that's an annoying position to be put in. i think unless you're fine with sneaking out i'd probably just tell them you're going to his place as long as they're not the type to overreact. you are 19 now, so they do not control you
Don't listen to other people some people won't budge if your parents are causing that damage by not letting you see your significant other then that's bit your fault for lying to them your parents should be good parents your 19 to some extent you can do what you want I would tell them you made a new friend and your saying the night at your friends and then go spend the night with them
I ment than thats a little there fault not your fault for lying if there going to try and keep you from your lover then go and try and Romeo and juliet that shit. I'm about to leave to the military to and my girlfriend is having to do the same thing it's kinda funny but also your 19 just say tonight I'm spending the night with him and keep in mind you don't want to make enememys with tour parents but they shouldn't want to do that to you if there not trying to either also he is in the military he is going to come back changed spend time when you can depending on how long he gonna be away you might grow apart a little if you wanna stay together then you need to stay pretty close and having that boundary there will drive you guys apart you guys should definitely cuddle when you can it's amazing
Don't mess things up more than they are already with more distrust. Be honest with each other. Maybe spend the next day together at a movie: cuddle there.
I kinda understand why they dont like the fact he is a military guy. It automatically means he goes on tours for some time and it will be partly a long distance relationship and thats not for everyone
Tell the folks your recently discovered your gay and your going to be with your lover. After that most parents would be happy if you were with Attila the 😘
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that's an annoying position to be put in. i think unless you're fine with sneaking out i'd probably just tell them you're going to his place as long as they're not the type to overreact. you are 19 now, so they do not control you
To cuddle ends up being 'to have sex', ya know, just a little bit - and mutual orgasm _is_ marriage.
Don't listen to other people some people won't budge if your parents are causing that damage by not letting you see your significant other then that's bit your fault for lying to them your parents should be good parents your 19 to some extent you can do what you want I would tell them you made a new friend and your saying the night at your friends and then go spend the night with them
I ment than thats a little there fault not your fault for lying if there going to try and keep you from your lover then go and try and Romeo and juliet that shit. I'm about to leave to the military to and my girlfriend is having to do the same thing it's kinda funny but also your 19 just say tonight I'm spending the night with him and keep in mind you don't want to make enememys with tour parents but they shouldn't want to do that to you if there not trying to either also he is in the military he is going to come back changed spend time when you can depending on how long he gonna be away you might grow apart a little if you wanna stay together then you need to stay pretty close and having that boundary there will drive you guys apart you guys should definitely cuddle when you can it's amazing
I know lying sucks but love is more important to some extent your 19 he gonna be making Hella money you can move out and live with him if you want to
It never happened to me it was never for sex.
In one situation the girl just got with me to pick up sun screen, and even then we had sex.
If you are alone the chances of sex are incredibly high.
it isn't for sex, but sex will happen so... we're not dumb lmao. there's no excuses you can use. sorry kid.
Who needs an excuse... you are an adult and can decide what to do with your life. Are you having sex with him at all?
Don't mess things up more than they are already with more distrust. Be honest with each other. Maybe spend the next day together at a movie: cuddle there.
You got there and your car broke down you had no choice but to spend the night as you are waiting for a part.
movie night or combined study if u are student... may be u can say its his birthday or his parents aniversary
Well, you're 19 you should be able to do what you like. Just tell your parents you're staying at a friend's house
I don’t know I’m kinda with the parents on this one
no straight guy likes to just cuddle
we can’t be that close to a gal we fancy and not want more
I kinda understand why they dont like the fact he is a military guy. It automatically means he goes on tours for some time and it will be partly a long distance relationship and thats not for everyone
I don't think an excuse is a good idea. It probably will just make the relationship between you and your parents worse.
I was in the military, and that's an absolute lie. He doesn't want to cuddle.
Considering you lied about your age you will probably lie to your parents too.
And you’re surprised that your parents don’t want or trust you to stay the night?
You seriously need an excuse lol 😆 just be straight forward or don't say anything and just let him see your staying on your own.
19 >= 18. You don't need an excuse. Tell your parents you will be staying with a friend.
At your age ( if correct) you don't need an excuse,
Because you wanted to that's all you need to say
Tell the folks your recently discovered your gay and your going to be with your lover. After that most parents would be happy if you were with Attila the 😘