So about a month has passed since I asked my question. Lots of events have taken place. It's as if he comes and goes back and forth only when he runs out of Xanax. Not 100%, but this is pretty much the way I have been seeing it. He is prescribed, so every 30 days he can renew. But, I know he abuses them so they go much quicker than that. So say after 15 days, he runs out. For the remaining 15 days until he can get his new bottle, that's when it seems like he shows attention and affection. Other than that, he just doesn't care about anything. No emotion, only ever wants to smoke and hangout with his friends. I'll ask him to do things. For example, yesterday the weather was so nice. So I asked if he'd want to go get ice cream later, and he said, "maybe." He didn't reply the rest of the night. Then I see him on Snapchat with his friends partying instead. And I've said before, "Imagine life without me. Would you be okay with that? You're driving me away with the way you treat me. So what if we were just done?" And he'll reply sometimes, "I don't really care. I'm fine either way." Even though, down inside I know it wouldn't be for him. But It's been five years, so I'm not crazy. Lol I'm just tired of not getting any of the attention or affection you're supposed to get in a relationship. Like, he doesn't even text me, contact me, or communicate with me at all anymore because of this. And I still don't understand. I've thought about going in to see his doctor, to try telling him this prescription is not for him, and telling him about the abuse. But is that really my place? It's just frustrating. I don't know what to do.
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