He blocked you because you're wrong and you're being an asshole. Other commenters are handing your ass to you and you deserve it. You don't even know what 'chivalry' means. It doesn't mean the guy pays for your steak, it means that he treats people with respect and he helps them when they are in need of help. Feeling bad for the next chump who goes out with your rude ass.
@Djaaaay let the butthurt 'traditional' women who can't stand equal treatment downvotes continue!
They call the guy the asshole of the story but I swear, if this story was the other way around they'd still be calling the guy the asshole. They want to be treated as equals but they don't even know what that means (most of them at least) and they refuse to hold the degenerates of their own gender accountable. Thankfully, there are some enlightened women who aren't swept up in this 'traditional' nonsense.
Opinion owner... Tradionally , chilvary was a extended curiosity for those women to feel the rewards of... a such woman the man himself has or admires. Today it's warped into greedy expectations from others. About the question above... with my high status , I always pay everything anyways myself , cause I highly doubt she's wealthy enough as I am. But when you're invited somewhere , those who invite pay. Because of gold diggers out there everywhere , I only do the inviting and pay everything regardless no exceptions ever. About equality... it's mentioned a lot , but sure percieved in favor of the female most of the time from females... I guess it's the free steak still
@Djaaaay If you want to be treated like you're inferior, admit you're inferior at least. I don't see women as inferior but even if not everyone agrees at least you can respect the consistency.
It's funny because there are plenty of men who take care of the home, and there are plenty of women who work physical jobs. I don't see the problem with either.
@snowangle Not really, some do but its rare, women don't tolerate men doing the things that are traditionally feminine as this post points out so eloquently. In fact the divorce rates skyrocket when the man is stay at home while the woman works. Both parties are more likely to cheat and divorce in this situation. Womens unhappiness also increases dramatically. The fact is women really really love traditional gender roles. . . so long as it only applies to men. Now I think both parties should do as they will but statistics routinely show that when gender roles are reversed marriages break down and women are the ones who generally are the most unhappy with the role reversal. Its not particularly fair but neither is life. I don't think their is an issue with trying but I do have a problem with society trying to pretend like their isn't going to be any negative consequences to doing so when data routinely shows that their is.
I don't trust a guy who doesn't show generosity or kindness. I would never go to his house. I need a man who makes me feel safe, someone who shows me he appreaciates me. Because you paid it doesn't make you equal to the guy, it just makes you generous, and it makes him lazy, thoughtless, he doesn't show he appreciates women. He's a guy, his body is different, he could rape you, you don't know him, he could at least show some appreciation. You're able to pay, you're a free to pay, and you're free to choose if you want someone to invite you. I invite my friends sometimes, and they don't feel inferior because i paid.
Well if you're gonna state obvious facts then I guess I can too: women are more likely to get mugged or sexually assualted by men. Your body is different than his.
Did that make some sense, honey? If not, then to restate my point, your opinion only matters to yourself and you made a few valid points. But don't be an idiot by stating about body types and who can do the raping or is stronger than the other. That was really fucking stupid to say
No need to be rude , i was not rude to you. It makes sense , the man should show appreciation to the woman , show that he values her , and doing romatic actions for her does not make the woman inferior , HONEY. You didn't even make an argument for what i said , you just said it was stupid , you are really bad at debating how old are you 15?
And your opinion wasn't a very strong one. I called you out on your crap and you say that I'm being rude. Think of it as someone helping you understand yourself a little better
"the man should show appreciation to the woman , show that he values her "
WOW. It's a pussy, not a bar of gold. Get over yourself. You're not special, women are not special. We are all human beings. Piss off with your feminist BS.
omg im not gonna keep arguing with you , you're really not worth It. you probably lonely virgin guy trying to feel better here and dont even bother to answer cuz i won't read It
I think you should move on because you already have this bad impression of him and that'll carry.
I tend to be of the idea that as things progress, it should be 50/50, take turns etc. But at the start it should be 50:50 definitely unless one person outright states. I never go to a date with the idea "well he's paying". I always have my money, if he requests to pay I thank him and I tend to pay for whatever we're doing next or a drink etc.
I don't like his attitude of expecting you to pay and then blocking you when you asked him about it, I think that was petty and made it seem like he only wanted you for a free meal.
BUT it is a common thought of "whoever asks pays" it just so happens that men normally do the asking. So perhaps in the future lesson learnt, you bring up how it'll be 50:50 or something.
Sounds like you're not the one that needs to give him a second chance. You might want to apologize for your head being trapped in the 1950s. The fact that he has a lot of money is likely the reason he did it. He's probably not looking for someone that wants to stick to idiotic gender norms and have a superficial relationship with. He's probably looking for a partner. But you sort of screwed the pooch on what sounds like a guy who has his head on straight, and knows what he wants. Good luck
I agree with him, whoever extends the invitation pays. If you wanted tradition then you should have waited for him to ask you out if a free meal is that important. Instead you've come across as incredibly self entitled and rude, you could have just asked for Dutch on the next date if this is that big of an issue for you
YOU asked him out to dinner... so ya, YOU should pay. Secondly, you want equal rights, right? Don't expect us to pay for your shit. Things aren't like they used to be. Times are harder and money isn't as easy to come by. Understand that.
Women need to understand, if the world shit the bed in any manner that would require real survival, their vagina will not save them. Real talk.
I mean.. You don't think it's weird for YOU to ask him out and then want him to pay for it? Lol. He blocked you. He doesn't care or want a "second chance".
Well.. you wouldn't be giving him a second chance, it would be the other way around
This is one date you'll never forget lol... lets hope he keeps it that way. Too bad for you, cause he could of been amaZing but you allowed your entitled self to get in the way of potential romance - lesson learnt I hope
Oh God, the last sentence. I need to bang my head against the desk. I mean, the guy is a terrible human being, and he's playing these stupid games of 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen', and it's WORKING! There genuinely is no hope for humanity. I give up. You were the straw that broke the camel's back. I hope you're happy...
Also, before I get a bunch of foaming at the mouth retards, saying that I'm a white-knight and that I never get laid etc. Theoretically, I have no issue with the woman paying on the first date. What bothers me is he did so in bad blood, trying to make some juvenile point and punish her. I don't think you should treat people badly, or just use them as a means to an end in your stupid contrived philosophy. People ought to be treat people with respect, if they are to be considered for dating.
The guy obviously had an axe to grind and wanted to prove a point. But it's through his own folly that he's not considered how he's treating the other person (ie you). It does indeed sound like he's had some bad, gold-digging, experiences. And wants to punish people for it.
from what you've said that you suggested the date and im guessing that you planned it out and you paid
You are the pursuer. guys aren't like they used to be and now Women are beginning to be leaders and more in control of dating, courting, and relationships.
Only try contacting him if you can put your feelings aside and if you think that he's so cute that you want the d and nothing more.
If you want vindication then contact him but I wouldn't expect anything him to be more than a sex pal.
Or you could simply write it off, cut bait, and find another one...
You asked him out, he got out of his way, to give you his time, his energy, his attention, you were the one suppoused to pay, regardless if he is man or not.
"I told him 'no way not on a first date' and then he just blocked me? Wtf happened to chivalry?" BY THAT TWISTED LOGIC, WOMEN COULD "INVITE" MEN TO DATES AND GET FREE MEALS.
Oh god... your stupidity has no limits. You give give him a second chace? More like see if he gives you a second chance.
Women doesn't expect free meals. He should AT LEAST offer pay for himself. Like I said earlier, I'm old school and I'm willing to pay for girl regardless she invited for date or I invited her.
@goldfinch23 Lets say you got invited to date, by 100 different women throughout one year (because you are handsome and you got game), lets say that each date costed an average of $10... that's a thousand dollars of free meals you gave away in one year... so i ask you, where do you draw the line man?
As handsome guy, I would be picky and not all girls would be successful. Even if yes, with these girls it's fun. Fun for ten bucks? It's cheap actually, isn't?
The rule is whoever asks pays. You're in the wrong here. I suggest he moves on from you and your weird way of thinking you're owed something just because you're a female.
Are you saying woman can't afford to feed themselves? So what if you make more then many women do. If someone asks someone out they should plan accordingly to what they can afford and be prepared to pay the bill. It's ridiculous to expect someone to pay for something just because you want to do it. Sometimes I like going to the amusement park but that doesn't mean I suggest it to friends and then force them to pay just because they make more then me. If a woman wants to know a man but doesn't have the money then cook a meal or go get coffee and talk. I don't think it's right that women get things just because they have a pussy.
No, I am saying it isn't fair that someone who has less money pay for anything in a romantic relationship.
In my entire life, I have only met one woman who at the time made more than I do now, and she is the CEO of a major corporation that you would know. She is also happily married, somewhat older than I am, and most definitely not my type. (I've met women surgeons,, doctors, lawyers, and managers who made more than I did at the time I met them, but they were not in my dating pool then and I now make more than any of them).
" If a woman wants to know a man but doesn't have the money then cook a meal or go get coffee and talk" And I am all for her putting in her time like cooking (I am an excellent cook myself). I appreciate that, a lot. Meanwhile, the women I date appreciate that they are not out of any money for anything.
"I don't think it's right that women get things just because they have a pussy. " It has been that way for tens of thousands of years.
So if you ask some of your friends out to do something, you pay for everything? Guys almost always ask, so it's unfair to expect them to pay for asking. A date is supposed to be a mutual want, if you want him to pay because he asked you don't seem to really want to go on the date, rather just say no.
I would agree usually that it's chivalrous for a man to pay. But only if a girl is exclusively showing affection toward him versus any other guy she isn't seeing and being less innocent around.
Also for instance, if he paid, then should you be obligated to have sex? If he is obligated to pay?
I think a girl should offer, and a real keeper/gentleman would pay. This includes a male friend. If a guy friend pays for you, he f**king likes you. If a girl doesn't see that, she's stupid and entitled.
Wow ! Are you for real? What planet do you live on to think you can invite someone and make them pay? lol That's the weirdest shit I've heard! And you think think he is mysoginistic? ROFL! You can try to get back to him if you want, it won't work. you are definitely banned from his life, and you deserve it. You are crazy.
4
0 Reply
Anonymous
(30-35)
+1 y
When my girlfriend asked me out on our first date a couple of months ago, she offered to pay but I would have none of it and paid for it all. Now we're in an exclusive relationship for almost a year and I'm still paying for all of our dates. She earns more than I do but I don't mind. It's not about the money but treating your girl like a lady. Same reason you open doors for her. I always feel like that's what a proper boyfriend should do.
I'm kinda against paying for a woman on the first date. I don't know why this 'notion' is always up that guys should pay for girls on 'FIRST DATE'. It should be more like "each pays for himself on the first date". Then if both actually get into a relationship then they can start offering to pay for each other. I personally wouldn't let my girl pay for anything. But only if she was MY GIRL. Not some random person i just went out on a first date with.
and in regards to your case, you can try going after him if you really like him. But you gotta expect to pay more for yourself. So if you don't like this mentality then move on to a guy who has the 'i'l pay for you on the first date' mentality. It's either that or you learn to deal with it. Good luck
I embrace chivalry strongly as part of my principles. And i'd pay even if a girl invites me. I take it as a value and respect that i hold by accepting the date. She is interested in me, and when i do accept means i am interested to, thus i play my role as kind of a man i expect of myself.
However, i embrace his logic too. It does make sense but it is not in my favor. According to your expectations and principles, further communication with this guy is nothing but a wall.
3
0 Reply
Anonymous
(45 Plus)
+1 y
Since he blocked you, I guess you're not talking again.
It's not that common, but I can understand the view that you asked, you pay. In his position, I might have split, but I don't think what he did was -wrong-. Now if his view is that whoever asks pays, and you asked and paid, then the right response from him would have been, if the date went well, to ask you out and pay entirely on a second date.
It's possible he just used you (which is something men deal with from women, it sucks, and sorry).
It's possible though that he decided you're nuts. You asked him out, you paid, then you complained about him not paying when you offered. Okay, maybe not crazy, but he might have taken you doing one thing than being pissed off he didn't read your mind as a big fed flag.
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
81Opinion
He blocked you because you're wrong and you're being an asshole. Other commenters are handing your ass to you and you deserve it. You don't even know what 'chivalry' means. It doesn't mean the guy pays for your steak, it means that he treats people with respect and he helps them when they are in need of help. Feeling bad for the next chump who goes out with your rude ass.
Point on...
@Djaaaay let the butthurt 'traditional' women who can't stand equal treatment downvotes continue!
They call the guy the asshole of the story but I swear, if this story was the other way around they'd still be calling the guy the asshole. They want to be treated as equals but they don't even know what that means (most of them at least) and they refuse to hold the degenerates of their own gender accountable. Thankfully, there are some enlightened women who aren't swept up in this 'traditional' nonsense.
Opinion owner... Tradionally , chilvary was a extended curiosity for those women to feel the rewards of... a such woman the man himself has or admires. Today it's warped into greedy expectations from others. About the question above... with my high status , I always pay everything anyways myself , cause I highly doubt she's wealthy enough as I am. But when you're invited somewhere , those who invite pay. Because of gold diggers out there everywhere , I only do the inviting and pay everything regardless no exceptions ever. About equality... it's mentioned a lot , but sure percieved in favor of the female most of the time from females... I guess it's the free steak still
@Djaaaay If you want to be treated like you're inferior, admit you're inferior at least. I don't see women as inferior but even if not everyone agrees at least you can respect the consistency.
LMFAO xD
scontent.ford1-1.fna.fbcdn.net/.../...887302_n.jpg
It's funny because there are plenty of men who take care of the home, and there are plenty of women who work physical jobs. I don't see the problem with either.
@snowangle I don't see a problem with it either. That's why I don't see a problem with someone paying when they invite someone.
@snowangle Not really, some do but its rare, women don't tolerate men doing the things that are traditionally feminine as this post points out so eloquently. In fact the divorce rates skyrocket when the man is stay at home while the woman works. Both parties are more likely to cheat and divorce in this situation. Womens unhappiness also increases dramatically. The fact is women really really love traditional gender roles. . . so long as it only applies to men. Now I think both parties should do as they will but statistics routinely show that when gender roles are reversed marriages break down and women are the ones who generally are the most unhappy with the role reversal. Its not particularly fair but neither is life. I don't think their is an issue with trying but I do have a problem with society trying to pretend like their isn't going to be any negative consequences to doing so when data routinely shows that their is.
I don't trust a guy who doesn't show generosity or kindness. I would never go to his house. I need a man who makes me feel safe, someone who shows me he appreaciates me. Because you paid it doesn't make you equal to the guy, it just makes you generous, and it makes him lazy, thoughtless, he doesn't show he appreciates women. He's a guy, his body is different, he could rape you, you don't know him, he could at least show some appreciation. You're able to pay, you're a free to pay, and you're free to choose if you want someone to invite you. I invite my friends sometimes, and they don't feel inferior because i paid.
Well if you're gonna state obvious facts then I guess I can too: women are more likely to get mugged or sexually assualted by men. Your body is different than his.
Did that make some sense, honey? If not, then to restate my point, your opinion only matters to yourself and you made a few valid points. But don't be an idiot by stating about body types and who can do the raping or is stronger than the other. That was really fucking stupid to say
Wtfff, lol.
Blah blah blah, whatever makes you feel as though you've justified yourself.
I love how you say "I need...". What about what a man needs? Hmm?
No need to be rude , i was not rude to you. It makes sense , the man should show appreciation to the woman , show that he values her , and doing romatic actions for her does not make the woman inferior , HONEY. You didn't even make an argument for what i said , you just said it was stupid , you are really bad at debating how old are you 15?
what does a man need in your opinion?
You'll never know how old I am. I mean, you can't see it anywhere
And your opinion wasn't a very strong one. I called you out on your crap and you say that I'm being rude. Think of it as someone helping you understand yourself a little better
@blunttalker
"the man should show appreciation to the woman , show that he values her "
WOW.
It's a pussy, not a bar of gold. Get over yourself. You're not special, women are not special. We are all human beings. Piss off with your feminist BS.
omg im not gonna keep arguing with you , you're really not worth It. you probably lonely virgin guy trying to feel better here and dont even bother to answer cuz i won't read It
Are you replying to me or this other guy?
@Abe90
She's resulted to insults. Game over for her, she's already conceited.
I think you should move on because you already have this bad impression of him and that'll carry.
I tend to be of the idea that as things progress, it should be 50/50, take turns etc. But at the start it should be 50:50 definitely unless one person outright states.
I never go to a date with the idea "well he's paying". I always have my money, if he requests to pay I thank him and I tend to pay for whatever we're doing next or a drink etc.
I don't like his attitude of expecting you to pay and then blocking you when you asked him about it, I think that was petty and made it seem like he only wanted you for a free meal.
BUT it is a common thought of "whoever asks pays" it just so happens that men normally do the asking. So perhaps in the future lesson learnt, you bring up how it'll be 50:50 or something.
Sounds like you're not the one that needs to give him a second chance. You might want to apologize for your head being trapped in the 1950s. The fact that he has a lot of money is likely the reason he did it. He's probably not looking for someone that wants to stick to idiotic gender norms and have a superficial relationship with. He's probably looking for a partner. But you sort of screwed the pooch on what sounds like a guy who has his head on straight, and knows what he wants. Good luck
I agree with him, whoever extends the invitation pays. If you wanted tradition then you should have waited for him to ask you out if a free meal is that important.
Instead you've come across as incredibly self entitled and rude, you could have just asked for Dutch on the next date if this is that big of an issue for you
YOU asked him out to dinner... so ya, YOU should pay.
Secondly, you want equal rights, right?
Don't expect us to pay for your shit. Things aren't like they used to be. Times are harder and money isn't as easy to come by. Understand that.
Women need to understand, if the world shit the bed in any manner that would require real survival, their vagina will not save them. Real talk.
To the person that down voted me.
I want you to go on vacation with me.
by the way, you're paying. Literally no different. GTFA.
I mean..
You don't think it's weird for YOU to ask him out and then want him to pay for it?
Lol.
He blocked you. He doesn't care or want a "second chance".
Well.. you wouldn't be giving him a second chance, it would be the other way around
This is one date you'll never forget lol... lets hope he keeps it that way. Too bad for you, cause he could of been amaZing but you allowed your entitled self to get in the way of potential romance - lesson learnt I hope
Oh God, the last sentence. I need to bang my head against the desk. I mean, the guy is a terrible human being, and he's playing these stupid games of 'treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen', and it's WORKING! There genuinely is no hope for humanity. I give up. You were the straw that broke the camel's back. I hope you're happy...
Also, before I get a bunch of foaming at the mouth retards, saying that I'm a white-knight and that I never get laid etc. Theoretically, I have no issue with the woman paying on the first date. What bothers me is he did so in bad blood, trying to make some juvenile point and punish her. I don't think you should treat people badly, or just use them as a means to an end in your stupid contrived philosophy. People ought to be treat people with respect, if they are to be considered for dating.
The guy obviously had an axe to grind and wanted to prove a point. But it's through his own folly that he's not considered how he's treating the other person (ie you). It does indeed sound like he's had some bad, gold-digging, experiences. And wants to punish people for it.
from what you've said that you suggested the date and im guessing that you planned it out and you paid
You are the pursuer. guys aren't like they used to be and now Women are beginning to be leaders and more in control of dating, courting, and relationships.
Only try contacting him if you can put your feelings aside and if you think that he's so cute that you want the d and nothing more.
If you want vindication then contact him but I wouldn't expect anything him to be more than a sex pal.
Or you could simply write it off, cut bait, and find another one...
LMAO
You asked him out, he got out of his way, to give you his time, his energy, his attention, you were the one suppoused to pay, regardless if he is man or not.
"I told him 'no way not on a first date' and then he just blocked me? Wtf happened to chivalry?" BY THAT TWISTED LOGIC, WOMEN COULD "INVITE" MEN TO DATES AND GET FREE MEALS.
Oh god... your stupidity has no limits. You give give him a second chace? More like see if he gives you a second chance.
Women doesn't expect free meals. He should AT LEAST offer pay for himself. Like I said earlier, I'm old school and I'm willing to pay for girl regardless she invited for date or I invited her.
@goldfinch23 Lets say you got invited to date, by 100 different women throughout one year (because you are handsome and you got game), lets say that each date costed an average of $10... that's a thousand dollars of free meals you gave away in one year... so i ask you, where do you draw the line man?
As handsome guy, I would be picky and not all girls would be successful. Even if yes, with these girls it's fun. Fun for ten bucks? It's cheap actually, isn't?
The rule is whoever asks pays. You're in the wrong here. I suggest he moves on from you and your weird way of thinking you're owed something just because you're a female.
That is not the rule. I make more money in a day than many women I date do in a month. It wouldn't be fair.
When a date of mine wants to reciprocate, I suggest she do something with her time; that way we are both contributing what the other has little of.
Are you saying woman can't afford to feed themselves? So what if you make more then many women do. If someone asks someone out they should plan accordingly to what they can afford and be prepared to pay the bill. It's ridiculous to expect someone to pay for something just because you want to do it. Sometimes I like going to the amusement park but that doesn't mean I suggest it to friends and then force them to pay just because they make more then me. If a woman wants to know a man but doesn't have the money then cook a meal or go get coffee and talk. I don't think it's right that women get things just because they have a pussy.
No, I am saying it isn't fair that someone who has less money pay for anything in a romantic relationship.
In my entire life, I have only met one woman who at the time made more than I do now, and she is the CEO of a major corporation that you would know. She is also happily married, somewhat older than I am, and most definitely not my type. (I've met women surgeons,, doctors, lawyers, and managers who made more than I did at the time I met them, but they were not in my dating pool then and I now make more than any of them).
" If a woman wants to know a man but doesn't have the money then cook a meal or go get coffee and talk"
And I am all for her putting in her time like cooking (I am an excellent cook myself). I appreciate that, a lot. Meanwhile, the women I date appreciate that they are not out of any money for anything.
"I don't think it's right that women get things just because they have a pussy. "
It has been that way for tens of thousands of years.
So if you ask some of your friends out to do something, you pay for everything? Guys almost always ask, so it's unfair to expect them to pay for asking. A date is supposed to be a mutual want, if you want him to pay because he asked you don't seem to really want to go on the date, rather just say no.
I would agree usually that it's chivalrous for a man to pay. But only if a girl is exclusively showing affection toward him versus any other guy she isn't seeing and being less innocent around.
Also for instance, if he paid, then should you be obligated to have sex? If he is obligated to pay?
I think a girl should offer, and a real keeper/gentleman would pay. This includes a male friend. If a guy friend pays for you, he f**king likes you. If a girl doesn't see that, she's stupid and entitled.
https://i.imgur.com/do0uwDo.gif
This is the best thing I've ever seen on here. Bravo. Well done.
Thanks bud.
How did you make this? Teach me. :)
@RainbowFanGirl photoshop. Though I made the original with the blue anon. Unit made this one.
Wow ! Are you for real? What planet do you live on to think you can invite someone and make them pay? lol
That's the weirdest shit I've heard!
And you think think he is mysoginistic? ROFL!
You can try to get back to him if you want, it won't work. you are definitely banned from his life, and you deserve it. You are crazy.
When my girlfriend asked me out on our first date a couple of months ago, she offered to pay but I would have none of it and paid for it all. Now we're in an exclusive relationship for almost a year and I'm still paying for all of our dates. She earns more than I do but I don't mind. It's not about the money but treating your girl like a lady. Same reason you open doors for her. I always feel like that's what a proper boyfriend should do.
Ex fucking actly!!!
Old school. Like me. I'm exactly the same and I agree with you 100%
Best guy ever.
You're girlfriend picked a winner
You*
Ugh omg *your haha
TIL leech = lady
What?
I agree with you totally... except don't opt out gold diggers
@zivlaks The fact that my girlfriend expects me to be a gentleman doesn't make her a leech, it makes her a lady who was raised right.
@Sephora_Addict @Puppylove94 @desidoll Thank you. :)
I wasn't talking about your girl friend
@Djaaaay I know, I responded to the other guy. :) No worries.
Oh.. ok !!
I'm kinda against paying for a woman on the first date. I don't know why this 'notion' is always up that guys should pay for girls on 'FIRST DATE'. It should be more like "each pays for himself on the first date". Then if both actually get into a relationship then they can start offering to pay for each other. I personally wouldn't let my girl pay for anything. But only if she was MY GIRL. Not some random person i just went out on a first date with.
and in regards to your case, you can try going after him if you really like him. But you gotta expect to pay more for yourself. So if you don't like this mentality then move on to a guy who has the 'i'l pay for you on the first date' mentality. It's either that or you learn to deal with it. Good luck
I embrace chivalry strongly as part of my principles. And i'd pay even if a girl invites me. I take it as a value and respect that i hold by accepting the date. She is interested in me, and when i do accept means i am interested to, thus i play my role as kind of a man i expect of myself.
However, i embrace his logic too. It does make sense but it is not in my favor.
According to your expectations and principles, further communication with this guy is nothing but a wall.
Since he blocked you, I guess you're not talking again.
It's not that common, but I can understand the view that you asked, you pay. In his position, I might have split, but I don't think what he did was -wrong-. Now if his view is that whoever asks pays, and you asked and paid, then the right response from him would have been, if the date went well, to ask you out and pay entirely on a second date.
It's possible he just used you (which is something men deal with from women, it sucks, and sorry).
It's possible though that he decided you're nuts. You asked him out, you paid, then you complained about him not paying when you offered. Okay, maybe not crazy, but he might have taken you doing one thing than being pissed off he didn't read your mind as a big fed flag.