for yourself.
@Ryfyle What's your problem dude?
@apple_jack Nothing just a mis-reply, as it were meant for Wise_words01.
@apple_jack I doubt that anyone in this site is more social and extrovert as me. I had been know for being too charismatic when I talk to people and I talk to girls a lot too.
My point was that I had see dudes who dress and looks good themselves, but it is cringe to see or hear the conversations when they talk to a girl. Either way, anyone can dress good and present themselves good, but that doesn’t make them a ladies man. It is how they made their first impression when they talked to a girl for the first time.
@TruthBringer that’s appealing to a girl who wants to settle down, but even so if you got all of that and you can’t even have a good combo you can turn off a girl. Having money and all of that won’t make you a ladies man unless you got a charming personality and knows how to talk to girls.
@Wise_words01 Well said!
@Wise_words01 Why are you saying this to me? I don't get it.
Just because a guy isn't making 100k a year by age 40 doesn't mean he's not successful or "high value". Not every career path is compatible with a salary that high.
I had them all except the place with no roommates. The only time I wore a jacket and tie was to a wake.
Yes, men should all look like clones out of a Hugo Boss commercial and have zero personality and like stuff because it will get them women. What a great fucking way to waste the one life you're given.
You could do all these things and still not get laid, I say do whatever you want, dress how ever you want, work where ever you want. If women don’t want you to hell with them, sex is overrated anyway.
That's sounds like a lot of work for more expensive sex though.
I don't see the incentive for following your guide.
Going to the gym and taking a shower is "a lot of work"?
Going to the gym is, so is having hobbies and earning $100k (which you even state yourself)
there's a crowd for every show. telling people to "stop being a loser" according to your definitions won't help them reach their crowd.
Its a nice take , can i give myself the liberty to deduce that the message you wanna deliver is to “ grow the fuck up “ you know adopt responsibility, be independent, etc?
If i had tomatos i would be throwing them at you and your dumb my take.
You must feel pretty big attacking people from a distance.
why can't you just say, h? i, I'm not going to even try to get back to dating, it was much better in the 90s early 2000s, but I'm single and fine with it, that's my choice in life,
dude just stop lol
https://www.youtube.com/embed/wlF8X0XTQvkWhy are you putting a default on women? Not everyone thinks the same.
Oh gawd, not this shit again.
and here we are did you bring the baby wipes this time the clean up all the bulshit I'll bring the fire hose
@yofuknutz hahahahahha! That's quite funny. I've got the heavy duty wipes.. I come prepared. This isn't my first rodeo on G@G with these types of mytakes! Haha. The big question is... did you bring the hazmat suits?
Omg you again with yet another shitty take? lmao
how many EXpr points do you need for a take, I think I can do better ones
Nevermind found it
@friendzoned4life Are you a ladies' man too? 😂
No I am a men that wants one lady for the rest of his life.
However I would like to post my take on why the nice guys finish last rethoric has become mainstream and How I think we can get rid of it
And offcourse I will put it like an opinion and not like this post what gives me the vice he is saying he is the only one that knows everything
I like open minded conversations more
My opinion on this thread ain't a good example tho 😋
@friendzoned4life Yo invite me as soon as your Take about nice guys finish last gets uploaded
@TruthBringer I will
I think a lot of women will get mad tho even if I agree with them that it is not the truth I will finish it tonight
@friendzoned4life I've pissed off many women on G@G. Many of them are allergic to actual truth. Throw stats and facts at them and they still don't want to buy it. They have a habit of thinking the truth is what they FEEL like it is rather than what it actually is. Their feelings change like the seasons and does their version of the "truth"
@friendzoned4life No, don't invite him. He is an idiot who likes to bash on women.
@TruthBringer @friendzoned4life See? I told you he is a complete idiot. 😂
@Anonymous awww "bash women" as much as I bash loser men, male feminists and simps aswel? Somehow you didn't mention that. Cry me a river girl. I wouldn't be surprised if @friendzoned4life and I happen to have more similar views than you do with him.
I also bash women who are worhty of being bashed. I never bashed respectable women. But of course snowflakes like yourself don't notice that
@TruthBringer Alrighty little snowflake.
Coward leaving Anonymous answers and tells other people not to invite someone else to their Takes is calling others "snowflake". Oh the irony 😂😂
@TruthBringer Where did I say I have similar views with him?
It's admirable you think it's up to you to decide who is respectable and who isn't. 😂
Oh I don't get to decide. Well I do for myself. What I find respecable and what isn't respectable is very much in sync with the majority of men out there. Same goes for women actually, hence why slut shaming is so prevelant among women (for example). Keep crying, little snowflake 😂
@TruthBringer Boo hoo. Cry me a river little snowflake. That's all you got? 😂
By the way jokes on you cause you tend to block people who have a different opinion than you. Oh the irony! haha
So I am just gonna stay anonymus thanks.
Actually I'm the one who gets blocked 99% of the time for having a different opinion. I simply block those who come to my Take and leave unintelligent insults because I manage to trigger them with what I post. Like I said, stay mad. Perhaps going back to your safe space will do you better 😂
@TruthBringer Well you sure act like you get to decide. by the way are you sick? You haven't mentioned your wonderful girlfriend yet. What's wrong? 😂
@TruthBringer you should just change your usernane to SnowflakeAlert. You're welcome.
Can you 2 fight slower too much messages to read at once
@TruthBringer open up your profile
@TruthBringer Have you noticed the amount of people under Apope's mytakes who doesn't agree with him (and you) and also think that you both are full of shit? It's not just women. And I know you looove statistics. So 😂
Have fun on your blocking spree Mr. Snowflake!
@TruthBringer Just saw u think men that game 16hours in a Day are bad so I won't invite you to my take.
I can play even longer than that in 1 Sitting it is Just called having a hobby
@friendzoned4life Hahaha 😂
So just because I agree with him that so many dudes who game 16 hours a day are being unproductive reflects bad at me somehow 😂. You're probably one of those who I blocked because I didn't allow you to intoxicate my Take with more shallow ad hominems without you actually addressing the statement. Typical behavior of a salty little girl 😂😂
@friendzoned4life Suit yourself 😂. Yeah I think those who game 16 hours a day are unprodutive and indulge in "loser" lifestyle. Perhaps our views on what a 'loser' and a 'winner' differs. One thing I know for sure is that a winner doesn't sit around gaming 16 hours a day, but is actually out there doing something productive with his life. And if you're one of them, then you are indeed one of those who Apope addressed in his Take. You can game even more than 16 hours if you want, that's up to you. But don't get mad when someone calls out that lifestyle as part of a "loser" lifestyle.😂
A winner is someone that is living their life in the way he/she wants.
A loser is someone that tries to dictate how other People should live cause he can't except his own failure in life and Just is filled with jealousy other People can have a happy life doing things that he doesn't cause he doesn't allow himself to like it.
And between the winner and loser we have the challenger the challenger is on its path to find happiness in their life that person Just didn't find a thing that brings happiness or purpose to life
@friendzoned4life Wise words indeed. I agree!
Based on your previous comment you are Just as much of a loser as Apope
@friendzoned4life OOF Caling me a "loser" because I think those who game all day are losers with no ambitions. Yes I am a "loser" who happens to be soon flying F-35s and happen to be in a relationship for a couple of years (and those were just 2 of the many things in my life). I just love how you sit here calling me a loser, but judging by your questions on your own profile, you sure suit that label much more than I do. If you want, I can definitely give you some advice that you are clearly looking for. So before you call others "losers", make sure you are aware that you're asking questions about "how to get out of the friendzone", "how to stop being lonely", "why does no one match me on apps" etc. before you shoot yourself in the foot once again 😂
I Suck at dating that's true it doesn't make me a loser.
It does make me a challenger I am still trying to find a purpose in my life and dating is the only thing I haven't figured out yet.
However you bullying People does make you a loser. Flying F-35s doesn't make you a high value men
@friendzoned4life Hey you're right. You suck at dating, it doesn't necessarily make you a loser. But in the eyes of many it certainly will. While I tried to end things on good terms, you kept throwing shade. So of course I will mention your flaws in dating. I wouldn't have "bullied" you if you didn't choose to "bully" yourself. And flying an F-35 makes me more high value than someone who plays games all day without actually having achieved meaningful things in life that people in general would consider worthy of mention.
So because I game in my free time I didn't accomplish anything please don't make me laugh.
I got bullied a lot in my life they all got handled by Karma one half of my bullies went to jail the other half became drug addicts.
Wouldn't recommend one of those paths
Mean while I am sitting in an office getting payed to do almost nothing
And drink Coffee seems like I accomplished something and fun fact this is my first year in the career.
If I go work somewhere else next year my salary will be doubled at least offcourse I will have to do more then but at least I don't base my value of what I earn.
If I really put effort in my career wich I am doing I can even top the salary in this take. At only 26 I am on a really good path.
Not because I got shit handed too no just because I refused to give up
And if you really think your job makes u, u have a very bad understanding of life.
@friendzoned4life Stop twisting people’s words. No one said you cannot game. Even Apope already clarified that. But gaming all day long is something that the majority of people would consider to be a bad thing.
If you don’t want to get “bullied”, then make sure you don’t induldge in the same behavior.
No there is more to life than just a job. But me having the job I have actually also an indication of various good qualities that I needed to have in order to be accepted in the Air Force. Qualities I have worked hard on outside of gaming (like I said, I am a gamer myself).
From dude to dude, I honestly wish you the best. But it seems like taking advice and looking at things for what they are is not something you want to do. Hence why I wish you the best in finding happiness in your current state. Which spoiler alert: you will not find with your current mentality.
If you truly want to hear some advice, send me a PM.
You say you don't base your value around your job but everything u wanna give power or reason you make about your job
😅😅
@friendzoned4life Actually no. If you know anything about fighter pilot trainign admission, you would know they choose people based on their character and qualities. I happen to have possessed these qualities prior to fighter pilot training and even before I chose to get into fighter pilot training. The qualities that have allowed to be accepted are things that I have built to help me in other areas in my life. And it seems they have also served me well with getting accepted in the Air Force. With or without the Air Force, these qualities would help me tremendously. But you wouldn't know, you like to take advice from the fish, rather than the fisherman. Fish that also happen to be lesbians 😂. You're a lost cause mate.
Still talking about the air force 😅😅 is that your entire Personality
@friendzoned4life Nope. But since we are discussing careers, I mentioned it. And judging from your last reply, it seems like you have run out of arguments after I've lifted your skirt. Like I said, make sure you think twice about calling someone else a "loser" when many people would actually label you that aswel for valid reasons. You can cry and say "being bad in dating doesn't make me a loser" and I would say, you're right, but many people would actually think otherwise. Just a warning for you next time (not that you'll listen anyway lol)
You made your career your entire argument. And as I said if you think People have to change in to someone they aren't before they deserve love u have a very bad view of life
@friendzoned4life That's not what I think, that's actually what lots of women think. The majority of women want a man who is out there doing stuff, not playing games all day long. And you're sitting here telling me I have a bad view of life, while I clearly have achieved the very thing you are dreaming of achieving lol
You two are getting along well I see. 😂
@Anonymous I honestly find this amusing 😂
Yep @Anonymous I am winning right?
@friendzoned4life Yes my friend, you definitely are 😂
I don't dream of flying and abandoning my future family tho
Yes I am @anonymous agrees right?
@friendzoned4life The fact you're sitting here seeking validation from a random internet user (twice already) is something a 'loser' ironically does. You're literally validating what I'm saying and you're not even aware of it.
Um, if you knew anything about the Dutch Airforce, it's that we rarely send pilots abroad. I'm going ot be placed at the QRA (quick reaction alert). Meaning I'm staying HOME. And yes, if it is ever needed, I would be sent to another country for a couple of months. Most fighter pilots had to wait YEARS until they get drafted abroad. But by all means, don't let me stop you from desperately damage control and make being a fighter pilot seem bad which I know most gamers would die to even step into a jet 😂
Oh the dutch air force that makes it even less impressive 😅😅
I wouldn't die to get in a fighter jet of I would try to get in a force over here it would at least be the marines or the army on the ground.
Those guys earned their place u airforce People only have to proof you won't kill yourself while making a sandwich
@friendzoned4life Damn dude, truly making a virtue out of necessity. Now bashing the Dutch Air Force. If you knew anything about the military, it is that the Air Force branch is one of the most respected if not the most respected out of all 😂. Stick to your videogames, mate. Leave the real world experiences to those who live in the real world.
@friendzoned4life Yeah you are the chaddest of them all my friend. 😂
@Anonymous I agree he is lmfao
How can you compare playing video games to being a pilot? I don't get it.
@TruthBringer No, I actually agree with him.
@Anonymous nice to see it all went over your head aswel 😂. I wasn't even comparing being a fighter pilot to playing videogames directly. This is why context is crucial 😂😂😂
Hey
I like the fish 🐟
me too! I'd swipe left if I'd see a guy trying to be artsy, but right for one who seems to enjoy a manly hobby
YES SAME!
@amadimal art is manly
It is not a "manly" hobby. It's a fine hobby and you can have both. But art itself is not a manly hobby
Well catching a fish isn't manly, its redneck
Nothing wrong with a little redneck
Think about the amnt of time needed to go out and catch a fish
I like fishing too
So its chill
Ok i like fishing but... time... doesn't
You dont enjoy chilling 😌not worrying about time?
Manliness is worrying
@Unbeatable I never said otherwise; I was saying - if you reread carefully - that a guy pretending to be artsy would put me off. Keywords - pretending and artsy, not artistic.
@amadimal ok
I think a lot of this is true.
You are part of the problem.
A lot of us work 100 hour work weeks, idiot!!!