It can be for either gender. What are some signs that another person finds you hot, or that you find them hot, when you first meet them?
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly I don't have any signs really I'm not even joking when I say that most of the time when gals are interested in me I'm just sitting there casually reading the newspaper and ignoring em or not really paying much attention to them.
I smile the same at everyone, I smile at everyone my body language doesn't change at all, I talk to both men and women the same way, I literally act no different regardless of whether I like someone or not. I would say my only tell is in my eyes probably, or when I do my signature half smile/smirk, but only women who know me personally would know that but even then it's kind of hard to tell.
Now with women it varies but usually it's in the eyes the way they look at you, they smile more then usual, more open to talking to you or keeping a conversation going, and have more open body language, and may also make excuses to touch you in some inconspicuous way, or obvious way if they defiantly want you to get the hint, playing with their hair or something along those lines. Not as smooth I guess when they talk with you know you like they find it hard to find words to use to talk or they may even stutter.2
Most Helpful Girl
Long stares. Small smiles. Cat calls... though less desirable. They keep checking you out for long periods of time. They look like they have something to say. They stop paying attention to things around them. They might stand a little straighter and try to appear a little more cooler and calmer in your presence. They notice when you enter the room.3