I don't believe you. I think only if you haVe a superficial relationship.
I wouldn't someon telling me they feel some thing They dont. It's patronizing.
I wouldn't ask someoen how they feel Id just let them tell me. So there's no reason to lie. And if I tell somein how I feel it's Bc I want to. Not Bc im fishing.
Id never lie too a Guy to get him to stay. If someoen is going to leave you Bc of the truth, so be it. thats life.
Imagine you are in love and she isn't. And she lies hoping she'll fall in love. And she never fall in love. Then you've hung around getting more attached andfinaly she dumps you Bc she's unfortunately not feeling it. You're very much in love now and feeling like an idiot. bc she she waitEd when she should have had told you the real information all along... So you could make her own decisions.
If love doesn't get it across to you think of the same scenario but wiTh sex. She lies about being attracted hoping itL change but it doesn't.
If you can't be hinest and live with the truth you're living wrong and bringing someoen down with you. You're comvimcing yourself iits logical Bc it's convenient. But in reality it's impulsive irrational and immature
@Kalinda You aren't going to like what I tell you. But this is the honest truth, and something you either don't want to understand, or just can't, because you're breaking down my statements using a females perspective (I know what you're thinking after reading that, but stay with me).
This is very simple, all of the things a guy does to get a girl (be funny, charming, intelligent, etc...) is what makes you fall for him, correct? Now let me ask you this. What do you think you do, to make a guy fall in love with you?
I gave you very valid logical explination as to why lying about this is disrespectful patronizing and potentionally wastes valuable time.
I put the same scenario to you so you try to u der stand the logic in want i wa saying. Instead of thinkimg seriously about the situarion , you come back at me with I don't understand people bc Im a woman.
I think you have been taught o act on your feelings and not use logic which is why you cannot understand want im saying. You're vaguely uncomfortable so you try to undermine perfectly logical view point by invoking the fact im a women. It's cheap.
If you a t to be related you should resect other peope, and not waste their time. Especially in realtionships bc the person is trusting you. if you don't test yourself you wouldn't see why that's importnt.
Your arguments are about convince and immediate gratification. Not reason and integrity. So for me it doesn't wash.
@Kalinda You just don't get it, and didn't answer my question. "I think you have been taught to act on your feelings" actually, I'm the exact opposite. I understand what you're saying, but what you don't understand. Is it's easy for a woman to think that, and I was about to tell you why and break it down for you. Which is why I asked the question.
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that im just friends with his best friend
Ohhh... ur bad...
I told him I was not bi
You're the most handsome man in the world
No, thats not a herpes sore, just an abrasion.
Your penis isn't small
oucchhhh really?
Most girls do
Not a real lie, but a lie of omission.
After 4 years, "I still love you."
Why lie? Just leave him.
I did.
your so tight lol
"I love you"
You are great in bed
Hmmm don't hav gf yet
I don't think you can beat this xD "i got raped"
Why lie about that?
Honestly i was just bored, and i never thought we would end up dating bc i met him online
You were bored... so you said you were raped? Logic.
Never had a relationship but I would never lie!
"I love you"
This. The root of all evil.
Why would you lie about that... Don't you think it's pretty disrespectful?
@Kalinda Well, when the relationship is on the line, saying you don't love the girl yet isn't the best option.
Just a case of having to say it before you mean it, and hoping you can say it and mean it later.
Guys always say "I love you" before they actually mean it. That's just a fact.
I don't believe you. I think only if you haVe a superficial relationship.
I wouldn't someon telling me they feel some thing They dont. It's patronizing.
I wouldn't ask someoen how they feel Id just let them tell me. So there's no reason to lie. And if I tell somein how I feel it's Bc I want to. Not Bc im fishing.
Id never lie too a Guy to get him to stay. If someoen is going to leave you Bc of the truth, so be it. thats life.
Imagine you are in love and she isn't. And she lies hoping she'll fall in love. And she never fall in love. Then you've hung around getting more attached andfinaly she dumps you Bc she's unfortunately not feeling it. You're very much in love now and feeling like an idiot. bc she she waitEd when she should have had told you the real information all along... So you could make her own decisions.
If love doesn't get it across to you think of the same scenario but wiTh sex. She lies about being attracted hoping itL change but it doesn't.
You're thinkimg things are going well, and meanwhile she's getting less attracted the. Dumps you. No sex no realtionship 8 months down The drain.
If you can't be hinest and live with the truth you're living wrong and bringing someoen down with you. You're comvimcing yourself iits logical Bc it's convenient. But in reality it's impulsive irrational and immature
@Kalinda You aren't going to like what I tell you. But this is the honest truth, and something you either don't want to understand, or just can't, because you're breaking down my statements using a females perspective (I know what you're thinking after reading that, but stay with me).
This is very simple, all of the things a guy does to get a girl (be funny, charming, intelligent, etc...) is what makes you fall for him, correct? Now let me ask you this. What do you think you do, to make a guy fall in love with you?
I gave you very valid logical explination as to why lying about this is disrespectful patronizing and potentionally wastes valuable time.
I put the same scenario to you so you try to u der stand the logic in want i wa saying. Instead of thinkimg seriously about the situarion , you come back at me with I don't understand people bc Im a woman.
I think you have been taught o act on your feelings and not use logic which is why you cannot understand want im saying. You're vaguely uncomfortable so you try to undermine perfectly logical view point by invoking the fact im a women. It's cheap.
If you a t to be related you should resect other peope, and not waste their time. Especially in realtionships bc the person is trusting you. if you don't test yourself you wouldn't see why that's importnt.
Your arguments are about convince and immediate gratification. Not reason and integrity. So for me it doesn't wash.
@Kalinda You just don't get it, and didn't answer my question. "I think you have been taught to act on your feelings" actually, I'm the exact opposite. I understand what you're saying, but what you don't understand. Is it's easy for a woman to think that, and I was about to tell you why and break it down for you. Which is why I asked the question.
"I love you."
"Yes, I pulled out"
I love you