We met through a mutual friend matching us up. We first contacted/met through email, and her responses sometimes took nearly a week. We met twice, but the second date she was late and at the end of a nice dat she said she needed to think about another rendezvous I suggested. I followed up a day before that third encounter, and she happened to be sick, I guess.
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I'd cancel a date if I have the flu. I don't want to infect anyone else and if I have a flu I always feel annoyed and might not be up to my 100% best. With that said, her behavior sounds sketchy. The fact that she has to think about something you suggested tells me she's not 100% invested in this right now. However I wouldn't write her off completely. Instead, let her contact you first now. You've initiated enough, it's on her to make the next move now considering she's the one who cancelled.1