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lol I want a normal solid human being.
not a cry baby and not an emotionally detached or autistic person
Ouch. I have mild autism but I didn't think I was that bad of a person.
Every relationship should have one woman in it. , when I say I want communication I don't want him to replace me cuz being the woman is my job.
well put!
Generally agreed but ideally both men and women strive to be unemotional.
Emotional Person: A person who acts before they think.
Unemotional Person: A person who thinks before they act.
The sign of a very emotional person is someone who constantly does things they immediately regret. The sign of a very unemotional person is calm, controlled behavior which generally makes things better because they're thinking about how to make things better instead of just doing whatever they feel like doing without thinking about the ramifications.
An example of a very emotional person in a house fire would be one who panics and screams, "We're going to die!" maybe even committing suicide and killing their own children to avoid a painful death.
An example of a very unemotional person is one who would still feel the same fear as the very emotional person (unemotional does not mean robot, that would be humanly unattainable) but doesn't act on that fear. Instead they calmly locate an exit and guide others to safety. They might even express their fears if it helps others to also calm down.
Both men and women could benefit from striving to be unemotional.
I prefer a guy to open up to me.. I distance myself if he doesn't.
Interesting... What if he tried opening up after you distanced yourself? Would you let him?
There is a difference between opening up n being vulnerable...
and being a little bitch who cries n complains n is pessimistic n is always in his feelings n getting emotional n etc.
Get the point?
Girls want a guy that has empathy, and emotional intelligence and interpersonal skills, in that they know how to handle the girls emotions as in they understand her feelings
What do you mean "emotional guys"? For me, emotion is like money. I don't waste it for useless things. So if a guy expressed his emotions to you, it means you are special to him.
a guy is like that to me, he said he just open his feelings with me, which he didn't do with his immediate friends
For my opinion, i do want a guy that tells me how he's feeling, what he thinks and be open to me.. but if he's a whiner who cries about anything and everything.. that's a turn off
psychologically speaking, no, women like stronger dudes even if they say they don't care. Don't worry I'm on the same boat as you. At this point I'm convinced that it depends on the girl.
He is "too emotional and pathetic" only if the emotions he shows aren't ones she (or people in general) like.
I believe that the old adage is still very beneficial to this day, "just be yourself". The people who don't fuck with you were never meant to fuck with you.
I like dating human men, not testosterone robots. Emotions are healthy, if they feel that they are able to show emotion with me then it prooves that we have a close relationship.
You are clearly a nice guy eh? Since when you open your problems to your girl and exposing her to more emotional disarray? Man don't talk problems only solutions. ..
Just be yourself. Then you wait and see who sticks around :)
Yes girls love an emotional man but only emotional at the right time such as expressing feelings to her be there in need etc just not crying about everything like how a female is lol but you should only be emotional to the right one some females will take advantage just like some men
I've wondered about this too. I think no matter what kind of guy you are, girls will always find a reason to be dissatisfied.
it's alright. For example, who the heck said that "boys shouldn't cry" and stuff like that? I think guys who are sensitive are better people...
All depends on the people we allow in our lives I think. If we can't truly be ourselves around our friends and family then who can we?
Just be you. Can't win every time for every person. Eventually you will surround yourself with people ya dig and who dig you, for you.
He could be open to me and show emotion, as long as he's not crying everyday I like when guys talk ab real things
Girls want empathic and compassionate guys - but not whiny little bitches.