If you were dating someone EXACTLY like yourself, what flaws would they have?

[HawkPerception]

[Genie23]

I have too many reasons why I wouldn't want to date someone like myself because I have too many flaws-

• Overthinking.
• Short temper.
• Clumsiness
• Can't control tears when I get frustrated/argue.
• Not waking up early.
• Too honest/straightforward which I realised is not a good thing in today's world.
• Afraid of failure.
• Bit obsessed with cleanliness. So, washing hands too many times and feet too many times and making sure everything is super clean or I can't relax.

[HawkPerception]

Sounds very feminine and like attractive flaws to me. Appreciate the honesty and detail of your answer!

[Genie23]

I forgot to add I am afraid of too many things. The list of things I'm afraid of is quite long, lol. From insects to being afraid of dark and heights. So, I feel like if someone is very much like me, he'd find me exhausting to deal with. 😅

That's so sweet of you. Thank you for making me feel better about my flaws. You're most welcome!

[Genie23]

Yay MHO!

[valentina4eva]

i don’t think it would work out between me and an EXACT copy of me!!😂😬😬 i am too overemotional, too quick to cry, get overwhelmed too easily😅 i can be naive and gullible, and sometimes lack assertiveness/confidence😅 and i can be v shy and insecure at times too🙈 and also im afraid of conflict or confrontation🙈 anywaysssss, i would rather date someone that compliments my strengths/flaws and i complement theirs!!😊😊✨

[HawkPerception]

Love it!

[Summeroflove]

Well she definitely ruffles a lot of feathers says things that are a bit abrasive even if it’s well intended it’s too blunt and honest for many people to be able to react to kindly. Stands up for herself and others but maybe sometimes too boldly. Maybe sometimes speaks when she really shouldn’t get involved.

Too straightforward this can be good and bad depending on the person. Like I said blunt not in a intentionally rude way all the time sometimes very well meaning. But other times if someone starts shit she just unleashes.

She’s a bit impulsive. Maybe she buys something because it looks cool just to realize “why did I do that”. Maybe says things impulsively.

Isn't the best with planning things out all the time. Maybe lobes flying by the seat of her pants…. When things workout until issues come up that ruins it all that wouldn’t have been a issue if she would have planned. Maybe plans a vacation out and just makes zero plans other then to do what we wanna do when we want to do it. That may make others upset who plan everything out to the minute. Instead plan a few things we really want to do and just the rest do what we want when we want.

[HawkPerception]

Love the detail and honesty 😁

[DishLady]

Hmm... Inability to give any extreme singular answers... 😂

[dragoblack]

Depression, self-doubt, social awkwardness, hermit, frequent brain fog, worry that my possible SO will lose all interest and just leave or cheat, worry that I'm being someone's place-holder option until someone they think is better comes along, that I'm just annoying people, think that i talk too much, worry that I'm never enough romantically. Worry that I'm actually considered a boring person.

[HawkPerception]

Dang man... I think you have all the same insecurities as myself. Appreciate you sharing! ☮️

[dragoblack]

Eh, lifetime of social trauma, lack of women romantically interested, being treated as not enough for women to see me in a romantic way, a lifetime of romantic rejection, and a childhood of all females who were interested in me, suddenly lost all interest the moment they see my brother... it really wears a person down.

[HawkPerception]

I can imagine... sorry to hear about the self-esteem man. Self-esteem can take a lifetime to develop. See you at the gym brother 😂

[PeachyPie93]

Stubborn
Mood swings
Arrogant
Cynical
Sullen
Madden
Sarcastic
Rebellious

Yeah I could see someone like myself being very annoying lol

[HawkPerception]

Very honest answer. Love it

[sage2021]

My late boyfriend once said "We aren't two peas in a pod. We. are the same pod in a pea.🫛
That's how much alike we were. It was amazing❣️

We had a blast together every day we were together. Our sense of humor just fed off each other and we laughed all day until we went to sleep 😴 at night.

I know that we weren't perfect, but damn close.

No complaints!!

[HawkPerception]

But what of your flaws?

[sage2021]

What flaws? We never had to point 👉🏼 out any flaws to each other.

[HawkPerception]

Your own flaws. Are you a perfect person?

[sage2021]

I might have flaws but nothing ever came up that he had to point 👉🏼 out.
You know as well as I do that nobody is perfect. But some people are a lot better than others!🙂

[HawkPerception]

I agree that there are people that are much better than others. That isn't a debate.

I'm just asking you what your flaws are?

But if you don't think you have any to mention, that's fine

[On_cloud_wine]

I wouldn’t necessarily say that having OCD when it comes to perfecting and detailing and cleaning Md tidying up things, but it would drive me bonkers if someone I was with shared that same attribute

[Zack-Bann]

We would both enjoy giving each other compliments but struggle with accepting them from the other person

[ilistengood]

They would be too understanding, too generous, too good in bed, and more

[red-lipstick-girl]

He would be very jealous and possessive

[Dongie]

To many to list. Mostly physical from old wounds.

[Yoursweetgirl]

They'd be flawless 💅

[Chocolatetwopointtwo]

idk🤷‍♀️