Never or rarely, I'm guessing this is normal since I'm in high school. I have to approach guys and majority of guys that are interested in me are my guy friends. So I probably wouldn't know if they were interested in the first place.
Guys don't ever tend to want to ask me out, instead they like to throw a hint and run away. Takes a lot of guts to obviously ask someone out and not many men have the guts in case they are turned down.
Occasionally, like every few months some guy will do a cold approach. I appreciate the confidence it takes to ask someone out, but I'm in a relationship so they get turned down.
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If you weren't taken, would you most likely accept their offer?
There are no real men these days, apparently. Only chachy little boys. You know how much I appreciate a man who comes up to me and asks for my number or even flirts with me a little.. way too much.
Occasionally because I don't date and when I talk to a guy I make it obvious that I wouldn't be Interested in dating. But I hang out with guys a lot just not as in the "date" statues. Two friends having a good time.
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Why don't you date? Just curious if you don't mind.
I picked often, before I settled with my partner and had a child, I used to get asked out/shown interest in nearly every time I went out - and I hated it. So now I'm glad that I'm more of a mumsy figure in mens eyes!
speaking as a man I'll maybe ask a girl out every other month maybe I don't really. did myself out there these days but if we are on the metro and having a good conversation I'll ask for her number
It was often, but it was only because of sex. Usually the ones that were really shy. They're usually the ones that wants to date and see where it goes, so I will usually make the first move for them.
Its weird, its only recently started to happen. It hasn't happened much haha but once one guy asked me out like literally the same weekend this other guy did too. It's like when you're waiting for a bus for ages and then they all come at once. :P
I don't know if this could be viewed as a "taste of our own medicine" since players among males are far and few between but I find this to be true for the most part. Women are players now and days and honestly, it sucks. Women already have the upper hand. On top of that they can go through partners as they see fit.
Guys reject me because I'm innocent no inexperienced which is a shame. Some douche I thought liked me took my first kiss a couple weeks ago and stopped talking to me. It really hurts :(
I was asked out to some social event a few months ago, declined since it was asked in public. I've not no respect for pressuring people with a public audience.
I am 18 and I have never been in a relationship. One guy has asked my out in my life. It didn't work out but it was a nice gesture. I have told many guys how I feel and in the last two years I have been friendzoned 8 times... fun
I would tell you that you get used to it but the most recent one was yesterday and this one is going to be one of the hardest so far. Shit happens. Just gotta pick yourself up and move on
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Never or rarely, I'm guessing this is normal since I'm in high school. I have to approach guys and majority of guys that are interested in me are my guy friends. So I probably wouldn't know if they were interested in the first place.
Guys don't ever tend to want to ask me out, instead they like to throw a hint and run away. Takes a lot of guts to obviously ask someone out and not many men have the guts in case they are turned down.
Occasionally, like every few months some guy will do a cold approach. I appreciate the confidence it takes to ask someone out, but I'm in a relationship so they get turned down.
If you weren't taken, would you most likely accept their offer?
Most likely.
There are no real men these days, apparently. Only chachy little boys. You know how much I appreciate a man who comes up to me and asks for my number or even flirts with me a little.. way too much.
please there are realend just not enough decent women to go. around
true..
I think the thing is, is that men are not wanting to go through a relationship or even marriage
I've been asked out by a guy, though I have been followed, and I am constantly whistled and stared at. lol.
But only one ask-out?
Oopps. Meant to say "I've never been asked out by a guy, though..."
You're quite attractive.
Thank you!
Occasionally because I don't date and when I talk to a guy I make it obvious that I wouldn't be Interested in dating. But I hang out with guys a lot just not as in the "date" statues. Two friends having a good time.
Why don't you date? Just curious if you don't mind.
It's because I don't believe in it anymore after a very bad experience.
I picked often, before I settled with my partner and had a child, I used to get asked out/shown interest in nearly every time I went out - and I hated it. So now I'm glad that I'm more of a mumsy figure in mens eyes!
You're pretty
I'm actually quite offended don't ask me out I know I'm tremendously straight but still
speaking as a man I'll maybe ask a girl out every other month maybe I don't really. did myself out there these days but if we are on the metro and having a good conversation I'll ask for her number
It was often, but it was only because of sex. Usually the ones that were really shy. They're usually the ones that wants to date and see where it goes, so I will usually make the first move for them.
It depends how much I go out. I tend to be a hermit these days.
Usually whenever I go to a bar/pub I'll get asked for my number etc. Less now because once I say I have a bf they back off :)
Its weird, its only recently started to happen. It hasn't happened much haha but once one guy asked me out like literally the same weekend this other guy did too. It's like when you're waiting for a bus for ages and then they all come at once. :P
It's cuz they're trying to find a real woman. Women are the players these days..
I don't know if this could be viewed as a "taste of our own medicine" since players among males are far and few between but I find this to be true for the most part. Women are players now and days and honestly, it sucks. Women already have the upper hand. On top of that they can go through partners as they see fit.
I don't get asked out. What I get is hit on/harassed and a loser that want to try and date me but has no chance at getting me.
wow great feedback on this one, well done.
i almost never get asked out. i get complimented or looked at but thats bout it. i dont mind tho.
Twice a year lol and if I ask a guy out I pretty much get rejected
Me personally i wouldn't reject you but I'm not that attractive so
Guys reject me because I'm innocent no inexperienced which is a shame. Some douche I thought liked me took my first kiss a couple weeks ago and stopped talking to me. It really hurts :(
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I was asked out to some social event a few months ago, declined since it was asked in public. I've not no respect for pressuring people with a public audience.
Damn thats the largest no. of replies from women I have ever seen xD
Is this the largest number of replies to a question all-time?
Probably I haven't been here much but this is far-by the largest I've seen :D
I am 18 and I have never been in a relationship. One guy has asked my out in my life. It didn't work out but it was a nice gesture. I have told many guys how I feel and in the last two years I have been friendzoned 8 times... fun
8 times... damn that's gotta be hard. Seriously, I feel bad for you.
I would tell you that you get used to it but the most recent one was yesterday and this one is going to be one of the hardest so far. Shit happens. Just gotta pick yourself up and move on
Not often because I don't try very hard, I'm dating someone
Hkwever, when I made an effort I got asked out multiple times a night