Most Helpful Girl
Yes, I think so. Having been married I can honestly say you reach a point where you don't even notice how they look. You're reading their face and voice to sense how they're feeling. It's about the relationship, not the person.
Another example is that I had a friend in high school I saw occasionally through youth group who, looking back now, was probably biracial. (I think so, anyway. He was very light-toned). I never asked him or met his parents.
Anyway I was talking to someone one day and mentioned my friend Alex. They said, "You mean the black kid?" I had no idea what they meant. I had never even noticed that he was black or biracial. He was just Alex.1
Most Helpful Guy
Most of the times you have to still be attracted to them in your own way
If you have no attraction it will never work out well1