Perhaps the girl or girls in question had very negative experiences rejecting someone before. Some men have very bad tempers and become very angry.
Gaging from your various responses, asker, it seems like you are very hurt. Perhaps the girl sensed this about you and thought you might become angry and possibly violent. You seem ready to inflict violence on yourself, so it's understandable they don't want to be confrontational with you.
You're young, however, and you will find out that there's no shame in being rejected. It happens to us all. You can message me if you like.
You don't have much experience with humans, don't you?
38.media.tumblr.com/.../...taBFvE1rlpjl3o1_500.gif
The thing with guys and rejection is that it seems like no matter how you reject them, you're doing something wrong. If you make up excuses, you're a bitch. If you ignore them, you're a bitch. If you tell them that you're not interested, you're a bitch. Some girls lie and beat around the bush because they don't want to hurt the guy's feelings by essentially telling him that he's unattractive (physically/mentally/emotionally). Other girls are more upfront than that, but are still being called bitches for being "insensitive" or "self-entitled" or "shallow".
Because when it comes to rejectong guys we cannot win. if we don't do it harshly enough they usually come back trying to persuade you, if you are nasty you get verbal abuse and if you're honest you get abuse too.
I just go for the direct: go away I don't like you.
If that doesn't work I tend to just be vile to them. Rip them to pieces until they just fuck off.
Don't worry, I'd happily tell you what I thought of you if the situation arose ;)
So it sounds like she had a choice between "sounding like a b****" or being a lier... And also not many people can handle the truth, so how was she to know, that you wanted her to be brutally honest? Cause I have no problem being 100% honest with people, who I know can take it... But I do hold back on those, who can't, or those, who I don't know.
Opinion
2Opinion
They think that we are the same.
That we can't take sh*t the same way they can't.
They think rejection will reduce us to a blubbering mess, stuffing our face with ice-cream and whinging on the phone to our friends.
That's understandable but cmon!
We can take it.
We are men!
You have a really poor attitude and you're making mountains out of mole hills. Take some time to work on yourself and your confidence and the right girl will come along. Reading your comments, it sounds like you have some serious insecurities so instead of trying to find a girlfriend to make your life better, try working on your own personal happiness first and then you can have a girlfriend who will add to your happiness, not create it.
It could have been an honest mistake or she just didn't want to hurt your feelings I think jumping off a bridge is a little extreme
Because we're demons sent from hell to make your life harder.
That's not all girls, it's one girl. It sounds like she just doesn't like you
You should be thankful that she wasn't a bitch about it.
so guys never lie, eh? :-P
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions