My bf and I have been dating for three years. During this time he would feel
The need to "communicate or hang out" with this other female. He and this girl attended highschool together; and had a budding (friendship/relationship?) Pior to us dating. Eventually this relationship turned into a friends with benefits relationship, but that was interrupted by our relationship. They stopped communicating due to her jealousy. Fast foward; my bf and I have hit. Rough patch in our relationship; and he seems eager to go back to his "player days" and started communication with her
Again. She admitted to him she still has feelings for him, and asked him to end our relationship; so they can purse a relationship. I'm unsure what his response was, but he is planning to "hang out" with her, and it's making me feel stressed about this. I'm ok with him having female friends; but I'm uncomfortable with him seeing someone who he had sexual relations with. Am I wrong for feeling like this? Or is this female over stepping her boundaries?
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If he wants to go back to his player days he's hardly going to leave a relationship for another relationship. It sounds more likely he's just going to use you both.
This other girl can't even see the mark any more with how far she's jumped over it. If that was a male pursuing my woman there'd be an altercation (Violence in my younger days which I won't rule out at the moment). So yes, do not stand for this. Tell him straight that you are not impressed.
If he doesn't listen then let him go and find someone that will honour your commitment. Do not get sucked into this player's games.3