I've got a friend that I've always been quite physically affectionate with, and although she's never reciprocated, she always seemed happy enough, whether it be touching her hand, leg, neck or face.
Over the last few weeks however she's began to act differently around me and I'm starting to get the feeling that she's beginning to develop feelings for me. She wants to spend all her time with me, texts me constantly, teases me, laughs at all my jokes, phones me etc. Her body language would indicate she's interested and recently she's began to touch me a lot, when she never has before. She'll just bump into me, try push me, wrestle me etc, she's gone from never touching me, facing her body away and being defensive, hanging out once a week, never texting and telling me when my jokes are bad to do a complete 180.
Last week we hung out and on 3 occasions she pretty much held my hand or touched it and left it linger quite a while. The other day we hung out and I got the vibe that she was developing feelings for me, yet when my hand touched hers she immediately pulled it away. I was kinda suprised seen as it's never been an issue before and she has become a lot more touchy. I figured I read the situation wrong, a few minutes later I accidentally touched her leg when we sat down and she pulled away again. About 20 mjns later I'm about to go home and she starts playfully pushing my arm and leg saying to get lost and when I got home she sent me a text and text me the rest of the day, when she never texts any of her friends.
I suppose I want to know why the complete flip of script? Especially why does she pull away if I touch her, when all along she's not had an issue with it, yet at the same time she now touches me a lot more?
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she is interested in you and you should make some obvous move like kiss her or ask her on a date, she might have pulled away cause you are not making enough initiative, she might have just been nervous as wella
Well things continued to go well between us, but last night she came over to watch a movie with me. It was all fine for most of it but when I sat down our knees touched and I moved away and then after a while I jokingly patted her shoulder because she said something made her dad and she pulled away.
I said it to her and she said she just doesn't like being touched, but when I said she's never had an issue before she said that she now feels like my touches aren't "friend" touches, which I find odd. I've rubbed her back or her thigh before and that was fine, but now accidentally touching she's alert to.
After that she then became less defensive and things almost became flirty and touchy between us and she wants to hang out tomorrow.
I'm still just as confused
well she either said touched aren't friend touches cause she only sees you as a friend or she doesn't want to be touched like that by you unless you are her boyfriend as some guys only use girl. So you really can't tell and best is to just tell her you like her and see from there. In this situation you couldve also said maybe i dont wanna touch you just as a friend...
She came over yesterday and this time got under the bed sheets instead of being on the bed. There was quite a bit of touching and when I'd touch her she didn't seem to mind.
I figured that I'd offer to let her stay the night and if she said yes I'd make a move but she thought about it and said she'd rather go home🤷♂️.
By the time we were right beside eachother in bed she had become very cranky and tired so I figure I should get closer to her next time when she's touchy and awake and see what happens.
I almost put my arm around her to cuddle at one point but I didn't want to risk it
well she might not be rady for sex yet but she allowing you to touch her so much would very much indicate she is into you
We've continued getting closer and now I'm confused. We hung out on Sunday snd the whole day she was reciprocating my flirtingand touching, we had a great time and I noticed there was lots of touching but she didn't mind where I touched her. I told her that if she ever gets tired when we watch movies she can just sleep with me and she said that would be great, so long as I accept she'll take the blanket. Then she said she'd like to go on a foreign holiday together soon and we both began making heavy sex jokes, even about eachother
We went back to mine and were meant to watch two movies. I have zero doubt in my mind that if I wanted to she would have let me fuck her that night, every single sign was there. However, I just wasn't in the mood and needed to think about things. She got tired at a certain point during the film and her mood changed, she then went home because she was up early for work and it was very late.
We then hung out today and went to the beach, she wasn't as jokey or fun and was a bit moody, but not completely. At the beach she let me rub her fingers and I was pretty much giving her a foot massage at one point, and I was suprised she was so accepting of me holding and rubbing her feet.
Eventually she got a bit stubborn and just wanted to go. She was then thinking of coming over to watch a movie but said she was busy and will come back after we go bowling tomorrow with her friend and her boyfriend.
Today she let me rub her feet and hold hands pretty much, but she seemed very irritable, was annoyed by jokes and just a bit moody and flat with me
maybe she wanted you to make a move and you didn't so she is cranky, like kiss her at least or someting