Would you date someone who had an affair with a married woman or man?

A guy I went out with last night admitted his last relationship was with a married woman who is one of his best friends wife. They seperated after the affair started but the husband still doesn't know anything. He said he felt really bad at first. Would you trust someone like this?
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  • I cheated once... I completely changed from that but I'm only very young and teens change drastically... I don't know about a middle aged man. He most likely won't change sorry

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  • Nope. Cheaters are selfish, and so are people who knowingly get with cheaters, especially their own friend's wife. Anyone who thinks it's okay to do that to someone else (especially a "friend") is not going to think twice to hurt you when it's convenient for him or her.

    This guy did you a favor by letting you know he's a selfish, self-centered asshole. Now, use that knowledge to your advantage and kick him to the curb.

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  • it is cheating to date a married person. if you are not cheating on someone else. maybe not the greatest choice but in my opinion say i had a girlfriend how could i be mad at a person for wanting samethign as me. i should be mad at her not them. so i see no problem with it.

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  • People "cheat" only when their primary partner is not providing them everything they want and need. That does not mean the primary relationship is bad or undesired, just that it is missing something. If you were thirsty, you might find a glass of water.

    I would be more concerned about him feeling regret than of what he did.

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    • He didn't feel regret.

    • Your answer is about the cheaters POV. What about the person they cheat with. He was single when they started.

    • As long as he is over 18, so what? The two individuals decided jointly to have sex. What those individuals have with third parties is a different issue.

      It is sort of like if you and I agree that I will mow your lawn, and you agree with someone else to clean your house, but I don't like the person that cleans your house. Each agreement is separate.

  • No. You will mean little to him. There may always be another woman. Especially his friend's wife? He doesn't respect friends or relationships. He may never respect you... or you may think he does wbut when he is not with you he is sleeping with others, or your friends, etc. My grandfather had an affair and lived a double life. My mom did the same, and it destroyed my family.

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  • Fuck no. Run for the hills.

    I'm warning you right now, so if you stay and get hurt, you have only yourself to blame.

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  • I don't know. It would take a lot of thught. I certainly wouldn't date someone who made excuses about it (unless their reasoning was... it wasn't cheating, I didn't know he was married). I had a small crush on a girl... she finally started admitting some horrible things... one of them being that she cheated on a close friend with the friend's boyfriend, and that if she had the chance, she'd do it again, because he was hot, and the girl friend was "ugly and stupid," To do that to a friend is horrible. Then to call a friend those kinds of names... that's just not cool. My interest went from about 30% to 0% after that.

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  • If one does not know the fact that he made an affair then yes, but if that fact is known then it is in the maybe and no section.

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  • Part of being an adult is recognizing that people are imperfect but that they can change. It looks like he already did.

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  • I agree it sounds kind of fucked up but it depends on the situation a bit. Most likely it would bother me a lot.

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  • Marriage is sacred and completely off limits

    NEVER trust a gutter rat like this one with anyone you know

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  • Hell no.

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  • It depends on if they knew the person was married or not, and if they broke up with them right away after finding out. If they knew about it and still did it, then I wouldn't date them. If they were tricked and broke up with the person afterwards, then I'd date them.

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  • I think it casts a serious doubt on his character. Not only is he a cheater, but also a liar and a backstabber. Not really someone you want to get involved with.

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  • No and if you're smart you won't either. The biggest thing to me is that it was his friend's wife. If he will do something like that to his best friend, he's not going to think twice about fucking you over.

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  • No, that's as bad as cheating in my eyes. I figure if he can help someone cheat and be aware of it then they're also capable of cheating.

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  • I would absolutely not date someone who did this... especially if it was his best friend's wife. Run away!

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  • Ew heck no, I have self respect ant won't settle for some heartless prick with no morals!

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  • I doubt it

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  • Noooo!

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  • Absolutely NOO. Run for your damn life.

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