Desperation for relationships in your early 20s

[Luvme66]

Hey, this take will sweep you off your feet and land you on the surface called the Reality.

This is gonna be a pretty short mytake and I wanted to share my of 2 years of dating. Pretty short but yeah. Though this mytake might not have much to offer for the people older than me but who knows, if me sharing my learnings helps you in some or the other way.

So I will make to the point less storical and give relevant example for each.

• Never let your social presence collapse just because you got into a relationship.

(I once had a toxic ex who was too demanding; even after being with her 24/7 not literally but it felt like it. Took a while to get my social life up)

• Invest more into yourself than trying to find someone to invest in.

(well, I get it, it's the time to have fun and love, but the more time you put in developing yourself; things will get pretty easier for you to attain that )

• You can be super picky and still go wrong, and it's okay.

(I asked my crush out and she said yes...but well I found out, that we had super different interests and line of thought ; which made me withdrawn from her soo...sure it was fun at first)

• If you are looking for a long term relationship, make sure you are mature enough to do so... Otherwise you just in a cheap romance movie which never screened due to budget cuts.

(Well this idea happened cause nothing lasted with me for more than 8 months because there was this immaturity involved in the setting of relationship goals)

• If it's love you will know, and if it's not time will let you know.

( So stop stressing about it or finding it, just keep on meeting new people and who knows you might click and it becomes beautiful afterwards)

• Don't be afraid to get attached, or else you will miss out on a lot of amazing people

(you are stronger than you think you are, and everything will workout for you in the end, don't be afraid and just experiment with your life)

If you have made it this far, woahhh.... You are awesome and so am I. Lemme know what you think about this mytake.

Cheers!

[Guy13]

Okay. Wonder what you would say now.

[Ryfyle]

You're a smug fucking retard, know that?

[Luvme66]

Why is that? Enlighten me please.

[Ryfyle]

Cause you profile states your 21, and here you are dropping common sense bullshit like some 45 Silver Fox.

[Luvme66]

Well my friend... I am 21 and I kinda have put myself out there... For a while :)

[Ryfyle]

So you smugly shit out this Hallmark bullshit. It's like watching a dude smugly sounding with a rusty nail, then smugly stand and proclaiming it was a bad idea with a bleeding and complacent cock. Post some fucking real and useful shit.

[Luvme66]

I haven't seen a 32 year old do that either so... so a 21 year shouldn't feel obliged to do so :P

[Ryfyle]

Helpful Hint, Loctite anything that takes a Cyclical load or Vibrates a lot. Never trust threads on a bolt or a screw to hold for long. Loctite is also pretty decent of castle nuts on AR's as well.

[Luvme66]

Ahannn thanks for the advice... what caliber can it withstand?

[Ryfyle]

All of them. The Castle nut is there to hold the buffer tube in place, and with so many polymer parts popping up, Good loctite is the way to go. However for safety sake on older lowers you still might want to Stake the Castle nut as well. Outside of that, Loctite is good for a ton of Automotive applications or any application where you don't want a bolt to get shaken loose.