How can I learn to laugh at my boyfriend's jokes instead of be offended by them? HELP PLEASE?

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My boyfriend was a really shy type of guy. He seemed to be the type who only had one or two friends. I was the one to ask him out. He used to be really sweet. I really don't know what happened. His jokes are just really hurting my self esteem. I know that having small breasts makes me ugly. But I don't want him saying that.
One time we were at the beach and he saw a girl with big bewbs in a bikini. He was staring for a minute and he said "I wish yours looked that good". I was so hurt and I don't know if I was tearing up but I was trying to hold the tears. Then he told me "I'm kidding! Babe you know you're pretty!" And he hugged me and kissed me. Another time we were at Victoria Secret and I said "why are all the A cup bras always so padded?" And then he said "Because no one likes small bewbs" I looked at him and he said "Babe, calm down. You know I'm joking right?" And he hugged me and kissed my forehead. Another time we were at my best friend small party. She has D cups and she's skinny. She was hugging all of her guests. And he seemed like he didn't want to let go. When he finally did he said to me "Man, I wish your hugs were that good." My best friend looked at him angrily. And I was tearing up. He said "Babe, I am just joking. You know I love you." And I went to bathroom to cry a little. We argued about all his jokes, and he told me I need to learn to take them. He said this is why he doesn't like having a girlfriend because he knows girls take everything so seriously. He used to be really nice but I do notice that he used to mumble a lot of things. Now he says them louder and isn't afraid to be heard. Things seem to change once we started having sex. I love him, how do I learn to laugh instead of being offended by him joking about my A cups?
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Do boys usually make these types of jokes? Girls, do your boyfriends make these types of jokes to you?
How can I learn to laugh at my boyfriend's jokes instead of be offended by them? HELP PLEASE?
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