I'm curious, why did you bring up a friends with benefits if you are against it anyway? lol You are hurt because you've developed feelings for him and you're hoping and want more so that's why this is bugging you so much. He was in a bad relationship and is not ready (being cautious) about getting into another one (smart of him). So I would just continue to be friends and give it time, see what develops. If you can't do that (because of your feelings for him) then maybe you need to end the relationship with him completely and just explain to him why, that you've developed feelings and you can't handle it.
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Bullshit. Never wait around when a guy says that. It's a ploy to keep you around and use you. Your response is "well when you are ready look me up IF I'm still single" and get on with your life. Don't fall for his fucked up games. He will never be the boyfriend you want
That's his way of saying he wants to shop around for something better and if he doesn't find it, he'll settle for you.
Don't wait on a guy.
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Wants a break, doesn't want a relationship, wants space, yea, wants to fuck other people.
You're a good friend, by the looks of it. Keep it that way. His story is clear.
it probably means he just wants to fuck around.
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