Should I feel emasculated by a taller woman?

[Anonymous]

I've been talking to this girl online that I like a lot but she's taller. Should I feel emasculated? Should I let get in the way of something that could change my life?

[Iamozzie]

Mate, if you're after a hook up then it doesn't matter. Tall girl, next hook up a short girl, fat girl, darkskinnedgirl or lightskinnedgirl. Consider it an essential part of a bucketlist on chicks; feel emboldened like a testosterone filled man and not a young boy, #confidence.

And i hope you don't let the 'i can't get her because i'm not rich' attitude deprave you of starting a conversation with chicks. Because, as long as you can take her out somewhere nice, and ideally pay most of the night (for my own old fashion reasons, but don't be taken for a complete mug), then money doesn't matter too much. You need a good car, money in your pocket, a confident approach, and any bitch is within your reach mofo.

[Asker]

She's a girl I'll be dating. Why do you call me mofo?

[DanAG]

If you have to ask then yes you are emasculated. That's a serous answer. If you were confident in your masculinity then it wouldn't bother you.

[talldancer25]

it depends. for me as a tall girl, i don't feel like i make guys feel less masculine. some tall girls might make you feel awkward and if there's awkwardness in a relationship, its not only awkward for you but other people who see you. if you can be a man and get past her being taller than you, then other people will most likely respect you more. give it a try, but if its too uncomfortable, be honest with her and tell her what you think.

[Asker]

so you discriminate against short guys

[talldancer25]

not at all. I've dated plenty of guys who are shorter than me and I'm just giving you advice based on my experience. :)

[Asker]

I'm just going to tell her this won't work out

[Missyoungandvlonely]

no i don't know your height but i am on the tall side and you shouldn't feel emasculated. if she wears heels you can also ask her not to. if you like her 4 her then what should size, shape and or height do with it cause if she likes you back she likes you for you. so i hope you don't take it to heart and keep your head up.

[YoungBlackMan]

Nah. A girl should'nt have to give up wearing heels because some guy has insecurity problems.

[Asker]

I'm no. Dwarf

[Asker]

why would she have to wear heels and she's already told anyway did you think of that

[Missyoungandvlonely]

i'm 5'9" to 5'10" and i wear heels but it shouldn't make you insecure everyone is different i'm taller than most of my family you like her for what her pesonality or the height focus on what you like about her

[Asker]

I like her and I don't mind her height but she will mind mine when she sees taller guys out in public

[Missyoungandvlonely]

ok does she like you? if she does she likes all of you and she shouldn't mind your height in public. i wouldn't if i dated a guy shorter than me in public cause i am with him and no one else.

[Asker]

yes she likes me what's so hard to believe about that

[Missyoungandvlonely]

nothing and has she told you that she minds being seen in public with you? she like you for you and she wants to be with you so why should you worry

[Asker]

We haven't gone out on a date yet but we've been talking online and she says I'm sexy which I can't believe

[Missyoungandvlonely]

if i was told that i would faint im a bigger girl and have been called everything in the book to my face buy guys so i get your shock. has she met you in person yet

[Asker]

No but she saw my pics. Aren't pictures worth a thousand words

[Missyoungandvlonely]

yeah

[Missyoungandvlonely]

hope things work

[Asker]

Exactly hope

[Missyoungandvlonely]

have you told her how tall you are?

[Asker]

Yes...

[Missyoungandvlonely]

what did she say about it?

[Asker]

To not doubt myself

[Missyoungandvlonely]

then do as she says she ids right don't doubt yourself

[Asker]

what does that mean don't doubt myself

[Missyoungandvlonely]

not trusting your decision or with the height issue what she means is quit putting yourself down cause of your height. pretty much she is saying be proud of who you are and that she doesn't care

[dihydrogenmonoxide]

no.
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[Asker]

Gee I Wonder. Could it be that he's got money

[dihydrogenmonoxide]

does he look emasculated to you

[Asker]

Of course not, when you have money it doesn't matter

[Stacyzee]

Heels.
That's all I can say.

[Asker]

I'm not going to wear heels

[Stacyzee]

Lol! I mean the woman in the pic is wearing heels.

[Stacyzee]

That's y she is wayyyy taller than him.

[Asker]

what this girl I'm talking about is taller than me without heels

[Stacyzee]

I figured that. I'm just letting the person know who posted the pic know that's the reason y she is towering over him.

[Asker]

They look ridiculous

[Stacyzee]

When you drop your third leg on the floor you will not feel emasculated at all.
J/king.

No, you shouldn't.
You will get used to it eventually trust me.
It may feel awkward at first, but after a while
you won't even care much for the height difference.

[Asker]

then why do all women like tall guys

[Stacyzee]

Not really true. I'm with a guy that is 5'8.
Sure, being tall is very attractive but if you're not its not a deal breaker.

[Asker]

I want to be very attractive?

[Asker]

No question mark

[Stacyzee]

I need to see your face first and know about your personality traits.
Height alone is an attractive quality but it doesn't determine how attractive you are.

[Asker]

She said I'm attractive and sexy

[HRGuy275]

You shouldn't let it get in the way at all. Speaking from experience, it does take a little getting used to but that grace period is short and after that you won't even notice when you're out with her.
Don't let that Amazon get away!

[Asker]

Come on no name calling. . I like this girl

[HRGuy275]

I meant Amazon in a completely positive way. Didn't think that it would be taken negatively. Sorry about that.

[Asker]

Ok..

[TallBlondeAthlete]

Amazons are a fictitious (?) race of people known for their tall, strong, elegant warrior women.

[Asker]

So if she's a warrior woman and I'm shorter than her does that make me her bitch boy

[LittlemissTourettes]

Not really. Height shouldn't come before true love if you feel she is perfect. I'm short so it's hard for me to date a guy shorter than me.

[Asker]

She said don't doubt myself but I don't know what she means

[LittlemissTourettes]

Did you tell her you felt emasculated?

[Asker]

No but I asked her if she minded that I'm short

[LittlemissTourettes]

She meant that should be the least of your worries and you shouldn't feel bad.

[Asker]

A man should be taller than a woman

[LittlemissTourettes]

I guess so but if that bothers you so much, break it off with her. It's just a sad thing to do if you two get along so well.

[Asker]

So you're saying I'm not a man cuz I'm shorter than her. What do you consider short for a guy?

[TallBlondeAthlete]

Short female/tall male relationship concepts are mostly just produced by the media. I know several couples where the woman is taller, and nothing seems out of place.

[Asker]

That's because they are celebs

[LittlemissTourettes]

I'm not saying you aren't a man. Height shouldn't matter, only love.

[Asker]

it's okay I'm just going to tell her this isn't going to work out

[washize]

Unless she slaps you in the face with a dick, then no. You shouldn't feel emasculated.

[Asker]

What does that mean

[washize]

Its pretty self explanatory.

[Asker]

no its not because I don't understand filth

[washize]

Says the guy intimidated by tall women.

[Asker]

just because I'm intimidated doesn't mean I'm filthy

[washize]

Why are you intimidated?

[Asker]

Well I'm already fat and now I'm short. The man is supposed to be the tall one in the relationship

[washize]

So you consider tall women to be manly?

[Asker]

No not at all. But me being shorter makes me feel like a woman

[washize]

Can you explain the reason why? in an in depth manner? I don't understand when people think/feel the way that you do. It doesn't make sense to my rationality.

[Asker]

your big words don't make sense to me either

[washize]

Can you explain in depth why it makes you fell like a woman?

[Asker]

because men usually are taller than women in relationships

[washize]

And tree's usually have green leaves. That doesn't explain why YOU feel like a woman. Does being overweight make you feel like a woman? People aren't supposed to be overweight either. IS your weight emasculating? What is YOUR reasoning for feeling like a woman because of your height?

[Asker]

Why would my weight be emasculating? I have a penis.

[washize]

By that logic why is your height emasculating?

[Asker]

because I'll look like a little boy next to her

[washize]

Do you look like a little boy?

[Asker]

she did say I have a baby face but at the same time she said I was attractive in a sexy way so I'm confused

[washize]

You do know that the term baby face means young looking correct? It doesn't directly translate to infant. It is not a literal term.

[Asker]

could it mean I'm a man child

[washize]

Has she offered you adult diapers?

[Asker]

Stop

[washize]

You're the one being ridiculous.

[Asker]

why would you mention diapers

[washize]

You said her saying you were a baby face implied you could be a man child. Thus I asked if she offered to buy you diapers.

[Asker]

a man child is a man who acts like a child

[washize]

And she would know you were a man child by looking at your face?

[Asker]

I. don't know. I just have a low self esteem

[washize]

A partner can help you feel good about yourself sometimes, but they can't raise your self esteem. Perhaps you should work on that before you start dating. People with low self esteem often end up sabotaging their relationships by projecting their own insecurities onto their partners.

[Asker]

I need a companion in my life since my ex fiance left

[washize]

well good luck with that. I hope everything works out.

[Asker]

That's it?

[washize]

What else do you want?

[Asker]

if she doesn't mind why am i letting this bother me

[washize]

Why are you?

[Asker]

I'm just afraid when we walk down the street holding hands together all the Snickers and sneers I'll get and maybe when she notices that she'll realize what am I doing with this guy

[washize]

You aren't in high school anymore

[Asker]

you don't have to be in high school to get laughed at

[Asker]

one thing about me is that I always care what people think about me good or bad.

[DodgersGM]

If you're already worried about it this much, then I can't see it working out, Just being honest.

[Asker]

look man I had no say in how tall I was going to be so if you want to blame someone blame my parents

[Asker]

I'm going to text her that's isn't going to work out

[DodgersGM]

I don't blame anyone. Just pointing out that if you feel this way about the height difference, then it's not likely to work out. Good luck!

[Asker]

how tall are you

[DodgersGM]

I'm 6'. A little above average, but not tall or anything.

[Asker]

6 feet is tall 5'10 is average and I'm 5'10.so according to what you been saying height does matter

[DodgersGM]

No, I said that in this case, it seems to matter to YOU.

[Asker]

It's easy for you to say you're tall

[DodgersGM]

I understand you wanting to be taller than the woman you're dating/with. I get that.

You're 5'10"...there's plenty of women that are 5'9" and under. Happy hunting.

[Asker]

you don't understand dude even short women want tall guys

[DodgersGM]

Well, then go for a woman who's short. A girl that's 5'2" will see you as being pretty damn tall. Problem solved.

[Asker]

and let me get something straight here I may not be NBA height but I'm not short man not once did you say you're not short

[DodgersGM]

I don't need to tell you that you're not short. You already know that your height is fairly average...you said so yourself.

Besides, who gives a fuck what I think? I'm not the one that you're trying to date.

[Asker]

its called helping your fellow man

[DodgersGM]

If I had told you that you weren't short, you would have fired back with "yeah, but I'm not tall enough for women", and it would have gone round, and round, and round...

I'm not gonna do that. Or at least, not anymore...

Best of luck to you!!! :-)

[Asker]

I love the best of what I get from people cuz its so not sincere

[Asker]

Luck

[Phoenix1991]

Nope, if she likes you and this is the only thing standing in your way, I say chase after her.

[hoodycandy]

Don't let that get in the way, that would be silly.

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

Nope~
Think about it like you're Kili, dwarf warrior, and she's Tauriel, beautiful elf girl.

[Asker]

Now I'm a dwarf?

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

A Tolkien dwarf, the best kind.

[Asker]

You don't even know my height and you're calling me a dwarf

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

It was a reference to Lord of the Rings, I didn't mean to offend you.
To be fair, Kili was very tall for a dwarf.

[Asker]

What a knee slapper haha

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

It was meant to be a complement. I'm sorry that you've never seen The Hobbit or read the books.

[Asker]

I can't read thanks for bringing that out though

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

Why do you take everything I say as an insult? I was saying you're probably very masculine and that you're relationship could work. I was making a cultural reference. I didn't mean you any harm by it...

[Asker]

It's ok. I'm just going to tell her this won't work out. I don't want to be the dwarf in the relationship

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

I'm sorry. You're not a dwarf. I'm a stupid bully and I shouldn't affect your relationship with your pretty elf girl. Please don't leave her because you're upset by a comment about a movie.

[Asker]

its fine its not your fault God made me short

[kawaii-a-rooni-desu]

I...okay. Fine, whatever dude.

[Asker]

Easy surfer chick

[YoungBlackMan]

If you do, then your a weak ass nigga. Forreals.

[Asker]

What's with the name calling?

[YoungBlackMan]

Why would you feel like your not a man because a female is taller than you?

[Asker]

Because it looks weird. People will think things

[YoungBlackMan]

Man do you. Who gives a fuck about some random ass person "may" think. They ain't living life for you.

[Asker]

But what if they're right and what if they tell her I'm inferior and that she can get a taller guy

[YoungBlackMan]

Learn how to have backbone.

[Asker]

You don't just grow one overnight

[YoungBlackMan]

And you dont just relinquish one overnight too.

[Asker]

I don't understand your last comment

[greycadillacs]

For God's sake, no, it doesn't matter.

[Anonymous]

No of course you shouldn't feel that way