In a new relationship, how often do guys spend thinking about her? Every second of everyday or no?
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Feel a little guilty after all the previous responses. I have been in a number of multi-year relationships and I am very recently in a new relationships. The truth is the first few days/weeks I thought about her when my mind would drift off what I was doing. Now after about 6 weeks I think of her a few times a day during work hours, and then it entirely depends on what I am doing after work.
If I am enjoying what I am doing, or focusing on work then she isn't on my mind at all. When things calm down its entirely dependent on my mood as to whether I think of her or not. The truth is I always felt like all of the women in my life thought of me far more often than I thought of them. But there is nothing wrong with that. I didn't love them any less, and our time together wasn't altered in any manner. I am extremely affectionate, and passionate when I am with the lady in my life. When they aren't around my attention is elsewhere.0