Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like she's just disappointed... having a baby with a man you love is exciting... it is the beginning of the female dream... but I agree with you—it is WAAAYYY too early, especially since both of you are in school :/ That is a lot of money to waste by not being able to finish to prioritize a child :/
I think she'll eventually come to her senses... just be patient with her... explaining to her very calmly (consistently) is your best bet... it might take a while, but I think she will eventually calm down... she's just disappointed... 😕1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Honestly? SHE is not ready either. If I were you, I would put some distance between you and her.
Or bombard her with hard facts:
--financial readiness. I bet neither of you have a house yet, let alone finished school.
--can she handle a dog? Get one, a BIG one, and see how that goes for a few years.
And for fuck's sake, put condoms on your wiener, from here on.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE