he knows im a virgin and i'm a model (no joke) and he rejected me still, is he scared of getting hurt? because why isn't he all up on me when i asked to see him? he just said ''ok''. I rejected him sex earlier, months ago because i was scared it would hurt, he got impatient and went to other women KNOWING im a virgin. Is he insane? He said me being a virgin is ''ok'' and he doesn't have to be my first ''perse'' but which guy wouldn't have the honor to be my first?
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What Guys Said 22
- Jimrat866 Xper mho 9%
You sound very conceited and completely arrogant using words like "having the honor" to be your first. I know it might seem outlandish to you, but not EVERY single guy on the planet is pining for you because of your looks and unpopped cherry. Get over yourself please.
52|30|0 - Tromba9 Xper mho 17%
The times I did something like that it was because I thought they were the sort of person it was better not to get involved with. Usually because they struck me as too flaky.
You thinking it's an honor to take your virginity would definitely be a warning sign to me.11|00|0 - thelanatellama6 Xper mho 17%
I'll be blunt.
He sounds like he's looking for a hookup and it sounds like you're being pretty stuck up.
This isn't based on the fact that you're a model. It's because you say things that suggest that he's clearly an idiot because he doesn't want to be with you.
"Why isn't he all up on me when I asked to see him?"
"Which guy wouldn't have the honour to be my first?"00|00|0 - Bandit74Master mho 15%
He probably thinks you're too high maintenance and that it's not worth the effort. As you said after you rejected him he just went to another woman (another woman who will probably have sex with him sooner than you would have). He values east sex over sex with a virgin.
Also depending on what type of modeling you do he might have been turned off by that.00|00|0 - PiuBelloAmante9 Xper mho 13%
Haha wow!
Well I think he just wasn't ready for that level of commitment yet
But you shouldn't feel as though your virginity is something that all men want to take or that you are entitled to having someone
Just wait for another man who is willing to commit to you, and lives you for who you are00|00|0 - dricky20116 Xper mho 12%
maybe he doesn't like you because you think so much of yourself, there is more to beauty then, and honestly you sound like your lacking the beauty that is deeper then the skin,,, best of luck
11|00|0 - Drake7 Xper mho 11%
well first cause there is more than being a model. And if you consider yourself that beautiful, why dont you show us your face... And you rejected him the first time anyways
00|00|0 - GamerArtNerd7 Xper mho 15%
Wow you are really big headed aren't you? You are acting like such a huge prize. I'm sure if it were the other way around you wouldn't be nearly as surprised.
00|00|0 - genericname85Master mho 11%
the first time is mostly not very "good" for both partners (even if one is experienced) and maybe he thinks he´s not worth it. also he might be confused because of the initial rejection.
00|00|0 - DaCrownlessKing7 Xper mho 6%
With that attitude I hope you get fucked and dropped. Humble yourself
22|01|0 - RationalMaleGuru mho 7%
maybe you strike him as high maintenance. and there are plenty of hot girls out there, models or not.
plus, he might be looking for sex.00|00|0 - cjmtherfcker8 Xper mho 6%
Could be he thinks you're going to fall madly in love with him and he is not sure he is ready or capable of reciprocation
00|00|0 - dudegrt099 Xper mho 4%
lol what you being a virgin doesn't make you like irresistible. Highly chauvinistic guys will consider this to be a quality.
00|00|0 - CuiqueSuum6 Xper mho 6%
Scared of getting hurt? You know he only wants to have sex right?
00|00|0 - Anonymous
I would pop you and drop you.
00|00|0 - Anonymous
Well you should be proud of been a virgin and add sound like he just want one thing. I am 27 and virgin and i know you find someone better than him :)
00|03|0 - Anonymous
Sometimes i think i see things more bluntly than most people. The obvious should be obvious. He obviously wanted sex whether it was you or someone else didn't matter. He just needed it not a relationship so if you want to pursue a relationship with him now knowing his priories i can't say the evidence wasn't there
11|00|0 - Anonymous
Sometimes we men do not want some one who is almost perfect... you know there needs to be some sort of imperfections as well.
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What Girls Said 12
- selfishstarsGuru mho 31%
Some people value virginity a lot. Some people don't value it.
Maybe he just lost interest in you as a person or as a potential romantic/sex partner. Plenty of people look for more in a partner than just physical attractiveness and virginity.20|20|0 - MysteriousChick937 Xper mho 8%
Lol why isn't he all up on me haha you sound stuck up as hell girl. Come off that high horses nobody likes arrogance it's ugly as hell. Just cus your a model don't make you superior an just cus your a Virgin you shouldn't think a guy should be honoured 😂 some don't like them he doesn't have to wait an obviously couldn't forget him
21|10|0 - MixedTwit6 Xper mho 11%
Prob bc she's a virgin and doesn't wanna b her first, like disappoint her or hurt her bc the fact she's prob tight and shit. Or maybe he thinks if he does it with u then maybe. Ull b over attached cuz he would be ur first. But he honestly just could not be that interested so maybe that's y he rejected u.
00|00|0 - CHARismatic110Master mho 11%
Maybe he's not that into you? Maybe your personality doesn't attract him. Just be a use you're a beautiful model virgin, doesn't necessarily mean guys will fall all over themselves for you.
32|10|0 - whiteflowers5 Xper mho 4%
It seems like the problem in your PERSONALITY not your VIRGINITY. Try to work in that or you're gonna be alone forever. Because you're a model it doesn't mean you're better than anyone else. Personality what matters.
21|10|0 - Ljubica5 Xper mho 2%
It doesn't matter that you value your virginity a lot and that you think you are pretty. That guy wanted sex, you refused, he just found other girls that accepted. He wants a girl who would like to have sex with him not a girl that thinks highly of herself. Pretty simple actually. By the way, how can you expect a guy you rejected to not reject you?
00|00|0 - midnightbeast2 Xper mho 13%
wayy to much stock in your virginity its not even a real thing just a social construct, maybe your personality wasn't attractive, because you do sound full of yourself
00|00|0 - abundantlyrichMaster mho 10%
He found another person to get laid with. He doesn't need you.
21|10|0 - Izzex39 Xper mho 6%
He clearly doesn't fancy you all that much.
Just because you think of your virginity as something valuable doesn't mean others feel the same.00|00|0 - puncakegirl8 Xper mho 10%
People who think so high of them selves aren't always very appealing
11|00|0 - Anonymous
The only reason i could guess is he's afraid of you bein attached to him
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I agree you sound so vain and stuck up which is making you look so unattractive. Please grow up!