How long do guys spend thinking about the girl they like? Guys, how much per day? Let's pretend he really likes her.

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In a new relationship, how often do guys spend thinking about her? Every second of everyday or no?

Inamulhaq · Accepted Answer

if a boy is in real love and want to marry that girl... eg i m in love i love a girl for more than 7 years and she also when ever i m free i think of her that hw should we will get mary hw will we spend tym with each other after marriage and what is she doing right now does she miss me right now or not and also in nigh jus before sleep i jus think of her everyday so i think it doest depend on time when ever a boy is free he must think about her but if he is a true lover and dont have relationships with other girls...

john9871234 · Accepted Answer

It's just sort of as you do things during the day you think what they would be like if she was with you when you were doing those things, like driving somewhere, walking somewhere, shopping or when you just are falling asleep.

Well that's what it is like for me anyway

Spunkie · Accepted Answer

their responses stunned me; I thought women were the only ones who thought of men/sex 24/7's... they proved us wrong... oh wait the question only asked about how much time they thought about their women... they couldn't have been thinking about having sex with the women they liked 24/7's could they? ;)

lady07inred · Accepted Answer

I have always wondered the same thing. It seems like my thoughts are consumed by the guys I like and guys are always so calm cool and collected. I loved hearing the guys responses

Souma95 · Accepted Answer

Some of these answers are absolutely adorable! I never knew that they actually thought about us THAT much! I thought it was only us, awwwh!

CHARismatic110 · Accepted Answer

So can I just say that reading some of these answers from the guys has restored a little of my faith in them!

Urbantarzan · Answer

I liked this girl once. My every thought was about her, she formed the center of my morality, and actions too. But it was an intense attraction that couldn't work because she had her boyfriend (a nice guy I have met him too).

But in some measure I am still getting over her emotionally. :-) I don't know who I will meet, or if any girl would become as special to me as I found her. She was very attractive too. But the best part about her is her modest bringing, she wasn't dressed up in a way that made you think she is flaunting her beauty. I never had to pretend to be something around her. Just being around her made me intensely happy.

Electric_Dreams · Answer

When I like a girl I can't stop thinking about her. Even when I'm doing stuff, even work, they're are still there in my mind only more subdued throughout most of those times. Like there is just an image of her adorably cute face just sort of lingering around in my mind there. It's irritating because circumstance not quite in my favour on account of I suspect she might be half way across the world right now and if so could be for quite a while.

Applefan1 · Answer

If it is a girl I like or have a crush on then a lot of the day and I mean a lot of the day. I even talk to my friends about the girl I have a massive crush on. I always get happy and kind of excited inside when the girl is around to and think about her at night sometimes before going to sleep at night.

PsyNoodles · Answer

Every second of every day when I really like her or even him (but I prefer girls). When she's thinking of you just as much then that's a real good sign in my experience. And for those of you who have a crush just go and talk to the person and try and flirt and compliment them of course in a NOT creepy way! Don't be scared to talk to someone you like. What's the worst that could happen?

randomguy999 · Answer

It depends on the guy and since you said that he really likes her, then he would probably think about her after she just left, when he's bored, with nothing to do, and most likely before sleeping while he is bored. Definitely not every second, and not when he is occupied, but maybe a lot of the other time thinking and imagining stuff.

serp777 · Answer

I try not to think about her at all. Whenever I like a girl, she is automatically out of my league. All thinking about her will do is lead to disappointment and hopeless fantasizing. I try to forget the fact that I like her as soon as possible by distracting myself with work, or video games, or drugs.

atlsailor · Answer

I would say I think about her quite a few times in a day To give a number I would say dozen times mainly while I am between work assignments, During my lunch time when I do some researching I do and the other part of time I read my Bible, of course while researching on internet you get some ad that pop up or movie stuff and you see a nice lady and you see her, or you think of her in the dress that the other lady is in, and surely multiple times before bed. I write occasional stories so you know she is the main lady in the stories when I do write one. Not every second of the day

ArchieTheMage · Answer

Not every second. Cmon everyone has problems and stuff to do :). But really, some think about her ALL THE FREAKING time and be as annoying as possible, some are like "Meh I don't wanna be too annoying", Y-know casual guys :). And some... ugh I hate to say it but most only just think with their other head most of the time :S.

whenIgrowup · Answer

Feel a little guilty after all the previous responses. I have been in a number of multi-year relationships and I am very recently in a new relationships. The truth is the first few days/weeks I thought about her when my mind would drift off what I was doing. Now after about 6 weeks I think of her a few times a day during work hours, and then it entirely depends on what I am doing after work.

If I am enjoying what I am doing, or focusing on work then she isn't on my mind at all. When things calm down its entirely dependent on my mood as to whether I think of her or not. The truth is I always felt like all of the women in my life thought of me far more often than I thought of them. But there is nothing wrong with that. I didn't love them any less, and our time together wasn't altered in any manner. I am extremely affectionate, and passionate when I am with the lady in my life. When they aren't around my attention is elsewhere.

Anonymous · Answer

It's more like periods of time daydreaming about her, unless your the obsessive type and really fantasize lol. When you like someone and you're not with them that feeling of being alone and incomplete is worse though, that lingers pretty much constantly and only goes away if you're distracted.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm in love with this girl... I truly believe that she's the one, and I'm 18, every connection in my mind that links with her makes me think of her, say I see a pretty girl waking by, I'll think about her, everything that sub consciously links with her makes think about her, and it could be about 20 times a day

Anonymous · Answer

With the woman I'm interested in, it's pretty much a good chunk of my day. It'll usually be a quick thought, or it'll be me rehearsing asking her out. or wondering when I'll see her next. It's kind of annoying because I know she's probably not thinking about me AT ALL, so why should I be stuck thinking about her?

koibito · Answer

Not every second, but yeah I've lost a lot of productivity when I start daydreaming about her. Like when I'm working, then my mind might drift a while and I start thinking about her, and oh crap ten minutes just passed like that.

Gigolo_27 · Answer

If I had a girl to think about all day everyday... then I would. There's been a few to get my attention and talk to me, but none will actually stay. I think about my ideal girlfriend (that I don't actually have) everyday 24/7. That's why I'm on this site. Just haven't found the one. Haven't found any.

Tdieseler · Answer

Honeymoon phase... thats literally every second... then she starts to give him reasons NOT to think about her. the honeymoon phase does die out... just like almost everything relationship acquainted. thats why people have to "spice" it up.

nickbrick · Answer

A ton!!! But I think in bed at night is the most common. Not like I want to have sex, but more like daydreaming (or is it nightdreaming) about just a normal conversation.

VitoD123 · Answer

A girl I like, half the day. A girl I love, I never stop...

Anonymous · Answer

VERY often.

I've always been single so when I see couples I really got this strong instinct to get a girl. I become very depressed in these situations (when I see couples enjoying each other); I make myself feel better hoping that the girl I like will like me back.

So yeah, many many times a day.

anastasis · Answer

I don't know. I've never met a girl I really liked. Most of them I find utterly asine and intolerable for earth itself to bear and rest are ignorant and silly at best.

I've never met my counterpart and never expect to. So I don't know.

SoloMid · Answer

If he's really in to her, then I'd say pretty much the entire time. The only time which I'd imagine he wouldn't think of her would be if something really requires his full attention e. g. at his work, or helping a friend out with a problem. Males are known for not being great multitaskers :P

2017gt · Answer

Lets see, for me... in the morning, during school when i see her or one of her friends, after school when i get home, and just before i fall asleep. So yea, quite a lot.

Cole846 · Answer

I think about the girl I like almost all day long. I lose sleep because I think of her so much. I think that it is normal for a guy to think about his significant other a lot.

Reed3000 · Answer

Let's just ignore all the gay people out there. Not all guys like girls. I personally don't at all. But for guys I rarely think about it, I'm don't like people easily and if I do I rarely get obsessed over it.

T-Squared · Answer

Pretty frequently honestly. Whether its sitting in class, or hanging with the dudes, or lounging around the house she is always on my mind. For me it isn't "sexual" at all, rather its just wanting her to be around to talk to, and laugh with, and just know she's there.

Jbunch · Answer

a lot. I had a girlfriend named Arial and everyday I would leave her then immediately sit down in class and open google drive which has it's default font set to "Arial" and I would be like :c everyday

Johnnyjay · Answer

all the time. especially laying down at night. im glad im not the only one and this seems normal.

Sinister · Answer

More like I need to tear myself away from my thoughts of her, her rapture makes the day slow and the nights restless!

Pjhawtie · Answer

Mm.. If i talk about my own case.. Not just when i was in a new relationship with my girl.. But even now.. Itz lik been 2 years.. Even now i think bout her all day.. Itz like she's always in my mind.. I can't stop thnking bout her.. I call her very frequently.. I think all guyz think bout thier girl a lot.. That is if they really like her

genuinlysensitive · Answer

Not literally every second but pretty close too it, and when he is thinking about something else like at work she is most likely in the back of his head.

disintegratingheart · Answer

More than you can imagine. Everything i do or think will remind of her like next time i wanna bring her here then imagine all the things we'll do together there. All the cute convos and hugs and kisses.

zukiii · Answer

I lose sleep at night when im in love ahhhh its like sweet torture

ArchivalMars2 · Answer

Well for if I like her that much it could be multiple times per day if I see her often. If I really like it might be constantly, maybe the whole day.

Anonymous · Answer

constantly, sometimes it gets so bad that i feel i need to kill myself to stop thinking about her... but that just isn't the answer :(

Lonelywolf21 · Answer

I am thinking about my crush 80 % of the day and getting many headaches from it. Is that normal? :/

Freakingthefout · Answer

All day sometimes. But that's unhealthy and I usually keep that to myself.

Anonymous · Answer

Every second of every day, every thought leads to her and every talk with someone somehow turns into a talk about her. You girls really get a grasp on us once we think we have you...

NobodyEpic · Answer

Not every single second, but still a hell of a lot of time.

Sub-Mariner · Answer

New relationship? All the time. Becomes an obsession for some. Not in a bad way but just always thinking about that one girl that could be the one...

thetundrawolf · Answer

It is obsession if we let our emotions carry us away. We will never stop thinking about her.

LokiOfEngland · Answer

I like this girl a lot right now. I probably think about her at least 80% of the day. No matter what I'm doing.

WesTheGuru · Answer

Used to be all day for me, now it's just when I check my texts or when I'm not doing anything else

DamanMannn · Answer

365 days a week, 4380 months a year. and that's if I really enjoy her company.

babeland · Answer

All these guys responses make my heart melt 😚

mrsquirrel · Answer

Pretty much whenever there's nothing to pre-occupy you

MrRandomGuy · Answer

Well i guess a few times a day, depends if i am occupied or not.

QWERTYUIO0 · Answer

In my case its every second. And in night most of the boys like me can't stop thinking about himself with her in his bed. Believe it or not, but its a truth!

JSmuve · Answer

Yes. Every single second of every single day. Every last one of them. All the seconds.

Maxemeister · Answer

I brag to my friends sometimes and think all the time about how to impress her. So far it's working. Trust me, we think a lot.

dazza0791 · Answer

Me i think about my girlrlfriend every day every hour every minute. I never stop thinking about her even now whjile typing this im thinking of her.

ScottK · Answer

When I have a woman on my mind. I think about her constantly. When she means so much to me, I smile often and usually constantly when I'm around other people.

GuinnessBuddha · Answer

I'd say, quantitatively? If I'm working that day, maybe an hour or so. If it's a boring job, or my day off? Probably more if I'm enjoying myself, maybe another hour or two. It just depends on what other life things you're focused on I guess.

dudeman · Answer

When I was younger it was often now when she's around I guess

TheBigBoy · Answer

a lot is all i can say they will fantasize about her not completly in a sexual way but about talking and stuff

Anonymous · Answer

This comment is to insure I don't have to see this Q crop up all the time

blueguy11 · Answer

When I'm really crushing on a girl it could be all that's on my mind the entire day. Realistically probably every ten minuts she'll just pop into my head and I get a warm feeling.

SurströmmingLover · Answer

3 hours 56 minutes and 22 seconds most of the times but it can vary

genericname85 · Answer

if i have a crush like every second, i am not extremely busy with other stuff.

medical2523 · Answer

You can tell your feelings are real when you think about her a lot but its really romantic nothing sexual

Allway · Answer

It's mostly when i am listening to music , or i'm totally free.!

askaway2012new · Answer

I think about her only when i don't think about her.

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