Stop thinking that all women want hot, buff, rich dudes.

[FearedMoose]

It’s come to my attention that an alarming amount of guys on this platform have this to say:

”I’d make such a good boyfriend because [insert reasons] but all women want are jerks who are hot, and have a six pack, and make six figures and yada yada”

Its the most ANNOYING thing that a guy can say. That they’re such a good guy but no women want them because they aren’t conventionally attractive or because the 5 women they have talked to don’t like them back.

These 5 women don’t account for the entire gender. “All women” are you joking? The guy I’m pining for wears the same stupid ass hoodie everyday, has never had a girlfriend, has had the same haircut for years that isn’t flattering at ALL, and yet has the kindest personality and the funniest jokes.

Don’t carry the attitude that you’re “too ugly” for love or women don’t like you because you don’t have abs or you aren’t rich. Women won’t date you because you expect us to be shallow whores that only want sexy men.

What we WANT is someone that isn’t so self-absorbed in their own pity party that they want to think that every woman on earth are just pieces of shit who have their standards so high that they could jump off of them and die.

We call this type of guy a “nice guy” and we intentionally avoid them because they can become the most toxic piece of shit with this mindset.

That is why women don’t like you. Wake up and smell the roses.

[HighValue]

Back when I used to be low income years ago, I was still 6' and good looking and worked out, but the one common thing that was a problem was when I would talk to women online, once they found out my income that was the end of it. That happened plenty of times. There are also tons of videos online of women behaving that way, and I have overheard conversations of multiple women I have worked with over the years that mention a lack of a high income was the reason they cheated on their So and were looking for someone else to replace him.

I don't know about the other factors, but money definitely IS one of the major things the majority of women DO prioritize when looking for a partner. not a normal income, but at LEAST $50k plus, and that is women that contribute almost nothing financially.

So once a guy does start making good money he should treat women the same way they treat guys.

[Pejtu]

They do want a good looking tall guy above 6 feet at LEAST ofc who is not fat not slim like a giraffe neck normal build

he gotta have his own place bought not renting one

he gotta have a career already at 30 or before 30

he gotta work 24/7 so u can stay with ur fat ass at home and do nothing while u cheat and chat with other dudes from tinder

u wanna get married asap to "secure him" and his wealth because we all know courts in US favor women in divorce. Thats typical experience of dating for guy

SO THATS A NO - most guys including me hate women for who they are now - women were better in 1990 2000's now they are trash hoes

[anon1903]

Men who identify as nice guys usually don't put efforts at all in their lifestyle and blame other guys who do care. Like, some of my "nice guys" type friends complain about my crush, on how I'm just chasing him because he looks cute. But honestly — I'm after him because he's opinionated, hot headed like me, liberal and he actually puts efforts into dressing up, into grooming. That's sexy. It's good to not care about people, he doesn't either, but that shouldn't stop you from carving a better life for yourself.

[Guy13]

I agree with you. The majority of guys on this site do little to change their status and like to whine about it...

[BullShark]

If we are to blame someone for this stupid stereotype and belief, it's none other than these redpill movement dating coach alpha chads who parade around the internet, misguiding young and single men who have zero experience with women in real life. This is all part of their big game plan; to isolate and gaslight men so that they feel helpless, unwanted and unattractive and end up falling deeper and deeper into this rabbit hole of lunacy and lies.

Yes, there are some women, heck, maybe even a good number of women who only want to date guys who are at least 6' tall, make six figures, live in a lavish mansion etc. Heck, even my ex girlfriend was like that. But saying that ALL women are like that is like saying all men are nice guys.

Different people have different needs and wants that they look for in a partner and beauty is subjective to everyone. Just like how your friend Todd is attracted to petite redheads but you'd much rather have shapely blond girls, similarly, not all girls are into the jock fuckboy stereotype. No need to be sour if you haven't found your ideal match yet. Just believe in yourself, keep being you, and you'll eventually find that person.

[AdmiralSirJohn]

"The guy I’m pining for wears the same stupid ass hoodie everyday, has never had a girlfriend, has had the same haircut for years that isn’t flattering at ALL, and yet has the kindest personality and the funniest jokes."

Then why haven't YOU made the move? Walk right up to him and say, "Hi. I've noticed this, this and this about you, which I find totally adorable. Would you like to spend some time with me?"

I am 53 years old. I have been on a total of ONE date and had ONE sexual encounter (not the same girl) precisely BECAUSE of what you are saying. How do you know we're like that if you don't take the time to approach and get to know us?

If just ONE woman would take the time to actually get to know me, my likes, my hobbies, my assets, my liabilities, my talents and my warts and all... I'd be in the proverbial "timeless romance" and likely a deliriously happy marriage.

Prove me wrong.

[Tommy789]

A lot of women show that in their actions, and until that changes then Guys are going to keep thinking that. The sad truth is that the only way to change a Guy's mind about that is it that hottie actually reciprocates the nice guys feelings and goes with Him, otherwise the more a guy gets friend zoned the more he is going to be convinced that women want asshole buff guys who make a high salary.

[Wubs3000]

Incels go crazy for some reason. Especially on gag there is a huge potency of them (most of them 30+ lol)

[BJP21]

It depends on the demographic area you live in. In my are, the stigma stands, girls in my area are looking for the six pack sugar daddy with a 10 inch pecker. If you so much as 50lbs over weight its the highway for most of us.

[Kiran_Yagami]

I get what you're saying, but none of that proves that women don't want hot, buff, rich dudes. It only proves that women don't want depressed, loser, incels. Well no duh. We already knew that.

[Anonymous]

If only the world was as simplistic as children think it is.

[msc545]

right! They want hot, buff, rich, TALL dudes!

[Anonymous]

THIS is why you don't take dating advice from women. A set-up for failure.

[Mgtow1990]

Yea whatever then why is it all over google and the internet and even YouTube full of it

[anon1903]

Social media often tends to exaggerate just for effect

[Mgtow1990]

@anon1903 honestly girls say this but I have seen how girls are towards nice dudes and it's not what they want it's jerks so sorry but obviously social media is right

[anon1903]

Some girls do that. The ones that are hot themselves or insecure. Most women know that jerks are up to no good. Stop nagging and maybe you'll find a good woman. :)

[Mgtow1990]

@anon1903 the point is I don't want one I don't even look or talk to them maybe I talk to them on some level but I don't want no relationship

[anon1903]

Good for you

[anon1903]

It's still a weak argument to say "I've seen it on social media so it must be true"

[Mgtow1990]

@anon1903 👍

[Mgtow1990]

It's not just on social media I have seen it in real life as well

[anon1903]

How many cases? Isn't that all men care about? Appearances? Statistics?

[Mgtow1990]

@anon1903 okay I am not fighting about it I am just one who don't want it no more

[anon1903]

You should still stop listening to other men. Because bad men brag and good men complain.

[maximumpower]

Not all, but >90% would prefer them over specimens otherwise endowed.

[hostboy__fastestlaps]

Finally someone who is intelligent.

[Beerluvr]

good one.

[Kim7mik]

What you mean