Guy Friend unfollowed me on instagram because of his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

So i am not the kind of girl that goes around doing the stuff like blocking/unfollowing people. I dont take social media that seriously. But this friend's girlfriend got super insecure when her boyfriend used to like my instagram pics that he made him unfollow me. I still follow him and likw his pictures and somwtimes comment as well. Am i doing the right thing? is it something like i am not respecting my self worth? Should i not like his pictures? Cz this sounds pretty insane and childish to me.

[btbc92]

You need to learn to accept his relationship and the boundaries that comes with it. That does not make his girlfriend crazy and incesure. You don't really know what your guy friend really thinks of you accept what he tells you. His lrivate matters are with his girlfriend. Though I don't agree if their living together and doing things most unmarried couples should do only AS a married couple, the point is of he wants to keep the relationship with her, he needs to respect how she personally feels. Even if it's possible that she's a bit insecure about it, why make her more insecure? Would you like it if somebody did something you don't like that makes you insecure to not trust that person? You can't get to emotionally involved once somebody your close to is dating or married. That is reality or you may end up destroying somebody else's happiness. Of he felt neglected or abused I'm sure he would not stay with her. Until then, her insecurity isn't for you to judge. Why? Because every one of us has an insecurity about something somewhere.

And besides. These days you know what liking somebody's pictures, especially somebody who looks sexual attractive to somebody means on social media. I get and understand what you are saying. But don't forget, your friend is with somebody else. He has to respect it. As long as he doesn't treat you disrespectfully or different, don't worry about it.

[Wonderer89]

It sounds petty and insane that she asked him to remove you or it sounds petty and insane that you actually care?

[meatballs21]

Interesting to see the other side of this very common (on here) issue - the girl being blocked by the crazy girlfriend of her guy friend. There isn't a a lot you can do here, trying to appeal to reason won't work since this is an unreasonable action for her to take.

[truthbeknown]

Sorry, this is normal when people get into serious relationships. She is making so he doesn't wander.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you didn’t respect the boundaries of their relationship.

Also, why do you need to follow him when he unfollowed you. What’s the point in keeping him around and liking his stuff? What do you gain from that?

Both you and his girlfriend sound childish to me.