If your are hot then we assume you are psycho crazy if you are single and we wonder what is mentally wrong with you that made you single. It's a surprise when you seem sane so that is the usual response. Define "plenty". There's 100M more men than women before even considering attractiveness or sanity. The holy trinity of hot, sane, and single is actually as rare as total solar eclipses viewable from any one particular spot (about one every few thousand years). Most are in fact taken, psycho/have issues, or fat/ugly or a combination thereof.
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I have said that (more than once), because in my imagination, the prettiest, smartest, most well-adjusted people pair off quickly. And it leaves marginally defective people like me hoping to find a decent (if not fantastic) partner. It is like when I used to look at & read Playboy Magazine, then I would feel like everybody is young and prosperous, and beautiful, and having a wonderful time EXCEPT ME ( and my friendstoo, I guess).
It doesn't mean anything if by random people. I get told that often until they hear my reasons and then all of a sudden turned off like a light bulb. I honestly just hate the fact people bring that up. However, your already going on dates with somebody, so more and likely he's very much attracted to you and it's more than just your looks. It's not flattery, it's more of honesty.
I know guys are always like I don't believe you've never had a boyfriend do I seem slutty to you or what haha
They really think that there might be something wrong with you because you are too good looking to be single.
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he is flirting with u :D
he is saying u are very hot , its impossible that u r single coz guys will be throwing themselves at u , u r so awesome etc...
so ge got a point XD he like u and find u very nice person + hot , which he will find it weird truly if u are single doesn't i told my girlfriend , that guys in her town are blind otherwise she won't be single hhhh XD my ex was gorgeous."Just trying to flatter you? Or Are they trying to figure out what's wrong with you?"
Maybe a little of both, but more likely sincere amazement that you are available. There are NOT plenty of awesome girls available. There's more than the MGTOW crowd thinks, but a really great girl is rare and valuable.If you could point me to where all of these awesome single girls are, I'd be forever grateful. Lol.
Guys say that because almost every single worthwhile/girlfriend-material girl is taken! It's honestly shocking when a "good catch" is single. I would take it as one of the highest forms of flattery, if I were a girl.Most guys expect attractive girls to be taken or have a lineup of guys to choose from. When they find a girl that doesn't meet this, its a shock to their world. Like, "this shit actually happens?" Its a pleasant surprise, but its unexpected.
Lol! Same is the issue with me, no one believes I'm single so I don't talk to people about this. Whenever people ask me such questions, I'm like 'anything important you gotta say? No? Then bye'
He's expressing, "Wow, I found a good one. How did another guy not catch her before me?". He's also probably hooked on being in a relationship.
It's meant as flattery not an insult. He is surprised that you're such a great person and hanging out with him. He feels lucky to be with you.
He is basically telling you, you are very attractive and wants to know how come you are not yet in a relationship since every guy will make a move at you. ya a flattery
Means you're hot af and you must have been hiding in a cave to not have been snatched up already
All they mean is you look so pretty then how do you manage to stay single?
LOL! i know guys are always like i don't believe you've never had a boyfriend do i seem slutty to you or what haha
Got a long list of ex lovers, they'll tell you im insane... #imsinglebecauseimpsycho lmao
he's expressing his surprise that you don't have a significant other based on how good of a partner he thinks you would make.
I think i did that before , yeah my intention is to flatter her. Well after few months i think i know why , she is extremely busy person ( because of work) and almost have no time for dating lol
It means he is surprised that you're not taken because you're beautiful or you're a really amazing girl, etc.
It means he's flirting with you, he thinks you're a great catch.
Because its actually so hard for us to get a girlfriend.
they're very attracted to you
maybe because you are too attractive
lol I can understand your pain
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