I'm now with my original mid-dark brown hair and it'll stay that way till the color vanishes with old age (then I'll just dye it with the color I was born). Another issue, she has this concept that whites are the most desirable of all races and that guys would tend to like those women more.
So this is basically a defeat I guess. I'll never be the gorgeous 9/10 in looks white girl with blonde hair. I'm just a 6-7 in looks hispanic woman (I'm not an hourglass but neither chubby, I'm average weight), darker hair and eyes and olive skin.
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I think your mother is totally clueless. Most guys like brunettes actually. The fact that Marilyn Monroe sang that men prefer blondes does not necessarily make it true.
I get that you are black? About men preferring whites. I think it depends where you look. A lot of guys here will tell you they have no problems with black girls. I sure don't. If I find a girl attractive, I find her attractive. The skin color doesn't change anything. I think the attitude has much more to do with it. If you are approachable, it shouldn't be a problem.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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I watched a Buzzfeed video on the different hair colors, and less then 2% of the adult population is a true blonde! I guess the rarity of it makes it appealing to some.
I have dirty blonde and light brown hair. I am white with brown eyes so I can't really vouch that guys go after me more, they don't. They prefer just small short girls when I'm average height and weight.
Beauty is truly in the eye of the beholder, and everyone has different preferences. Comparison is the thief of joy. I can tell myself I'll never be as thin as a Victora's Secret model, or I can be happy with the size of my boobs. Try not to bring yourself down so much.
P. S. your mother sounds like an ass, all races are equally beautiful and capable of love.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE