Just read a a thing about how we could have been someone else's crush without knowing.. and yeah so the question is pretty straight forward.
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I think you're better off being rejected once in a while than regret never knowing. Been there, had a crush on a girl, never said anything. In my eyes, she was a 10, fit, beautiful, shared common interests. We've been friends for over 10 years and we've always gotten along great. I never thought she would have feelings for me. I never thought I was her type. I thought we were nothing more than just great friends and what I had was a harmless infatuation. She became single last year and I thought of telling her, but I chickened out, afraid of ruining the friendship. A few months ago, we got drunk and she came clean about having a crush on me for years. She told me how for a while, I was on her mind every night before she went to bed and in her dreams constantly. Nothing happened that night because I was in the process of breaking up with my gf and cheating is not my thing. I was just waiting for the right time end my relationship. I told her I was ending it with my gf and that's when she told me everything. Unfortunately, by this point, she was in a new relationsihp and she decided to give it a chance. I should have said something last year when we were both single and I regret it. I know I shouldn't wish bad things for anyone but I hope they break up so I can have my shot. All these years, we had chances to be together and all lost because we both stayed quiet. So, go for it, no regrets!2
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