He won't date me because I'm a liberal feminist, are political views really that important? (Page 3)
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Yes. Having opposing views when it comes to politics and/or religion are 2 of the biggest factors that result in short lived relationships.
What don't you understand? Look how annoying liberals/feminist have been in recent years, its pretty obvious why he wouldn't want to date you.
He sounds like a douche. Be thankful you dodged the bullet.
Actually he dodged a bullet and just like your lot bang on about he is entitled to his preferences. Typical feminazi.
@bobbyxx
You should try using punctuation sometime and forming sentences that make sense.
Didn't develop much past 12 did you. If you can't produce a valid argument, best to keep quiet.
@bobbyxx
You seem fun...
I dont think u will ever get someone that similar to you... There will surely be such differences... In fact political views are hardly a reason for affecting any relationship. I'd just say, tolerate and rather respect each other's views and it'll all work so well :-).
P. S. yea it matters a lot if u both are from political field :-P
Yeah. I wouldn't waste my time on a feminist either.
No, feminism is damaging to a relationship, or humanity in general.
Please give an example of a relationship where it was ruined because the woman felt she's an equal human.
@Tarnygosh A woman feeling she's an equal human is not feminism, so I wouldn't be giving you an example of feminism to begin with.
Feminist values are fundamental aspect of my relationship and we are both better off for it.
@Sara413 If you say so.
Same here. I think me being a feminist is good for my relationship. I don't have some expectations women have. Like that my husband will have to work and he's no use if he doesn't. Or that he should protect me or store his feelings inside. Its more fun knowing you can be less of the tough sides of being a man and more of a softer human. And I can take burdens that were for a man
@Tarnygosh
Exactly! Our relationship is a partnership. We rely on each other and on ourselves. We both put in what we get out. We look out for each other.
If he doesn't like you for being left-wing, then it's safe to guess that he's right-wing.
Why would YOU want to date someone who helped put Trump in power?
He never votes and he hates the right wing too. But he hates liberals and feminists more for some reason.
Sounds like he just hates everyone.
He hates feminists b/c he's intimidated by them. You deserve better than that.
they are to some people , i know in my state you can still get in fist fights during the political season. its crazy how people act. i wish it wasn't like that. and i hope you and this guy can work things out.
Never cared much about politics, but yeah a feminist is a huge turn off, could never be with one.
How the hell does political views effect someone's love for someone? If that guy really rejected you because of your political view, he's a loser (no offense).
From the way he handled that, he sounds like a huge baby. You're luckier with your options open than being tied down to him.
huge baby came out with this comment. Must be a feminazi.
@bobbyxx Who cares if I am? Not you.
@bobbyxx BINGO!
Difference in political views can cause a lot of problems in a relationship. Especially if you're at complete opposite ends.
Luckily I have yet to date a girl who was very conservative or a Trump supporter.
Yes they are.
Understanding the rights and roles for women and what you expect in terms of gender roles. Views of race, the elderly, are very important and can't be looked past. It's best you find out earlier and separate
It can be if they have a very closed mind and can't except that just because someones view is different from theirs they are wrong, stupid, crazy, etc...
Smart man, he doesn't want to tie his life with someone with a victim mentality who one day will see him as an enemy and will try (and probably succeed in today's courts) to destroy his life. Feminism is no longer about equality today is about hating men and victimhood.
It depends on the two people in the relationship.
When it comes to political differences, some people wouldn't be bothered by it, some people just can't handle it.
Aren't the liberal feminists the ones who think white women should get everything first before any other race? Yikes even I don't like liberal feminism
It can be, I haven't met a girl that I disagreed on so much that I had to just peace out but there would definitely be some things that would make me do that.
yes they are. if i was a guy, i would not date you either for those exact reasons.
Let me put it this way, I would date a Nietzschien atheist before dating a liberal feminist. A woman's political views are more important to me than her religious affiliation.