Most Helpful Girl
based on some of the comments and replies, sometimes the girls just have issues. they might like you, but they're not really emotionally capable of handling a relationship. they might work too much, don't take enough time for themeselves, or just lack self confidence. I've had similar experiences trying to schedule time to hang out wiht a friendgirl. Seriously, i had enough of the last minute excuses, and the pure laziness. First time she cancels cause she gotta work, next time she got cramps, next she double booked something... bla bla. but every time she sees me she gets excited and we talk, and she says we gotta get together, my schedule is different now...
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Most Helpful Guy
It doesn't matter. Either way she is playing games, so stay away from her.
If you want to know the difference, leading you on is making you think she is interested and have a chance with her. But she really has no intention of getting with you.
Playing hard to get means she might actually want your attention, but she plays games and pretends like she doesn't. In her mind she might think she's giving subtle hints and expects you to read her mind and understand them. She's the dangerous kind of girl who perpetuates the idea that no means yes. There are a lot of rape victims fighting against that type of thinking, but she's perpetuating it.
I know a girl like that. She thinks that a guy has to prove he really likes her by continuing to pursue her after she's said no several times. You should stay clear of that kind of person.