This includes appearance, approaching, attitude, manners, education, everything. Not just getting up the nerve to ask someone out.

Guys have to be the initiators, that says it all

But women DON'T have to deal with self-maintenance if they don't want to. -_-

I've had to work hard for it... every time!!!

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joiPrince_JO Follow
Xper 5 Age: 31

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Men obviously

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Puppylove94 Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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I would say men do.

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Roadcruiser1 Follow
Guru Age: 32

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Obviously men then. 😊.

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Alyssa1111 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 28 , mho 39%

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both honestly.

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Anonymous
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Guys have to be the initiators, that says it all

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zombiebabe Follow
Master Age: 32

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3K opinions shared on Dating topic.

i guess girls

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Soulstealer115 Follow
Xper 2 Age: 30

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I honestly don't know lol

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Anonymous
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But women DON'T have to deal with self-maintenance if they don't want to. -_-

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- Opinion Owner
  
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  what, it's true -_-
  
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- Elarra
  
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  Yeah, but men don't have to pay or approach, either, but if you want what you want, then that's what they do. Same for women. They want a guy to approach and most men are not going to approach a woman they don't find visibly attractive or that think doesn't take care of herself.
  
  Thus all your downvotes.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  But men don't do ALL the approaching and not all women deal with maintenance. You say what you say but I've seen it work.
  
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- Elarra
  
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  I never said it didn't work. What I said was is that if you want what you want, you'll do whatever you need to in order to get it as long as you want it badly enough. But not one has to do anything is my point. But you only pointed out women, not men.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  'Cause other people already talked about the men.
  
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- Elarra
  
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  Doesn't matter, that's why you got down voted.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  Okay then.
  
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Anonymous
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That picture makes me vomit.

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- sweetshyguy
  
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  Why?
  
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Anonymous
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I've had to work hard for it... every time!!!

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DrKran Follow
Xper 6 Age: 33

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The priest.

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Words_and_Wisdom Follow
Guru Age: 34

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Men obviously.

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Anonymous
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Men by FAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAR lmao.

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apple24 Follow
Master Age: 30

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I think both.

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Anonymous
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both, i believe.

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- Wolfstarking
  
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  Nope.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
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  yup lol
  
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- Cyhhgg
  
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  Ummm nope.
  
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Anonymous
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Men do, women do nothing but stand somewhere

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wondering_ Follow
Xper 4 Age: 27

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Both
Equally

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- Gustafsone12584
  
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  At the beginning? I doubt that...
  
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- wondering_
  
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  @Gustafsone12584 NAH! BOTH
  
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- Gustafsone12584
  
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  Depening on if you ask guys out. But then, the ammount you have asked out, compared to the ones that do.
  
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PurestOfThePure Follow
Xper 5 Age: 31

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Both men and women

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Petr1992 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 34

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Ehhhh

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Daynada Follow
Yoda Age: 48

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Women

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Decentguy Follow
Master Age: 34

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Men, of course

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realityphil Follow
Xper 5 Age: 37

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lol.

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APRU5 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 24

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65% man, 45% woman.

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Anonymous
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Men easily.

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Xper 4 Age: 22

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both.

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Riya1620 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 32

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both I guess

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Anonymous
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Man. No doubt.

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