I stopped talking to him but now I miss him?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing this guy for past 2 months recently I stopped talking to him coz I found out he's a player and he's talking to so many girls at once.. He wanted to be frds I said no but then again I texted him by mistake some typo he only asked what was that I said it was by mistake and he said ok he didn't ask me how I am doing nothing at all.. Anyways now I really miss him coz we hit off really good and I thought he was the one for me I am really inexperienced in this field and I rarely dated anyone.. I am going crazy thinking about this guy he really doesn't give a shit about me I wanna talk to him insult him or whatever to make him not forget me and come back to me.. Crave me.. what do I do?

[MothMonsterMan]

Well you answered your own question. He's a player and you know it. That's what players do. They get the women to come crawling back to them. If you do that, you're lowering yourself to his level. Find a man who treats you with respect and appreciates you, and trust me, you'll wonder why you ever thought of the player in the first place.

[Asker]

I really cannot forget him:( I am so close to messaging him.. Actually he wanted to do stuff with me and I never let him like give him a bj and stuff maybe if I do would he be serious about me?:(

[Asker]

Omg I sound crazy desperate loser girl lol what is wrong with me!!! I think I just want some action loll

[MothMonsterMan]

Nope. Forget him and move on. And hey it sounds bad, but nothing says YOU can't go out and have a fling once in a while. Just make it clear to the guy that's what you want. You're on the "Rebound". Trust me, I don't think many guys would mind.

[Asker]

Why can't I just do him then? Lol I am still a virgin and never did shit with anyone I really want to save it until marriage.. This guy tried to make moves on me so many times it was really hot maybe coz of my lack of experience I find it hot but then again I never did anything with him he tried a lot with me

[Asker]

Should I give it a chance? Coz it was my decision to stop talking and I was mean to him and ignored his msgs and deleted him off my social media lol

[MothMonsterMan]

Sure you COULD do him, but you already have a problem with him being with other girls. So if you have sex with him, it's only going to reinforce your feelings. You have a few choices here. #1 You could start casually dating different guys and see where it leads. #2 You could meet a guy, get to know him a little bit, make it clear you're on the rebound, have a fling and who knows, you might actually like the guy and want to see him more. #3 You could have a one night stand somewhere with a total stranger that you KNOW you will never see again.

I would advise caution with #3. Honestly, just start talking to other guys and see how it goes. Trust me you will get over him once someone else starts paying you attention.

[Asker]

How do I talk to other guys? I rarely go out with anyone.. People say I am goody 2 shoes and they don't want to do shit with me to ruin me or corrupt me watever.. I am really hating that maybe I shouldn't wait until marriage.. Seriously everything is about sex it's very upsetting.. Most guys I like have been with a lot of girls and they just don't wanna deal with me coz I make them wait or not give anything.. Can you tell me how I should be with guys in terms of how much can I give? I am sick of being that nice goody good girl f that!

[MothMonsterMan]

Well men are sexual creatures! It's on our minds all the time. :) There's nothing wrong with being a goody two shoes though. You just start talking to guys. You're going to find a lot of jerks out there. But nice guys do exist. By talking to guys and such you'll gain experience on how to find the nice ones versus the jerks. Sure you may make mistakes here and there but you'll learn from them. Just don't be one of these women that finds a nice guy and then treats him like dirt!

[rjroy3]

Do you actually want him back, or do you just want him to want you? Sounds to me that you don't even like him.

[Asker]

I want him to want me ! And I do like him lol it's just I am really angry at him for what he did:( he's talking to other girls I bet he even forgot about me

[Anonymous]

So are you saying guys and girls can't be "just friends"?

[Asker]

No they can't feelings do come in between specially if u initially started out by datih

[Opinion Owner]

Interesting...

[Asker]

You sound like the guy I wrote this question about