Would you rather be an a**hole who gets girls or a nice guy who is alone?

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Lets face it. Teen and early 20 Girls love assholes and assholes always get first chance at a girl. The majority if us are nice guys who get asshole leftovers or are alone. 

But let's not give up hope. Nice guys can turn asshole when they finally get a chance at dating a girl. The girl is used goods and you can now be an asshole all you want. You can shed the nice guy label forever. 

I was a nice guy late bloomer who turned asshole at 18 after I finally got a chance to date used girls. I'm satisfied. 

Would you rather be an asshole who gets to date girls? Or would you rather be the nice guy who is alone?

ThisDudeHere · Accepted Answer

At this point I would want to be the asshole who gets action. I will not describe myself as a "nice guy" because that term now carries negative associations with it, despite the well intended meaning. But I would call myself a well mannered and considerate person. But that hasn't gotten me anywhere.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Your poll doesn't contain all the options. I am a nice guy, I have dated many women, and I have rarely been friend-zoned. The problem with your question is that you don't define what it means to be a "nice guy" and there are several different meanings.

LittleSally · Accepted Answer

If you know how to conduct yourself and walk the line of nice and flirty - you'll have no problems with this.
I choose nice and alone. At least I'd be at peace with myself. And there's nothing better than being able to say you're pleased with who you are.

ShaunaM95 · Accepted Answer

I can confidently say that my current and my ex boyfriend's are/were not assholes. I wouldn't touch a guy who's an asshole with a 50ft pole. And I'm sure a lot of other women in their teens and early twenties would agree with me. Please stop generalising.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

Nice guys who spend their time bitching about pussy they're not getting and shift the blame onto the 'assholes' or girls who didn't pity fuck them, are not legit nice-guys, though?

ElissaDido · Answer

I don't want to date a "Nice Guy"

NotTheFBI · Answer

I dunno... but I get get ladies so... wait... OH GLOB... I might be an ASSHOLE! :o Lol I dunno, women like confidence... but the ones who like assholes stay FAR AWAY FROM THEM, they are damaged goods.

MadeInAmerica · Answer

I'm already an asshole that has nice guys tendencies so I rather just be myself.

jameson187 · Answer

The guys on here that say "nice guys never get the girl" come off as friends with how they approach girls. You can be nice but you have to have a backbone and not be a complete pushover. Girls don't want the guy pussy footing around trying to be their friend then try and date thst dude. They want a guy who knows what he's after. Also everyone loves the chase whether we like to admit it or not.

CisScum · Answer

I can't deny that sometimes I think that assholes do get girls but you gotta look through the lines, what do assholes usually have? Confidence. A nice guy can get a girl with confidence so you can't blame women for your lack of relationships. I wouldn't wanna date a girl who are into assholes anyways including myself. Rather take a girl who's into me as a person so I don't have to pretend.

IZZIRO · Answer

I am the nice guy with no girlfriend, but I don't mind at all. Mostly because, I know this will sound like a cliche, I have some principles I want to respect. And being nice is one of them. Don't think of nice like the weak guy who has nothing to say, nice like I treat people with respect, and I specially hate mocking, it shows a person weakness.

RachelBrigs · Answer

Why do you even care what teen girls go after? You're 35.  I don't like assholes, nor whiny self proclaimed pseudo nice guys, nor grown men who date kids.

lumos · Answer

Lol my boyfriend is one of the sweetest and kindest guys I've ever known in my life. Just stop.

TheSpartan · Answer

On one hand, I would want to be an asshole to get girls. After all, then I get sex, affection, and intimacy.

But, on the other hand, then I'd have to deal with women, whom I've learned are fundamentally disgusting, manipulative, passive aggressive, and selfish by nature (at least the women I know).

However, being an asshole is satisfying, or at least being assertive and aggressive towards women and cucked men is. So, I'd probably pick a.

gbjackalope · Answer

I've been friendzoned and have been alone since forever, but I'm not going to drop being a nice guy as that's who I am. I'm just going to continue to work on improving myself until I meet someone who appreciates a nice guy.

Kuqezi · Answer

I was a so called "nice guy", I've been a "asshole" for over 2-3 years now and it works.

TripleAce · Answer

Just shows its the girls fault for creating assholes because that's what seems to work

BiscuitesSwag · Answer

You (and all the other guys who think like OP) are the type of "nice guys" who would be players and cheaters if they weren't to look like a sack of potatoes, so pathetic. *rolling eyes*

Little-Hippie · Answer

I'm humbled by the number of men who would remain celibate in order to preserve their humanity. I'm not amongst their ranks, but I am humbled by them.

Prof_Don · Answer

I'd rather get ladies and be an "asshole". Every masculine man is a occasional to moderate asshole at times, part of being a man. If a guy is NEVER an asshole, his testosterone may be low.

RandomBritishGuy94 · Answer

I'm fairly nice (at least I like to think so) and don't have a problem finding dates. Maybe you're talking to the wrong type of women. Find someone who has common interests.

NoKiLz · Answer

Well, being nice isn't an option sometimes If you just get rejected all the time there is still a solution to get a girl,...

Rissyanne · Answer

I dont want an asshole.. was married to one for 22 years. I have a nice guy now.

RationalMale · Answer

What's funny is how many critical comments from women... who have slept with utter assholes or have one as a fuckbuddy now.

BrittBratt2416 · Answer

Nice guy cause eventually they'll come running to me after the asshole is done with them... bazingaa!

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