Girlfriend doesn't want me touching her, but other guys can?

[A-Vengeance]

She doesn't want me touching her she basically told me so. So I don't but she's always brushing up against me or putting her feet against mine and poking me. She only does it wen other guys are around really, never in private. She's always doing this but she doesn't want me to touch her. This really p*sses me off, She had something in her hair today so I tried to get it out she over reacted like she always does telling me to stop. Later I tried to get it out again but she just threw a fit and told me to keep my hands to myself. That made me feel really bad. Like not even a min later a guy we know had her against the wall touching her an tried to get it out her hair too. She didn't freak out on him she just smiled but he didn't get it out. I thought to myself what the f***. I was so p*ssed and so sad I just moved my chair as far as I could from her when she sat down so she could lean on me or touch in anyway. the only time I ever touch her is when she wants a hug but I don't even get a real hug. everyone else gets 1 but me. honestly id rather be her guy friend cause she treats her guy friends like bf's. and me like crap. I'm just at the point where I don't even touch her or let her touch me . Why the hell can't I touch her but every other guy can?

[Lynnlovesu]

Well... She could be trying to play games and actually be trying to make you want her more and be jelous (which is of course not working cause it is really just pissing you off) but in her mind she may be thinking "oh he'll only want me more now." have you ever heard of that stupid quote "you want what you can't have"? She may also be paranoid that you just want sex from her? Us girls can sometimes think that touchy feely guys are just with us for that reason and some are, but I don't know you or yall's relationship so that's something you'll just have to figure out on your own. If this is true though that's also why she'll let other guys touch her because she isn't going out with them so she isn't worried about them either. Hope I helped.

[DarknessFalls]

Two reasons,

1. She is just a teen who plays around. It isn't anything serious..

2. She is scared seeing she is dating you that you may go too far in other ways. I think maybe it is 2. But why would you let some one else touch your bum and not your bf

I'd be like p*ss off to th other guy.

But its something you should discuss wif her.

ask her is she is scared or does she just like the sexual attention from other guys and from there you decide.

good luck.

Oh one more thing if you think she doesn't love you remember,

"Actions speak louder than words"

[A-Vengeance]

Its not a sexual kind of touching its just me touching her period

[DarknessFalls]

It is classified as sexual though just like kissing. I know what you mean though. But you know I said what I thought was best.

All I can say is Goodluck

[ilovecookies]

I feel like she's using you to get attention, or what if it's a dare? Who would not like being touched by one they love? That just does not happen, I think you should leave her... You sound like a nice guy and she doesn't deserve you... If I were you I'd be too jealous of the other men that I would not be able to be with her, I mean wtf.

[Anonymous]

Well it could be for a few different reasons. But maybe she doesn't want to get too close to you, like physically. She may be afraid that if you tough her in when you guys are alone that you both may end up going to far and she isn't ready to go that far quite yet.

[A-Vengeance]

I don't mean touching her in a sexual way I just mean like touching her period like sometimes a wanna hold her close but I cant

[Opinion Owner]

Any kind of touching her might spark something. I don't know. I could be wrong, just a thought.

[A-Vengeance]

I don't think that's it cause its like she gets upset and mad about it

[selfishstars]

So.. why are you with this girl?

[A-Vengeance]

Idk any more she changed way too much over the summer

[selfishstars]

Well, I really wouldn't want to be with someone who freaked out at me for something as simple as getting something out of her hair. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't let me touch them. And certainly not if they only had a problem with me touching them and not other people. Sounds kind of psycho to me.

[A-Vengeance]

I don't think phychos the word but I agree