If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife?

[pineappleorange]

You know how the song goes...

True, she's high maintenance, won't love you back and will probably cheat on you.

False, you seriously wanna be stuck with someone like this for the rest of your life?

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+1 y

by the way, the dancing in the video is off the hook.

[AlphaMale1]

I have been married two times to beautiful women. NEVER AGAIN.
They know they are beautiful, desired by many and stand out in a crowd. And so many guys want to fuck them.

It takes a good woman with morals to stay loyal to one man. And visa versa.

I am all done with beautiful women and rich women. Both have made my life a train wreck from hell while living with them. Give me the girl next door who wants a man she can please simply by making him a sandwich or go out together without wondering if she is fat or looks pretty enough. I have had my fill of this insanity lol

[pineappleorange]

A guy who isn't afraid to speak the truth.

[Buldarman]

Pretty women can only be tamed by ALPHA MALES who are financially secure/wealthy. Most men become soft and let pretty women walk all over them.

[conkrete721]

This

[pineappleorange]

Agree, it takes money. It doesn't matter if you're a GQ model and working as a server in a restaurant, she'll still cheat on you. But, she won't cheat on a rich guy because he probably has a bullet proof prenup. And yeah, I'd never marry a really hot girl without a prenup.

[athleteOPS]

THis is foolish. Im alpha as fuck (I really am- special forces, trilingual, masters degree, over 6 feet) and I never tamed anyone. I fuck a lot of sluts, but they cheat on me too

[athleteOPS]

I have crazy dread game, I have mastered the 48 laws and I clandestinely kill people and these sluts don't know loyalty

[DaniaMQ]

Omg wut? XD thats the silliest thing I've ever heard xD
for of all, beauty depends on the beholder. Each one sees pretty as a different and unique way. Second thing is that there's looots of pretty girls who are nice and will love you back endlessly

[pineappleorange]

I didn't make up the song, it's decades old.

[DaniaMQ]

Yeah I know its not you who came up with it, and I'm not saying that you are silly, I'm saying that its silly to say " if you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never have a pretty woman as your wife" thats so stupid, let it be whichever song. XD

[pineappleorange]

LOL, but why is it stupid? It's a known social fact that people (men or women) who are more attractive will have more options and have their faithfulness tested daily. If they aren't mature or a good person, then it will be awful to be with someone like that. I think that's what the writer is trying to say in this song.

[DaniaMQ]

Well, you do have a point about attractive guys or girls being tested daily when it comes to faithfulness. Now that you explained it that way I can see where the writer is coming from, but the title of it is just bad lol. It makes it sound like "if you get married/date a pretty girl then your life will be miserable with her" which isn't true xD

[PrincessPie]

i know i'm not unattractive and don't think just because someone is pretty it means they'll cheat i mean to be fair ugly people cheat too it not about the persons looks its about there character

[snowangle]

The bottom girl is cute, I don't know what you're talking about.

[pineappleorange]

Well, if the girl on top is a 10, the girl on the bottom is like a 2 or 3.

[HotDogg]

The girl on top is definitely not a 10... especially if she has to have that cake on her face.

[Like_a_Pisces]

that's what I was thinking... they're both pretty. I actually think the bottom picture is even cuter... but my taste is different than most other guys'.

[Bananaman177]

Bottom girl is totally pretty, I'd take her over the weird bimbo any day.

I think MOST beautiful women actually don't think they're beautiful, but yeah, if you find one who's pretty and THINKS she's pretty, you could potentially. . . have a bad time.

I guess legally, I'm required to say something like, "Oh, there's always exceptions to every rule. . ."

But uh. . . yeah. . .
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[snowangle]

That's kind of a sucky thing to say though. Only date an attractive girl if she has low self esteem? Wow.

[Bananaman177]

@snowangle Well, I just prefer to date girls who haven't been worshiped and treated like perfect princesses and given everything they want for free their whole lives, I just think it totally warps them and twists their minds and makes them more and more mentally unstable as life goes on. Especially when their looks start fading, all of a sudden they have to grow up finally, but most of them retreat further into arrested development and perpetual adolescence.

[snowangle]

Okay, that makes sense. But being spoiled and immature is a totally different thing than just knowing that you are pretty. It's very possible for a mature, grounded woman to also have a positive body image. But it sounds like you already know that, and just could have phrased it better.

[Bananaman177]

@snowangle I said there are exceptions, but I don't want to give anybody the false impression that they aren't rarer than rare. A pretty girl who's still really nice is about as common as a unicorn these days. And remember, I mean girls who are seen as pretty by others. Women who conform to modern Western beauty standards. Women who look like what magazine covers all think women should look like.

Most truly beautiful women think that that's what beauty is and if they don't look beautiful like THOSE girls, then they must be ugly. I see girls every day, all day long who look prettier to me than all these models and actresses and pop stars. But you can tell, especially if you get to know them, that deep down they think all those plastic women are the pretty ones and they're just average at best.

[pineappleorange]

@snowangle But being pretty usually leads to girls being spoiled and thus never being able to mature and have a deep sense of selflessness.

[pineappleorange]

"And remember, I mean girls who are seen as pretty by others. Women who conform to modern Western beauty standards. Women who look like what magazine covers all think women should look like. "

Ding!! Ding!! Ding!! Exactamundo!!

[rainstained]

Just so that you know the only difference between the two photos is makeup and airbrushing. The other woman can look just as physically pretty with some foundation, eyeliner, lip gloss and some hair mouse.
If you don't realize this by now I just felt someone should inform you.

[pineappleorange]

Actually, their face and eye shapes are quite different. Bottom girl has more round eyes and top girl has more sexy, cat eyes. Makeup can help the bottom girl but she won't be like the top girl.

[pineappleorange]

But, if you don't realize this by now, those pictures up there were just examples. There are such things in real life as hot women and women who are just average. Here's another example.

Hot:
https://imgur.com/a/j97aJ

Not:
https://imgur.com/a/mGSyK

If you still can't figure this out, then please let me know and I'll try to find more examples to help you understand. Thanks! :)

[samhradh_leannan]

@pineappleorange You're still choosing women with makeup as the attractive examples and women without makeup for the unattractive examples.

[samhradh_leannan]

Makeup makes a BIG difference, and can even change someone's perceived face shape. Don't underestimate the power of makeup.

[pineappleorange]

@samhradh_leannan Of course that's true. But, can you seriously deny that some women are just born beautiful with or without makeup and most other women are not?

No Makeup: shesaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/lush.jpg

I'm just honestly trying to help you realize that not all humans are born equal. There are such things in real life as attractive girls and ugly girls. Just like there is with guys as well.
If you don't realize this by now I just felt someone should inform you.

No Makeup: itsgravybaby.com/.../Crying.jpg

[Pomegranate139]

Not trying to bust your bubble, but your 'natural' girl is still wearing make up, not to mention lighting and a better camera

[samhradh_leannan]

There is DEFINITELY makeup on that top girl, lol.

[pineappleorange]

@Pomegranate139 You mean the comparison between these two?

shesaid.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/lush.jpg
itsgravybaby.com/.../Crying.jpg

[Pomegranate139]

Yeah. She has make up. Not as much as your other examples, but she is still wearing some. But you can tell she's pretty though.

[pineappleorange]

@Pomegranate139 Yeah, I could find other examples of pretty and ugly girls without makeup but you get my point. There are some girls who are just lucky and have won the genetic lottery. They tend to get treated very well (even spoiled) by society and that shapes their personality. I think that's the main "jist" of this song.

[athleteOPS]

IF you are handsome and skilled snough that she looks up to you unconditionally and believes you are her superman, you will love it. As soonas she thinks she can do better, its hell

[NatashaJ]

But there plenty of dude who are not Brad Pitt look standard that cheat so why should women marry ugly men that cheat? but don't marry a hot girl she will cheat?

[pineappleorange]

Women should not marry ugly men who cheat. I agree!!

Men shouldn't marry girls who will cheat either.

[NatashaJ]

Well it just petty people trying to find a reason why they were done wrong so they jump to looks, manners etc. Can we all agree that if just MAYBE they did what they did to you because they are not a nice person? and get over it because Karma will deal with it?

[Helpmeobiwan]

I think everyone differs. Not every pretty girl is high maintenance and not every unattractive girl isn't.

[pineappleorange]

Yeah, there's exceptions to every rule. But, in general this is true. It's a known social fact that people (men or women) who are more attractive will have more options and have their faithfulness tested daily. If they aren't mature or a good person, then it will be awful to be with someone like that. I think that's what the writer is trying to say in this song.

[samhradh_leannan]

Is that bottom girl really supposed to be the epitome of unattractive?

[pineappleorange]

No, I just did a google search and picked one at random. She's definitely not

cdn.hercampus.com/.../Dubauskas.CoverPhoto.jpg

[Rissyanne]

I hope you dont tell your wife or your future wife this.

[pineappleorange]

I'm going to marry a beautiful wife.

[Rissyanne]

Then why the hell are you telling men not to marry a beautiful wife?

[pineappleorange]

It was a question. I wasn't telling anyone to do anything. That's why it ended in a "?".

[Rissyanne]

It ended in a question mark because you have to... you dont have a choice. And if you are so sure you are... why ask?

[pineappleorange]

I wanted to see what other people's opinions are on this subject. Isn't that the whole point of this website?

[Rissyanne]

Sure but you may not agree with every opinion

[pineappleorange]

But the awareness others' ideas is the foundation of self-improvement. Whether or not you agree with them, that is the foundation of self-restraint.

[Muhammad1999]

The girl in the second pic looks much prettier than the shitty blonde one

[pineappleorange]

Would you take the girl in the 2nd pic over this one?

www.fashiongonerogue.com/.../...s-illustrated7.jpg

[Muhammad1999]

Yes still

[pineappleorange]

What about this one?

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[Muhammad1999]

Yuck she's very skinny , the other girl is still better

[Muhammad1999]

Also not attacted to blondes , im attracted to brunettes whom have big dark eyes

[kickme]

never trust anything that bleeds for 5 days and doesn't die

[Fitness-Fanatic]

That song was written for insecure men lol

[skeptic002]

not true a lot of hot women like hot men are very annoying to deal with it just for looks
plus its a funny song

[pineappleorange]

@skeptic002 +1

[pineappleorange]

It's a known social fact that people (men or women) who are more attractive will have more options and have their faithfulness tested daily. If they aren't mature or a good person, then it will be awful to be with someone like that. I think that's what the writer is trying to say in this song.

[Seabast]

This is a pretty dumb poll.

[pineappleorange]

Not as dumb as your reply.

[Seabast]

Nice one.

[Pomegranate139]

Depends on your definition of pretty

[pineappleorange]

This is how most men define pretty:

updatedtrends.com/.../...t_diet_lifestyle_body.jpg

Pretty != a good heart

Which is exactly what the song is talking about!