isn't it rude to ask girls height on Tinder?

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First of all, I am not one of those Tinder girls who require "6ft+ or gtfo" i think height is the most irrevelant thing. I was texting with a guy in tinder for a while. Suddenly he asked how tall I am. WTF? I am 160 think it is sth around 5'3". 3" shorter than average in my country but does it matter? of course he is right to want a tall girl. I saw many guys with height requirements and I am OK with it but asking my height is sth like asking his income

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

160 cm is 5'3. And it shouldn't have to be rude. But I suggest to not get too personal with them when you haven't talked for a while. Overall if they say how they don't want to disclose certain information, respect that and don't be pushy. As long as your not, they won't get offended. And if they do, then perhaps you need to leave them alone and find somebody else who is not going to freak out with every question you ask them, unless it was very inappropriate. Also, if they have a requirement physically, leave such people alone. Too shallow.

BrittBratt2416 · Accepted Answer

... the hell? No asking for your height is not rude unlike asking for his income.. thats rude lol Its just a simple question, how tall are you? I don't see how thats even remotely rude. I would just say o I'm 5"4... like he's not asking for your size of your tits or ass. lol

lumos · Accepted Answer

I think you're overreacting. Asking how tall someone is is definitely not like asking how much someone makes.

JesseBrooks · Accepted Answer

I always lol at the height issue. No offense but if you worried about height your most likely not paying attention to what actually matters. Unless your only after casual sex or something, then pffft have at it. Height issue for me only matters if its like dwarfism. Other than that there is also an ego thing some guys have where, in their minds, if your taller than them then their masculinity is in jeopardy. I dont get it. Ego's

JohnDoe3000 · Accepted Answer

It's not rude. I don't think he asked because he wants a tall girl, he just doesn't want you to be taller than him (you probably passed that test), or he's asking it just to see your response, as an experiment since girls on tinder are so hung up on height.

jamesma87 · Answer

Height is okay, income is not lol. I think most girls prefer to date taller men and that's understandable if it is a deal breaker to get it out of the way early.

If income is a deal breaker then Id try to figure that out early on too but you can't be direct about that or a man will think you're very materialistic or a gold digger

Anonymous · Answer

No more rude than asking a dudes. From what I hear it's mostly just scandanavian men that have a height requirement. Most guys ask about a girls weight which is better since at least that can be altered.

EmilyHi · Answer

I've been asked by some guys online my height I don't get offended i tell them I'm short 5'0

soffffixaz · Answer

well if he doesn't ask and you meet up he'll find out your height anyway so it's not something worth feeling like you have to hide

madhatters4 · Answer

no i don't think it's rude to ask a person's height

tyber1 · Answer

Girls are usually the ones who are picky about height, it is irrelevant but a lot of people care a lot about things that don't matter.

MaisGem21 · Answer

Nope. It would be inappropriate if he asked your cup size and to see pics. But not height.

OrangeBoy · Answer

What is the problem by asking it? Would it be rude if i asked your hair size? People just like to better visualize the person they are knowing, just that.

Becouse · Answer

I think he asked to make sure he is taller.
By the way 160cm is good and normal for a girl and I think girls with this height looks more cutie that taller girls😋
But of course its just my opinion maybe other boys think different.

Ahmed_Sy15x · Answer

They ask that just to make sure you're not taller than them or because they like shorter and smaller girls

Yanoa_Yanza · Answer

Tinder is a picture slide thing, right? I think it's something okay to ask?

GoldCobra · Answer

I don't not have any height requirement for a girl lol 😊 I don't think it is rude to ask though because it is online. People want to know

Decentguy · Answer

lmao no, its not rude. unless that girl is insecure about her height

Anonymous · Answer

If I asked, I'd be hoping she was tiny, but it's not a dealbreaker.

Anonymous · Answer

Wow! I wouldn't think too many girls would be offended by a height question. It's not like he asked your weight or bra size.

Anonymous · Answer

He was likely asking as a troll to the fact that the majority of females on tinder want 6ft plus.

Paris13 · Answer

Height? No. Boob Size? Yes. xx

Anonymous · Answer

how the hell is that rude? women think everything is rude. get over yourself

Puppylove94 · Answer

It's not rude at all lol

Luci92 · Answer

No, it isn't rude...

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