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He let me pay on the first date, what should I do now? (Page 2)
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I always expect people to go halves on a first date anyway, whether it's the man or woman who initiates the date. It seems a bit of rude of him to think that because you initiated the date he expected you to pay for everything, the same applies if it was a man initiating the date and the woman expects him to pay for it all. That ain't cool. Sounds like he won't want to talk to you if he's blocked you. Move on.
The man is always in charge of the date (except for homosexual dates). In this particular situation as the head of the table, the man is entitled to discipline the woman if he feels she is out of line. For whatever offense you committed, your punishment was paying for the meal. If the offender submits a complaint to the man he has the right to terminate communication with the woman.
Objection your honor! lol lol j/k
So which woman pays for homosexual dates? lol
The more feminine one. lol
He probably doesn't want to date someone who primarily cares about his money.
get over it princess. you asked him out, plus aren't we supposed to be equal these days? or does that only apply to women when it suits them?
selective equality all the way!
This is what western men are nowadays, try men from latin country they're so much better. They would never let a girl paid for herself not to think about the whole date. if he was some "modern men" he would have split the bills. he's just a hater of women and stupid since he block you not even try to talk things out like an adult would do.
Well, men from Latin countries will also expect you to cook and be a subservient house wife. I'd say Latin men get the better deal.
@hahanoway
You know, you sound like a guy who has a tough time getting dates.
Maybe because we rich guys take them all.
@WalterRadio You got me :( My girl ran off with a 44 year old sugar daddy 2 years ago and I'm still not over it. She sent me a birthday card from her yacht in the Caribbean, though, I thought that was nice of her.
You turned on now, babe?
If you expect a guy to pay for everything in order to date him, you are by definition a prostitute.
@hahanoway This is attend to Western men too it's for this reasons they want Asian and European women.
I don't mind cooking, clean the house or being submissive at all. I believe in gender roles it's so much better than all this stuff from America
@amphet11 No, because I will cook for him, support him, take care of him, doesn't go out every night, etc...
And not going sleeping with every guys I see.
@amphet11 You can call me names all you want, just to let you know that in my country it's the norm. Like many other country in Europe...
Don't let amphet11 get to you. He is jealous because other guys get the girls he can't.
@WalterRadio Yes, so he become bitter with every girls he see
"No, because I will cook for him, support him, take care of him, doesn't go out every night, etc...
And not going sleeping with every guys I see." that's superfluous to semantics, now you are just a prostitute and a maid. Even if i am bitter, tat is not mutually exclusive to me being right.
*that
Which country are you from, opinion owner?
@jessica5d France
@amphet11 So it's for that American men want to date Asian and european right? It's because they're more traditionnal and submissive but when a girl is like that you said to her she's a whore? Isn't that a bit hypocrite? I think so
lmao, what are you even talking about? I spent a year in France, EVERY couple I knew and was friends with split the bill on dates. I can think of exactly ONE guy who always paid.
@hahanoway Which part where you in? In change a lot. Where you in a city or no?
@hahanoway
If you are a loser with no money, then chances are you only knew losers with no money.
How is this linked to being misogynistic? I think you have princess syndrome and entitlement issues. Don't be going on dates you can't afford.
Well... I don't mind paying for dates. If I offer to go out and eat at that place, I feel like I pay for it. Or we just take turns, he pays for the food, I pay for something else ext
For God's sake, PEOPLE NEED TO SPLIT THE GODDAMN BILL AND BE DONE WITH IT.
That's all.
by the way, why would you give *him* a second chance? He ain't gna take you back, he blocked yr ass, girl.
Well, you asked him, not vice versa, so that's not a problem - who asks for a date is the one who should pay, but...
The real problem is - that guy is obviously some jerk who doesn't really like you, all he wanted is a free dinner.
Guys almost always have to ask, so 50/50 be the way it should be.
Funny because that behavior is expected from a woman but if a guy does it, he's a jerk...
@amphet11 I don't think so. Girls should ask more often, I hate patriarchal society, I'm a virgin in my late 30s, because women are indoctrinated into thinking guys always have to make the first move.
@JuicyBrain Not true, that's just a femi-nazi propaganda, women can be jerks too.
"that guy is obviously some jerk who doesn't really like you"
You got that from the guy not wanting to pay for her. He's a jerk because of it. It can't be because he was disgusted by her asking him out and then expecting him to pay.
@JuicyBrain No, you misunderstood me, he is a jerk because he blocked her afterward.
Guy didn't pay for the first date: i say that's a great thing as you didn't waste anymore time with him.
This is equivalent to a girl wearing sweats, a hoodie and no make up first date.
I love that analogy!
No, this is the equivalent of a girl not paying on a first date.
You describe human courtship as prostitution by very definition, women are whores, men are johns.
@theccanyon
In the passage of time, i started out with a budding idea. I wrote these ideas on paper as i I have a dream that one day little black boys and girls will be holding hands with little white boys and girls.
As i get older, my dream fades as my ideologies were of pen and pencil. My world crumbles down before me and as i look at my hands, i realize i don't want to simply hold hands but to walk along the path my innate wants and needs lead me to be. While i blamed the wondrous things to blame, all paths lead back to me.
I become honest with myself.. with others and i let go of the things i wrote down on paper long ago. I look at that list now and it brings me a smile, how different that list is from what my ideas are today.
😂😂😂😂😂 classic.
Hahaha this is most likely a troll folks.
In the even this is real... grow the f&^* up. It's just about 2017. Chivalry died years ago - both genders are equal now.
we are not equal, men are superior, but we have equal rights, so women who expect men to pay and be chivalrous need to accept the fact that men are superior, women who actually want to be treated equally can live in their delusional bubble that we are equal and the man is likely to let her believe that as long as it makes her happy.
@alphadoggystyle You never learn, do you.
@alphadoggystyle 4.bp.blogspot.com/.../...ock+and+tame+the+cunt.jpg
you're one of these guys
@Toad-1 its you who never learn, as i have been correct from the beginning.
@mostwomenshouldstfu its you who never learn.
@alphadoggystyle Do you want to get put in your place again? Do you, enjoy being wrong or something? Oh wait, you do. That's the very definition of arrogance.
@mostwomenshouldstfu
You never put me in any place, you dont have that ability, i did put you in your place before though, and i can easily do it again. You got raped last time and now you are butthurt. I was never wrong but you where wrong about everything you said, you lost and i won. I dont care if i am being arrogant, facts are all that matters and they are on my side, not yours.
Did you have a fun date besides that? Unlike the days of old where it was socially obligated for a man to pay, many men do not have the same sentiment, usually putting it on either the person who initiated the date or going dutch. Personally I pay for the first date and feel touched when a woman does offer. If you had fun and he did too, what's the harm in you paying for the first one? As long as he covers the second one (if there is one), i don't see the problem.
Well, some guys do think about that. You should've asked him about it before you paid.
But you did ask him out so usually the person who asks is the one who pays. He's not really wrong.
I do not blame him.
Way to screw a starting relationship tho.
Lol u asked him out and expected him to pay? No wonder MGTOW
The "females", or should I say "girls" that are down voting this are really quite clueless.
Hey ladies who down voted, want to go to the Bahamas with him for vacation? Yeah? Great! I'll send you the bill and I'll tag along. Ya, the concept is literally no different.
Go F* yourselves.
Good troll bahaha. You'll take a few people with this.
Sad thing is... she probably isn't even trolling lol
@Afro-dite9 lol, yeah it's a good one but HE is trolling, Too much of a baited scenario to randomly pop up, he just wants to see the responses.
Oh... convinently anon too.
Another clue to this being a troll is that this person has not replied to anyone.
Lmao damn... y'all might be right now that I think about it😂👏
I'd love to agree with you if it wasn't for the fact that plenty of girls like these exist outside GAG. Just recently a girl asked me to go out for drinks and acted really offended when I let her pay her own drinks (not even mine, just her own). Two days later my best friend told me that she talked sh*t about me behind my back because of it. The sad part was that it wasn't even a date, it was just a friend who asked me out for drinks. Needless to say I should choose better friends lol.
Another reason this probably isn't a troll is all the girls replying they agree with the OP. Unless they are all fake accounts by the OP lol.
I do agree though it's a tad suspicious that she doesn't reply but she could just be offline. Or she's scared of all the negative replies lol.
Dating rule.
1. Women are more valuable than men that is why you have to approach them more often than not.
2. When you take women out on dates you are expected to entertain them and pay for them because your paying for their time and them giving you a chance.
3. A woman does not owe you sex. This is why escorts overall are better because there is no guarantee.
Speak for yourself, no one with any self respect is going to follow that crap.
@Kkaos This is what majority of men do. Just look at how you grovel and suck up to women on here.
Who's you? Me? Do I? Quote it. Grow up.
@Kkaos Ah telling someone to grow up doesn't make you morally superior. Being childish like you are doing requires someone to grow up. Look around you the vast majority of men suck up t women, WHITE knight women.
PUSSY>>Dicks. You have to work for women.
He is telling you to grow up because you accused him of something you have no proof he does
@tyber1 No proof? Look around you and get out of your mother's basement and see the world.
Who approaches who more? Men
Who pays for dates and tries to get the other genders attention? Men
Which gender on here panders up to the other? Men.
Which gender here is always posting/asking question on what the other gender likes? Men.
Which gender here constantly is passive aggressive towards their own gender but ass kisses women? Men.
"When you take women out on dates you are expected to entertain them and pay for them because your paying for their time and them giving you a chance"
You know what kind of women are paid for their time? Prostitutes...
What a fucking cuck, no wonder you posted anonymously, you beta male.
@lualesca I was outlining the general trend in dating. if you think that makes the vast majority of men CUCK then so be it but that is the usually trend in dating.
If a guy not paying for you makes you not like him, then you are just a prostitute. He did the right thing blocking you, he is the one who has to give you a second chance, if he blocked you he doesn't want a second date.
I wouldn't try talking to him since it seems like he wasn't concerned about impressing you and now blocked you , I mean he could have offered to pay half since you did ask him out and it was just a first date type of thing I'm guessing, did he at least leave the tip? I use to always pay for the meal when I was dating but I was never asked out so it would be different for me if that happened
Women on here keep saying whoever asks out should pay. Why should he have split and why shouldn't all women split then?
@JuicyBrain I guess I'm old fashioned, let's hope he left the tip at least but yeah if she did ask to take him out I guess it only makes sense
Well as a man I never made a girl pay, I was raised like this and its coming from my culture, but if the guy is broke then there is nothing to do and its stupidy for you to expect him to pay. However I support everyone to pay their own bill but I never made a chick pay for "whole things" and I won't do it ever. I usually pay for the bills and whenever they want to pay I say that I am just only okey with things she ate and drank.
So your first text to him is criticizing him for not picking up the tab?
He wasn't interested in impressing you, being chivalrous or anything other than a free meal. Don't bother trying for a second chance. If he wants one he can call and invite you out. You should just move on and consider it a learning experience.
thats psychotic. thinking he did it for a free meal. thats next level conspiracy theory. maybe he just knows his shit. buying meals is only for your years being together beloved wife. not a girl you just met.
@supernerd99 a multitude of guys on here in discussing not buying a woman's meal completely express the exact same thing about women. "Don't buy a stranger a meal" "she can buy her own damn meal" etc...
everyone can buy his own meal. splitting is best. especially in the begining. and by begining i mean the first months.
@supernerd99 I respectfully disagree.
because hypocritical feminist conditioning. thats why you respectfully disagree. you owe nothing that woman and she owes nothing to you unless a meaningful bond tested by time has been established. when you can act out of love and not do it as an exchange for something. thats how things work in the era of equality.
@supernerd99 I'm not a feminist and don't really get what you are saying.
thats sad. you should update your software cause times have changed. old courtship is long gone, burried, and good riddance is the least we can wish for it. Now women make equally if not more money, and since we have equality, everyone pays his own meal. he doesn't owe her anything. and she doesn't owe him anything. i buy meals only to my wife. to no other fling before especially the ephemeral ones. and thats what every man should do.
@supernerd99 thank god my boyfriend doesn't think that way. he took us out for a wonderful first date, I took him for a great second date, he cooked me dinner on our third and I took us to lunch on our fourth. The next 3 years have been fantastic.
its still not needed though. he could be fantastic without paying your meals. and did you notice what you said? you paid the second. if you didn't, and he kept paying, it wouldn't be "chivalry" anymore it would be loserness.
@supernerd99 and IF your mom abstained from sex with your dad that night, you and I wouldn't even be chatting.
If you expect a guy to pay for everything in order to date him, you are by definition a prostitute.
@amphet11 read my comments and a how me where I suggested he pay for everything on our dates?
If a guy is expected to pay when he asks a girl out, why shouldn't you be expected to pay since you asked him out?
Wow what logic!!!
@Ragini it's the logic girls on this site use alll the time
That's totally right...
@Ragini that's completely rational. Men and women are supposed to be equal so the same expectations should apply to both men and women when they ask someone on a date. Equality shouldn't only be in place where it's convenient for women
Alright, I give up. You win. I lose.
That's why I think you should always either split the bill or each pay for their own shit they ordered. That way no one is obligated to do anything.
don't talk to him. He was probably using you for a free meal.
Guys aren't prostitutes like women, she even said he is rich, he has no need for a free meal.
@amphet11 You don't have to be poor to be stingy. Leona Helms is a perfect example of a rich person unwilling to spare 10 cents with the poor.
Going dutch everytime prevents this issue of anyone feeling obligated or used.
Wtf happened with independent women and their talk about equal rights?
if he really doesn't care about gender roles, paying bill doesn't bother me. It's something that men have always done to girls. But i find very many guys who's very sexist and want women to follow traditional gender roles want women not to follow the gender role that women shouldn't pay for first date Haha. Very selfish. Does he wear nice clothes and do some makeup for you?
Whoa, whoa WHOA.
"Does he wear nice clothes and do some makeup for you?"
WOW. You are inexplicably ignorant.
No one said you have to do that. No one said that has to be done for guys. In fact I've read and heard many, many, many women say they don't wear makeup and dress however they dress for men, they do it for themselves.
Y'all are SO full of shit it's not even funny.
You will play a card in your hand in multiple different ways however you can to get the result you desire in any given situation.
You are not a lady, you are a pig.
Good day.
why would you want to date him anyways. he seems rude and uninterested even because he blocked you. also, he should have at least offered because it's the first date and time to make an impression. he didn't care about making an impression
he might not have been interested or considered it a date even tbh
He blocked her because she flipped out at him over nothing
@tyber1 no because he didn't consider it a date in the first place, she flipped out over something that he didn't care about
So? She didn't care about making a good impression either, or she would have paid WITHOUT making a scene about it afterwards.
You asked him out. So technically you should pay. An older man would not have let you. But young people seem to be ok with this whole equality thing.
Both should split the bill or pay for themselves first date. Both genders are most likely to "run" after a first date so it makes sense not to invest money until a second date.
I'd never pay for a guy on a first date. I'd never let him pay for me either. If he is assuming you'd pay he'll probably use you. Men say women are gdiggers, but a lot of men are too. They'll use you for your resources. I'd fuck him right off
move on, find another, he sounds like a jackass anyways
That guy sounds awesome, if anything you are the jackass. Take a look at your downvotes mate, let's see how many people disagree with you.
I would have split the bill if I were him, but the other guys here saying it could have been a test since he has a lot of money might be on to something.
Yeah no guy wants a whore/prostitute that makes him pay for everything in the relationship, it's actually be definition prostitution.
So... are you anonymous because you know you're in the wrong?
Then why this question?
Assuming you're not a troll, and I have my suspicions, go your separate ways and ask yourself what have you learned.
What kind of relationship you could have together if you already have this kind of conflict on the first date? Move on
I think it's a bad, because he doesn't wanma spend money with you, probably because he thinks your relationship won't last long. My personal opinion.
chill man, he's saving his money for the good stuff lol
Jst leave. He could at least have offered to pay half.
Would you offer to pay?
@dontknow12 yes I would cos that's what I have been doing.
or maybe you are misandric cause you believe men are oblidged to pay your dinners. and becaseu your ex loser did, everyone should... . selective equality.
Who says that he will give u a second chance? xD
But well I don't know usually the guy pays so indeed he did something wrong because u never offered to pay for him too
He did something wrong? Yeah, he gave her his time!
Well but it's still a little bit rude that he expected her to pay for him too. They could have shared the bill. If someone invites me somewhere I don't expect that they pay for me. Especially not if I don't even know the person very well
And to be like "u invited me I won't pay the bill" is kinda childish
I won't downvote because you're in a different culture, but in the US if you invite someone out you pay for them regardless of whether you are male or female. When I was asked out by girls they'd always insist on paying for everything and vice versa when I asked them out.
See, women don't want equality because they are not.
Women aren't equal, its fact and why I'd pay for most dates.
They say there's not a feminist in a burning house fire or during war.
So many women want the whole 'separate but equal' type of treatment like they don't even understand that it's not possible. You cannot be equal and expect special treatment. At the very least, if a woman is going to insist on 'traditional' dating norms she should admit that she doesn't see herself as an equal.
@tyber1 chilvary or even hadicapped treatment is there to treat a weaker or disadvantaged parties.
women are misinformed about many things in life beause men dont get pussy by telling them the truth
I don't agree with the perspective that women are inferior. But they expect to get the benefits of being inferior and being equal. It's bullshit. If you want to be treated like you're inferior, admit you're inferior at least. Even if not everyone agrees at least you can respect the consistency.
@tyber1 you dont have to agree. its fact. can they play sports with men? can most challenge men intellectually? look at history. you dont have to think so but you'll get better results seeing things for what they are
@tyber1 they are inferior and designed for other things just share the same rights
I don't think they're physically inferior I think both genders have bodies that are optimized for different things that are both important. I've seen no evidence that women are dumber than men either, just that they're oblivious to certain realities.
@tyber1 now i think you're retarded.
I think he should have offered to pay for his portion, but since you did ask him out you should paid.
The him asking to pay is more for manners sake. That's what I would do
*when guys down vote my opinion when I agree with them... *
This site would be so boring if it were not for the TROLL'S adding some humor.
you got pregnant from a gang bang. you're opinion means nothing.
@dudeman How about FUCK YOU RETARD
lol go have another. gang bang baby
It's a GUY'S job to pay on a first date and especially if he has money that's just BS if he don't... I mean he could have at least offered to pay at least HALF... I wish guys these days were like the ones in NICHOLAS SPARKS movies!!! But unfortunately this is Reality :( cuz most guys are not like that (These days mostly)...
blame feminism
@Toad-1 and what do u mean by that?
They want equality? so here it is.
@Toad-1 So ur saying most guys are gay?
what? no im saying most girls wanted equality.. so girls should expect equality in all things not just when it benefits them
Do you know why men are not like that anymore? Because women screamed and cried and threw tempertantrums demanding they be treated like equals. They then created these rules like "the one who asks pays" in order to try and avoid losing their special privileges. Thats why this has happened because of women. Don't blame men who had treated women like royalty (in fact thats where the term chivalry comes from, a vow of chivalry was for the nobility. It was essentially relegating men to the role of servant and the woman to the role of nobel) and then women wanted all the "privilege" that men had completely ignoring that for every one of their so called "privileges" their was a subsequent responsibility attached. So blame feminist blame women for it not men. You want the old way of doing things back, you have to start treating men like women did in the past, with love and respect and difference. Its a give and take not men give and women take as it is now.
If you expect a guy to pay for everything in order to date him, you are by definition a prostitute.
@amphet11 I'm under 18 that would be called a hoe and I'm NOT a hoe and yes I CAN BLAME "EVERYONE" On this evil God forsaken planet... BECAUSE back then THE MEN can beat their wives and they can get a way with it SO DON't even tell me its our FAULT... you guys like you can blame anyone but y'alls selves you sound just like my brother!!! ... I treat men the way they should be treated unlike others but guess what I get treated in reurn as... like Shit... I am not saying that all you men is the same I'm saying most i'm in a relationship and he is good to me but my last recent one it's too personal to say
My statement stays the same, you haven't addressed the truth i have told you at all.
@amphet11 ... well I was mostly talking to the other one that made a big long statement that made no sense... all i did was state my opinion and everyone makes a big deal about it
You mentioned only me in the reply though,
@amphet11 ... didn't mean too i'm new to this i had an old account but i was still now so sorry..
new*
Actually if a man beat his wife he would be flogged, publicly. What your claiming is factually inaccurate. However interestingly enough if a woman beat her husband (as statistically women are more likely to do:https://www. saveservices. org/2012/02/cdc-study-more-men-than-women-victims-of-partner-abuse/ ) he would be paraded through the streets, humilated publically while the populace threw stones and what ever else they could at him: https://www.fact.on.ca/Info/dom/george94.htm
Women where better off through out all of history comparatively speaking to men, again this is historical fact which can be verified by only a slight bit of digging.
@hellionthesagereborn I'm 16 i don't read all that long word nonsense...
Facts are not nonsense and at your age you need all the education you can get.
@hellionthesagereborn all I did was state my opinion what does Education have to do with it? lmao
Your other statements where inaccurate, your rational flawed, ergo you need to educate yourself on the topic before announcing your "opinion" on said subject.
@hellionthesagereborn... were* not where! (And I'm uneducated?)... and my statement did make sense to people who know how to read
So sorry I don't use grammer to your specifications (their arbitrary anyway only coming about in the 1700s when the printing press became commonplace and literacy began to increase. Though its really irrelevent, even hemmingway and george washington couldn't spell as many other intellectuals) but unfortunatley your insult is not only an ad homined attack (an attack on the person instead of their argument, mostly due to not being able either because they are right or the person is simply ignorant on the subject, to actually attack the persons argument) with no real substance. As for my reading skills, well I read the illiad when I was 8, ancient greek epic by homer, and own over 250 books have read even more. Which is also why you don't use those kinds of logical fallacies because they don't have any real substance both in debate and in reality. So my previous statement about you needing to educate yourself on the topic still stands.
@hellionthesagereborn One question? haha sorry what was that? ... I don't give a fuck... nice talking to u bye! :)
No you care, you just don't like it when people question you because you can't handle it. Your incappable of self analysis, of questioning your own beliefs so you argue and insult people who call you out then when your backed into a corner you act flippant in order to extracate yourself from the inevitable acknowledgement of being wrong. Its a saddly common tactic.
@hellionthesagereborn NO, correction... I DON'T want to start a dumb argument over something NOT worth my fucking time. YOU SHOULD have just left it at that... you're 32 and I'M 16... WHO'S the CHILDISH ONE HERE keeping this up? B-BYE!
Yeah I called you out because your young and I had hoped perhaps you would consider it because you haven't had a life time of indoctrination yet. I always encourage people young or old to question themselves and their beliefs, how else would you learn anything?
@hellionthesagereborn very nice of you, but I still didn't change my opinion, i said most... but not every guy is the same which is true just like with girls we all are different but most are the same you just have to find that one special someone that is for you and you only1 :)
but he blocked you hahaha
Guys have changed these days
I'm still old school on this cause I don't let a girl pay when she's with me
I ain't rich either
So, why should the GUY pay and not the girl?
That sounds pretty sexist.
That's exactly the kind of behavior/thinking that is causing many men to never want to get married anymore.
Right.
I'll never get married in this environment.
@Madeon929 Me neither. Not until divorce outcomes and father's child rights are changed.
Welcome to the post-feminist world. GIRLS asked for it...
Hell no!! I would have tossed my drink in his face and walked out at dinner like really?
You sound like you have anger management issues. And she asked him out, so she pays. End of.
@notreallythere Haha I do not have an anger issue at all but whatever dude.
Throwing things in someone else's face because you don't get your way sounds like something children do. You sure you're 37?
@notreallythere Look at the end of the day we are talking about a first date where you should be making an impression however what kind of impression do you think you are making by having her pay the bill... the only thing you are telling her is that your a pussy who is looking for a sugar mommy cause you need to swap from mommy's tit to hers... This is literally the LEAST sexiest thing you could possible do... so there for toughen up solider!
lmao that doesn't make any sense whatsoever. She asked him out so she invited him and should pay for it. There shouldn't even be a debate about that. Or would you, if he asked her out instead, tell her the following: "what kind of impression do you think you are making by having him pay the bill... the only thing you are telling him is that your a little girl who is looking for a sugar daddy cause you need to swap from daddy's wallet to his... This is literally the LEAST sexiest thing you could possible do... so there for toughen up young lady! "
@notreallythere Lol Toughen up.. I dont have to I dont have to date little boys anymore... got to love the married life. Youngin
lmao, shaming doesn't work on me, nice try though. :)
@notreallythere Is that what you thought that was? Lol how cute.
Dutch is always the best way to go! No expectations..
I wouldn't have paid for him, I would have said "I'll pay for myself but I'm not paying for you."
Agree
@desidoll I'm surprised by the downvotes lol
Let's not forget about the majority of gag population lol. Stingy and broke.
I am neither cheap nor stingy and always pay on a date. However, if any girl ever grabbed the bill and said "I'll pay for myself but I'm not paying for you." The date would be over in about 2 seconds. That is the rudest thing I have ever heard. How has that worked for you in the past?
I said if a guy told me "I'm not paying you can pay," I would say "I'll pay for myself". That's not rude at all.
That is not what you said and that is not what the poster said either, and it is still rude.
I do agree that 90% of the guys on here are a-holes, but that is real world. Don't treat the 10% of the real men like they are the same as the other 90%, one of the reason that women say there are no good men around is that they treat the good one like the bad one and the good ones won't put up with it.
And yes he is a loser if he does offer to pay.
He moved on already, so the only thing left for you to do is to move on as well.
Girlfriend i dont know why your still bothered with him... he's cheap and disrespectful!
Whoever asks out who pays... what happened with that?
You are the one who asked him on the date not the other way around, so he's in the right not paying
Chivalrous when you like it, misogynistic/sexist when you don't
funny as hell
u asked him
u pay
the end
Guuurl, you asked him. Imagine a platonic friend asks you if you'd like to have lunch with them, you accept and they expect you to frickin' PAY.
you sound like a bitch.
No she don't she sounds reasonable
@LauraLOVESHorses how is it reasonable to ask some one out and then expect them to pay for your invitation?