It sounds like she's just disappointed... having a baby with a man you love is exciting... it is the beginning of the female dream... but I agree with you—it is WAAAYYY too early, especially since both of you are in school :/ That is a lot of money to waste by not being able to finish to prioritize a child :/
I think she'll eventually come to her senses... just be patient with her... explaining to her very calmly (consistently) is your best bet... it might take a while, but I think she will eventually calm down... she's just disappointed... 😕
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You guys are really young to be thinking about kids. You're kids yourselves!
Hopefully this baby craze of hers passes. I've had this feeling, but then I realized I am no where at all financially or mentally prepared to have a child.
That is some serious stuff.
She can't force you to be a parent like that's just not right... Bringing another human into this world is a huge responsibility and if you're not ready for it then you have every right to stand your ground, no matter how pissed she gets. You're doing the right thing.
Honestly? SHE is not ready either. If I were you, I would put some distance between you and her.
Or bombard her with hard facts:
--financial readiness. I bet neither of you have a house yet, let alone finished school.
--emotional readiness.
--can she handle a dog? Get one, a BIG one, and see how that goes for a few years.
And for fuck's sake, put condoms on your wiener, from here on.
She obviously is not smart enough to understand, that neither of you can raise a child, let alone having a family right now.
You both are irresponsible. Next time you will catch that bullet
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You are the mature one actually. Both are too young to have a baby and there have so many responsibilities that you both need to take. Umm, you'd better tell her honestly about what you think as well as your plan of you guys future (if you want to have a long-term relationship) It is more acceptable for girls.
**Show your concern and intension on the relationship.Don't do it! Finish school first and get settled in financially. Also start wearing a condom just in case if you don't want her to get pregnant
Borrow some one else baby for a weekend and see if that doesn't snap her back into reality
That's crazy don't do it.
Don't do it.
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