Like I've mentioned many times before, I am one of those in the bad boys category- not a loser or a douche though lol
Now for your question's answer, are you familiar with the term 'opposites attract'?
Also that though you are a very nice and kind hearted girl, you are also a very confident, outgoing and trusting girl who can be quite unassuming and come up as quite aggressive
While you wind up attracting the opposite of you, not only do you get known by the company you keep but also the unassuming & confidently outspoken aggressive part of you tends to scare the 'nice guys' away while on the other hand the bad boys want their hands on you to quench their thirst for controlling someone as confident and aggressive thus making themselves feel good inside :-)
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My cousin is the same way she goes for guys with no jobs, losers, bad boy image
she had her little girl to guy who just got out jail. Some girls are like that they either
try to date a nice guy and get shit on or they date a bad guy like for while than
he screws her over well, I'm thinking you may have self esteem problems and
when your with a nice guy and he starts treating you nice you get scared than
bail out of the relationship and go back to the bad guys again ( jocks, douche-bags)
i think your nice girl, very pretty but I think it's self esteem issues that you scare
the nice guys away they can pick up on it.
a problem with a lot of nice guys is their self esteem is what I've noticed. a lot of guys with confidence tend to be assholes with it for some reason, and most of the nice guys really just kinda get stepped on and pushed aside for being "too nice" and in turn, kinda get down on themselves. so maybe some of the guys you're approaching don't think it's with romantic intentions and might even think there's no way someone like you would go for them. just keep your head up and keep trying girl. :)
Well there are times, where guys assume that girls are taken because they are so gorgeous. But in reality they aren't, and they are really lonely.
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If you want nice guys, consider looking back into the pool of guys you have friend-zoned over the years. You're likely to find a lot of nice guys, because its usually the nice guys who get friendzoned just for being 'nice' (even if they are interesting in so many ways).
Sorry to be so blunt and perhaps rude. ALL women in this world hate me and think I'm the biggest scum of the planet anyway, so my views of girls have become slightly flawed.It has nothing to do with you you gotta storm though all the bad people before a nice guy is into you. You just have bad luck :( I am the same way I have had a lot of bad white girls go for me and its disgusting its usually the girls with a bad childhood who were abused by their mom or dad and now they are taking their anger out on everybody and the few times a nice girl was into me I had a hard time believing it and I got too nervous to ask them.
You're a little opinionated and probably don't defer to them like they think you should. These guys tend to be impressed with themselves, and think others should listen open-mouthed.
Maybe since you only been with and attracted badboys, you have already built up a reputation/ rumour of being a slut even if you aren't. That's how messy life can be.
It's possible that the nice guys you go after are not interested because they assume you are taken, or out of their league.
It could be the way you carry yourself and how you dress. A lot of people make unnecessary judgments based on that alone, especially the shyer, nice type of guys.
Well to be honest you seem like the type that would go for bad boys.
It must be reputation that you only date a certain type and why bother.
u look like you are "jock and badboy property" so they dont want to get beat up or somthing
many will but just dont dare to approach you
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so your saying jocks are losers?
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