I'm actually quite surprised to see your age, thought this would be a teenager question, I digress
You can see it one of two ways. Either that the guy has important things to do or just things he's trying to do, but he still decided to answer you back when he was done.
Or that you should be his first priority no matter what and that he should always stop whatever he's doing to answer EVERY text you send him.
If I tell a girl I'm into that sorry I was busy, I legitimately mean it. I hope she'd understand I would be fine with her doing the same, communication isn't supposed to cause stress. Limit yourself to a phone call if you feel that way.
Reasons I don't text back quickly, I'm working, im talking with a friend in person, I am in the middle of a video game (I'll get you soon as I can pause, but I'm not going to act like I don't need me time), didn't hear the message, driving, you sent a XD replay and I don't feel like being clever, and probably a lot more reasons...
Most Helpful Opinions
Well because someone has something more important in the immediate doesn't mean you are always 2nd in his priority list.
like, no one will skip an important meeting or dreamjob interview just to go shopping with his girl, or potential girlfriend. If the girl really likes the guy, she will understand.
Besides, you must be important to him if he apologized for a late text reply.
sometimes it is, sometimes it isn't. you'll have to access the situation and how he is with u usually.
id give him the benefit of the doubt but if it becomes a consistent thing u know something's up.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
8Opinion
No not always. Being busy could mean that you were doing something hence the reason I missed your call etc, but if it is used like"why didn't you ring" sorry I was busy" then this could be seen as an excuse, x
Depends on what it is. If he is working, he obviously won't be able to text you. But at the same time, he has his own life and he gets busy with all sorts of things, it doesn't make you any less important, that's just how being busy goes.
What if it's true? Sometimes I'm too busy answer texts, or even read my messages. It can sound as an excuse, but people should understand that it can happen
Yes, sorry to say sometimes other things are more important and you can wait. That is reality.
well sometimes I legit was busy and if the girl really wants an explanation then I can totes give her it
not if you have a real job.
you're going to have to elaborate..
Hard to tell., hy didn't he just call to say that?
Learn more
We're glad to see you liked this post.
You can also add your opinion below!
Most Helpful Opinions