Hey, so i really like this guy but i think he sees me as someone too hit it and quite it. So i'd like to know what is the diffrence between those two and how can you go from fuckable to wifeable?
Most Helpful Guy
There is no connection with fuckable and wifeable. So if you want that to change your gonna have to go a completely different route, you have to show him that you have an amazing personality and you have a ton of good qualities. But in the end its completely up to him if he sees that about you.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well if a guy see you as a quick fuck then it will be hardly impossible for him to get that image out of mind of you... so here is what you do. Do not contact him for 2-3 months. After then if you do make contact, let him know your focused on school and working. You want to see more put together and not like you have been out partying, smoking and just lounging around doing anything. Do not bring up sex at all when he contacts you. Nope. Trust me, he will notice a change. But you still want to keep yourself up. Look attractive, but seem more confident. Get rid of telling him about your insecurities. Maturity comes with being sure of yourself. Even if you have to fake it.2