Moral wise, it is not ok, but to be honest, you don't know who you are compatible with until you try to be with different people. I think you can have coffee with them but don't do kisses and fondling. At least you are not having sex with all of them that's the good part.
If you're going to date several people at the same time, you should be honest with them about it. You should also wait with the sex and the mouth kissing until you're stuck with one in my opinion.
If you haven't give any of them the title of girlfriend then its not wrong. Its better to not put all your emotions on 1 person in case they abandon you. Keep your options open but stay decent.
I'd advise against it. Even if you end up liking one over the other two, that just means you didn't give two of them a fair chance. And if finding real, lasting love is the meaning of life then you may have just lost that to ego.
I've done and made sure all knew that I was dating other girls as well and had no problems other than trying to remember what piece of info belongs to what girl... shit's hard
Yes, you should try to meet many girls before you settle down with one. It's ok to date three or seven or seventeen as long as you aren't making false promises.
I honestly wouldn't recommend it. Besides the fact it might be considered cheating, you might catch feelings for multiple people and end up making you choose between 2 people you really care about which I a really hard thing to do. Plus when you start to date only one person the other might have fallen in love with you which means you'd end up breaking their heart and start having trust issues.
As long as everyone involved is in agreement (or that they even know), there's no problem. Keeping something like this in the shadows just won't go well.
Are you planning to get in a serious relationship with all three? If not you shouldn't lead the others on. Also how would you feel if they were getting frisky with other guys well you were dating them?
I'd say for me personally, no. I wouldn't be OK dating likethat.
But everyone is different
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As an older guy I say keep it up not matter what the girls say on here. I was in the same scenario a few years ago and I lost out big time because of my unnecessary conscious.
Until a girl asks you to go steady its best to make yourself a hot commodity.
I say no personally. As far as I'm concerned I'm exclusive from the first date. I'm not okay with the person I'm dating seeing a bunch of people. And that's how I feel about that.
Which one makes you smile, do you see her making you happy 6 months from now. Be decisive, dont play with their feelings, choose 1 rather learn from loss than become known as a player.
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Moral wise, it is not ok, but to be honest, you don't know who you are compatible with until you try to be with different people. I think you can have coffee with them but don't do kisses and fondling. At least you are not having sex with all of them that's the good part.
If you're going to date several people at the same time, you should be honest with them about it. You should also wait with the sex and the mouth kissing until you're stuck with one in my opinion.
Dating is like applying to colleges. You always have safety school in case you don't get your first choice.
If you haven't give any of them the title of girlfriend then its not wrong. Its better to not put all your emotions on 1 person in case they abandon you. Keep your options open but stay decent.
I'd advise against it. Even if you end up liking one over the other two, that just means you didn't give two of them a fair chance. And if finding real, lasting love is the meaning of life then you may have just lost that to ego.
I've done and made sure all knew that I was dating other girls as well and had no problems other than trying to remember what piece of info belongs to what girl... shit's
hard
Yes, you should try to meet many girls before you settle down with one. It's ok to date three or seven or seventeen as long as you aren't making false promises.
I honestly wouldn't recommend it. Besides the fact it might be considered cheating, you might catch feelings for multiple people and end up making you choose between 2 people you really care about which I a really hard thing to do. Plus when you start to date only one person the other might have fallen in love with you which means you'd end up breaking their heart and start having trust issues.
0. just be playful witty romantic naughty flirty etc. rather than going physical going on bed with them
1. how would you feel if they also doing the same
2. beware you may get std/hiv/hcv or like things
3. & above all try to get "your one" from many, only with her you will enjoy fully everything
As long as everyone involved is in agreement (or that they even know), there's no problem. Keeping something like this in the shadows just won't go well.
Are you planning to get in a serious relationship with all three? If not you shouldn't lead the others on.
Also how would you feel if they were getting frisky with other guys well you were dating them?
I'd say for me personally, no. I wouldn't be OK dating likethat.
But everyone is different
As an older guy I say keep it up not matter what the girls say on here. I was in the same scenario a few years ago and I lost out big time because of my unnecessary conscious.
Until a girl asks you to go steady its best to make yourself a hot commodity.
Its fine if they're fine eith it. They might not approve of you dating other women.
I say no personally. As far as I'm concerned I'm exclusive from the first date. I'm not okay with the person I'm dating seeing a bunch of people. And that's how I feel about that.
Personally, I don't believe what you're doing is right. Someone should focus on one and if it doesn't work move on. Don't do multiple at once
Which one makes you smile, do you see her making you happy 6 months from now. Be decisive, dont play with their feelings, choose 1 rather learn from loss than become known as a player.
No.. This is bad..
All that you looking forward is putting yourself in messy situations...
Stick to ONE
As long as nothing is official, sure. Just be honest and don't lie if confronted. If you're not in an official monogamous relationship then go for it.
Would you feel comfortable knowing they were dating other guys? If you can answer this then follow your own admission.