What do I do if my boyfriend played spin the bottle and kissed other girls when I wasn't there?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

grey area here few questions:

Di he tell you himself or did you find out by someone else?

Does it bother you? it was only a kiss

did you guys talk about what each other considers cheating?

For example my girlfriend and I consider:

kissing, blowjobs, sex to be cheating of course

buttt she doesn't care if I grab a girls boob or ass (over clothing) she finds it funny she actually asked me to grab her best friends tits once and we all had a a laugh about it...

only YOU can decide what to do

[Asker]

Some one told me then he lied about it and then I asked him again and he fessed up 2. at the time yes now no bc it’s been 3 years 3. no but I wasn’t there

[AleDeEurope]

He cheated, don't believe the "but it's just a game" bullshit. Dump his ass. Next time he'll get his dick sucked in a dare, and then he'll fuck another girl and give you the same excuse.
Dump him.

[Notacreativeusername]

Don't use a slippery slope fallacy. The guy probably didn't know that what he was doing would upset his girl.

[AleDeEurope]

@Notacreativeusername Who is so stupid to believe his girl is not gonna get mad about him kissing another girl?
Seriously, you gotta be pretty dumb to believe that.

[Notacreativeusername]

The context of the kissing makes it a moral grey area. Certainly he should've asked her, but this shouldn't end a relationship necessarily.

[AleDeEurope]

@Notacreativeusername cheating and not taking into account your girl's feelings should end a relationship

[Notacreativeusername]

You need to redefine what you think 'cheating' is. The guy only crossed a physical boundary, he's not in love with another girl

[Mustachekitteh]

@Notacreativeusername you seriously don't know most females then. It doesn't matter the fact that he kissed another girl. They will be mad about it. Doesn't matter in what context it was it's still a kiss with another girl. Most females do not let that type of thing go.

[Notacreativeusername]

@Mustachekitteh I certainly understand that, but it shouldn't be assumed that he did. That's all I'm saying.

[Mustachekitteh]

People still play that game? Kind of surprised. lol

Well he should have told them that he has a girlfriend so anything that involves touching other girls in any way may it be kissing and anything like that. Then it would go to who ever is next to him.

Did you ask him why he didn't just say he couldn't that he's taken and doesn't care if it's just a kiss he's not going to do that?

[Asker]

Yeah I did and he just said he wasn't thinking

[Mustachekitteh]

That's kind of a sad excuse. When you truly care about the person your with. You don't end up becoming stupid all of a sudden and forget and kiss someone else. Did you tell him how that made you feel? Plus i wouldn't blame you if you stop trusting him in going to any other parties without you. I wouldn't trust him.

[Asker]

I did tell him how I felt and he said sorry but I didn't feel any meaning behind his words

[Mustachekitteh]

then maybe u should break up with him if he doesn't truly feel sorry

[sportyspice]

Hmm good question. If he's not alone as in 'not single' person playing the game. then its OKAY. Maybe not! At least he told you about it?

[Asker]

By the lied to me first I had to push it out of him

[MissNowhere]

Gosh, you dump his ass obviously. That's cheating. Have self-respect please and break up.

[Albinoninja66]

Leave his cheating ass. It's common sense to not kiss any girls under any circumstances if you are in a relationship. He needs to grow up. My ex was like this but not to the point where she would kiss them, just to where she went on a date with another guy and didn't think anything of it. She was so oblivious that she didn't even think she did something wrong.

[K1ll3r98]

leave him. if he has a relationship and still decides to play than he is not worth dating. he knew he would have to kiss a girl so why did he play. just think of that

[Asker]

I did

[falafelany1]

If a bottle got him to cheat then he may do it again. It is easy to just not play the game or refuse to take part and he didn't do that.

[Notacreativeusername]

Spin the bottle is a fun party game, no more. If he was the one to tell you that he did this, he likely doesn't feel as though he has cheated on you, and thus hasn't really cheated.

[Asker]

He didn’t tell me he lied and then found out I already knew then told Me

[Maxemeister]

Leave that douche! He isn't ready for a serious relationship!

[Asker]

I did

[ZombieCommie]

You make him your ex boyfriend because that's cheating.

[Anonymous]

Were they kissing in front of the others? Were there other guys there?

[jacquesvol]

Probably: spin the bottle is a game.

[jacquesvol]

and asker writes girlS (pl)

[Opinion Owner]

@jacquesvol Sometimes the two who have to kiss might be sent into another room to do it privately, but if they do it in front of the group which includes both genders I think it's further from cheating.

[Asker]

That would be 7 minutes in heaven if it was private and no bc he lied which meant he knew he was doing something wrong

[Anonymous]

Dump his nasty ass. And seriously, who the fuck plays spin the bottle now? Is this a 90's movie? Lame

[ginnyweasley]

Dump him that's cheating

[Asker]

I just did yesterday

[Anonymous]

Leave him to rot. He's not loyal if he gives himself up to other girls

[Opinion Owner]

As I wrote this I realised that guys can be asses, but are not always the main reason to be blamed. Many people will say he's the spawn of satan, but a lot of guys accused have been tempted with alcohol or could have been blacknailed into it... However, in this case it was probably for his own satisfaction and to either get laid by another girl, or (no offence) possibly find more excitement in his relationships with other girls

[Asker]

He is a minor

[Asker]

And so am I we can't drink

[KHaskins]

Dump his cheating ass.

[Asker]

I did

[jermainyrn]

what do you think? you leave him

[Asker]

I did

[PoundCakeee]

Kiss his best friend 😊 #thankmelater

[Asker]

Love this

[Anonymous]

He probably liked it, but he's tied down to you so he probably didn't do anything past that

[LilBrezzzzzie1997]

If he had sense he wouldn't be playing at all.

[apple24]

I don't know! Is it a deal breaker for you?

[Neuromancer22689]

He's a cheater girl. You deserve better.

[DodgersGM]

Dumpity dump DUMP.

[teawrecks]

... you dump him.

[Joey_P]

id dump him

[Asker]

I did