Why I'm afraid to touch my gf?

Question

Hey everyone i love a girl and we have been in a relationship since a while but we have never had anything. Literally I'm afraid to kiss her or make my first move. The only thing which i've done with my girlfriend is a handshake 😂😞...

Answer 1

Anonymous

Dude, you're gonna get friend-zoned, or run the risk of it, if you don't hold her and kiss her and escalate further than just handshakes. Start with hugs and kisses on her forehead or face, or the side of her neck. You'll have do be able to do it without thinking about it so much and worrying about it constantly on how she will think, feel or judge you for it. Just keep it slowly and gently if you don't want to be aggressive.

Answer 2

madhatters4 | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

perhaps you are scared that she won't reciprocate
scared that you may not be good at kissing or whatever intimate activiity

she is with you so i think it's fair to presume that she would be interested in physical activity/intimacy

Indecentesmind

+1 y
No it's not that I'm just afraid about making my first move because we both have never hugged or kissed anyone before we both are first love for each other so om just not sure what she will do if I kiss her or what if she responded in a negative way...
madhatters4

+1 y
so "perhaps you are scared that she won't reciprocate"... seems like the same thing as not sure how she'll respond.

how long have you been together?
Indecentesmind

+1 y
We have been knowing each other from last 8 years and been in relationship for 6 months...
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madhatters4

+1 y
take a leap and go for a kiss.

Answer 3

Indecentesmind

No it's not that I'm just afraid about making my first move because we both have never hugged or kissed anyone before we both are first love for each other so om just not sure what she will do if I kiss her or what if she responded in a negative way...

Answer 4

madhatters4

so "perhaps you are scared that she won't reciprocate"... seems like the same thing as not sure how she'll respond.

how long have you been together?

Answer 5

Indecentesmind

We have been knowing each other from last 8 years and been in relationship for 6 months...

Answer 6

madhatters4

take a leap and go for a kiss.

Answer 7

SarahsSummer | 4.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Umm, sounds like you two are really great acquaintances. If she's your girlfriend and she knows she's your girlfriend, I'm sure she's wondering "why hasn't this guy kissed me?" At age 18, it's ok to go in for a kiss.

Answer 8

RJGraveyTrain

Influencer

Why are you afraid to kiss her? What could possibly happen that's negative?

Indecentesmind

+1 y
I don't know, actually we are in a long distance relationship and whenever I feel like hugging or kissing her my brain starts questioning me like what if it offends her or what if she started feeling like me as a pervert...
RJGraveyTrain

+1 y
If she's your girlfriend, I suspect it'd offend her more that you won't show her affection. Also, hugging and kissing isn't perverted.
Indecentesmind

+1 y
Okayy thanks maybe I'll gain some confidence...

Answer 9

Indecentesmind

I don't know, actually we are in a long distance relationship and whenever I feel like hugging or kissing her my brain starts questioning me like what if it offends her or what if she started feeling like me as a pervert...

Answer 10

RJGraveyTrain

If she's your girlfriend, I suspect it'd offend her more that you won't show her affection. Also, hugging and kissing isn't perverted.

Answer 11

Indecentesmind

Okayy thanks maybe I'll gain some confidence...

Answer 12

Taleygirl1998 | 88 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

What are you afraid of? Is it just awkward to make contact?

Answer 13

Mesonfielde | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

If you're dating then this should be an obvious demand on both sides

Answer 14

Mt144

Xper 4

Are you serious dude? When u and her alone start some making love then it will be more. She is waiting some moves from you.. Hurry up!

Answer 15

Anonymous

millions of other men aren't. and they will. and she'll like it. she probably already does.

Opinion Owner

+1 y
why do you even call her girlfriend lol.
Indecentesmind

+1 y
I've posted this question so that u can help me.. :(
Opinion Owner

+1 y
she WANTS you to get physical you dumbass. its just that you should seem discreet. make a move, watcht the responsiveness and adjust accordingly. do a push and pull until you reach third base.
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Opinion Owner

+1 y
show that you are a man. women are attracted to men. if you are a beta mangina pussy she'll eventually be appaled and leave you
Opinion Owner

+1 y
do your self a favor young grasshoper and read corey wayne's "how to be a 3% man". it will help your hopeless case a lot.
Opinion Owner

+1 y
www.scribd.com/doc/33421576/How-To-Be-A-3-Man
Opinion Owner

+1 y
read it 10 fucking times minimum. for you 20 actually.
Indecentesmind

+1 y
Lol thanks...
Opinion Owner

+1 y
you are welcome. useful youtube channels for you. https://www.youtube.com/user/rsdfreetour/videos
www.youtube.com/user/Under21convention07/videos
www.youtube.com/.../videos?feature=hovercard

Answer 16

Opinion Owner

why do you even call her girlfriend lol.

Answer 17

Indecentesmind

I've posted this question so that u can help me.. :(

Answer 18

Opinion Owner

she WANTS you to get physical you dumbass. its just that you should seem discreet. make a move, watcht the responsiveness and adjust accordingly. do a push and pull until you reach third base.

Answer 19

Opinion Owner

show that you are a man. women are attracted to men. if you are a beta mangina pussy she'll eventually be appaled and leave you

Answer 20

Opinion Owner

do your self a favor young grasshoper and read corey wayne's "how to be a 3% man". it will help your hopeless case a lot.

Answer 21

Opinion Owner

www.scribd.com/doc/33421576/How-To-Be-A-3-Man

Answer 22

Opinion Owner

read it 10 fucking times minimum. for you 20 actually.

Answer 23

Indecentesmind

Lol thanks...

Answer 24

Opinion Owner

you are welcome. useful youtube channels for you. https://www.youtube.com/user/rsdfreetour/videos
www.youtube.com/user/Under21convention07/videos
www.youtube.com/.../videos?feature=hovercard

Answer 25

baabyput | 54 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Ahw 😀 you must do something. Dont be afraid.

Answer 26

disgustingweebtrash | 3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Tomoya Okazaki? Is that you?

Indecentesmind

+1 y
Noooooo

Answer 27

Indecentesmind

Noooooo

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